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Easier said than done...
Sorry its long!!! But ill rate you if you answer.
Over the past 11 monthes i have liked this one guy. His name is Craig. And we dated a little while a few monthes ago but some stuff happened and we broke up for no reason. So he got over me, but i never got over him. So recently we went to a party and we played football. well the entire time he kept tackleing me, but none of the other girls. And he didnt want me to leave. Then my friend asked him if he liked me and he said he never thought about it. I really want to tell him i like him to make him think about, but i dont want to A. risk our friendship, and B. get rejected. What do you think about all of this and how should i handle it?
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I don't think there's any way you can not have the chance of risking your friendship or getting rejected - its all part of liking someone. You could send a friend to do your dirty work - ask him if he's into you and what he thinks of you and whatnot.. but eventually, you're going to have to own up and tell him how you're feeling. You might get rejected and you might risk your friendship, but you might not. And which is better - taking a chance or liking someone for practically a year without telling him?
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i think if you really like him, and it sounds like he likes you. you should just risk your friendship for that. i hope i helped!
~Cody Loveland
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Sounds like he was flirting. I say talk to him one-on-one, and tell him how you feel. You'll most likely regret it if you don't. And rejection is one of those things that you have to get used to. If he says he doesn't like you, it should make it easier to get over him. I mean at least you'll know for sure, and you can think, "Ok...Moving on...There are plenty of other guys out there."
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Well first off. Craigs a hot name :) haha, and second off, look for signs that he likes you. When you guys were dating, im sure there was that vibe there....if you start feeling that vibe again its a total go!, but if not, start showing him little by little...flirt with him back if he flirts with you, but one thing you NEED to avoid...is jumping to conclusions...its the worst thing to do, i know its hard to avoid but try too, because if you dont, your just going to get yourself hurt even more than what you would if you didnt jump to conclusions. If you get to the point and cant take it anymore and just wanna KNOW whether he likes you or not. comfront him. or have a friend do it for you. just flat out say * Listen, I like you. a lot....and i dont know if you feel the same way, but theres nothing i can do about my feelings. you cant make yourself not like someone.* or just ask him. I hope I helped! If you need anything else just e-mail me :)
Good luck!
-Jenn
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ok-wut could be better then a friend you get to hangout with all the time and flirt with?-yea im shure you want more-like that way you kno its just you hes flirting with-i dont think you shoudl tell him rite now-just keep flirting back-but at the same time dont put youself all out there-make him chase you-guys dont like to be chased by grls most of the time--
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well he deff likes you! if u dont want to take a risk you will regret it in the long run! so just tell him... i dont think there is a specific way to handle it just act yourself!
HOPE I HELPED!
x ♥ x ♥ Michelle
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