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hey ppls.
i love gymnastics and ive always wanted to do it(im 13 and have never been in classes)but i had a bad left knee and i had surgery on it. but when i had the bad knee i was favouring it so i had to put most of my weight on my right knee and it kinda made that one hurt too. but i just started to notice that it hurt not too long ago. and then ive had to favour my right knee and put my weight on my left. so now both of my knees hurt. i really want to do gymnastics but for alot of the moves you have to have strong legs and knees and i really dont know what to do about it. please help.
thanks
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It seem's like you have serious injuries, however sometimes there is someting you can do for most any kind of injury, Try riding a bike 5 or 10 minuites every day slowly with caution so you wont agravate the injury instead of getting you're kness strong, also stretching you're leg's and short walk's should help,Taking minerals as prescribed are very helpfull.
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I go to this camp & I'm in close contact with this one guy who I have a little crush on. From his body language I can tell that he's kind of into me but he's never talked to me. I smile at him but he's too shy to make conversation. Camp ends soon, how can I get this guy out of his shell?! (link)
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Walk up to him introduce you're selfand ask him if he will drink a soda with you, there is nothing wrong on doing thid , it will at least get you to know him or if he is very bashfull you might have to take him by the hand, if he don't like you he won't move him from where he is standing, he will lock-up like the donkey's. Good luck don't have to many children.
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Ok, i heard that when you are tired you get bags under your eyes. Well even when i get a lot of sleep, i still have bags under my eyes. I don't know why it does it. I don't have any serious allergies that would cause it or sinuses. Also, when i put concealer on it helps a little but not that much. Anyone know why and how i can fix it? (link)
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Most of the times bags under you eyes come from pressure that you don't know you have on you're head you need to have a MRI of you're brain, I am not trying to scare you but an MRI can tell alot, also you might need glasses. Good Luck.
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is there a way to change my eye color (like a product or something) that I can buy with no permission and under 18????????? (link)
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No, but you can buy collor contect lenses.
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Oka were can i start well first off im 15 and i like this boy. He knows i like him and well he flirts alot with me. And like i dont wanna give my hopes up thinking he likes me when he might not like me but then again i dont know because sometimes he seems like he do and sometimes and dont. Like one time my friend told me he always ask about me like asking if i still like him and stuff like that. And if he dont likes me then why is he flirting with me and always just messing aorund with me dont he know all it doese is just makes me like him more. Its just everything dont seems right to me at all. How can i tell if he like me? Oh and i never actually ask him if he likes me because he be talking to other girls and i always just be thinking he dont. If he knew i like him and he talkin to other girls and plus i found out he liked another girl but not no more. Anways im just soo confuse to it all. (link)
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You even confused me, ask him out on a date and find out what developes, get you're confussion together, the end or a begining.
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right now im overdosed. i probably wont even remember that i wrote this. but i took like 10 advil, some pepto bismol, an anitbacteria pill. i had an ingrown toenail taken out today, so ive had shots of like morephine and adreneline? soo i think im overdosed. i feel like passing out and my pulse is a bit fast. my cast fell off of my toenail and blood everywhere. my period started again today, horrible, horrible cramps. what do i take for alllll the pain???????? i cant take anymore, im already overdosed.
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No question you need to go to the emergency room it is very necessary, hope you go.
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I'm not really sure how to start this so I'm just going to jump right in...
I was in a very abusive relationship for about 2 years, the guy hit me and would call me fat and just a lot of really bad things that I don't like to talk about.
Well, I got out of that relationship and it's been about a year and a half almost 2 years since then but I'm still having a very hard time with guys.
Every guy I've met (since the ex that abused me) stops talking to me. I always seem to scare them off I think. And I think it's because I'm very scared of guys and I tend to overreact over things because of it.
Any time a guy I meet does something my ex used to do I get scared because I'm so afraid of being adused again and being in a bad relationship like that so I freak out.
Like for instance the last guy I tried to talk to, he wanted me to "open up to him" because he said I seemed so sad and he wanted to know why. So I let my gaurd down and I told him SOME of the things that happened. Well, after I told the guy he started acting different before he left my house and he didn't call me when he got home, but he said he'd text me in the morning, well it was about 11am and he didnt text or call so I started texting him telling him how stupid i was for opening up to him and how he's acting different and he got really mad at me saying he was sleeping and how he doesn't understand how he was acting different. Well, we were fighting almost all day but I said I was sorry and things SEEMED fine because I thought we worked it out. But then after that he stopped talking to me... I tired texting him but he never responded and when I saw him he acted like he didn't know me so I started to do the same.
My question is, how do I stop scaring good guys off just because of what one bad guy did to me? I don't like people thinking I'm crazy, I'm not I'm just very scared and push people away. But I do just want to be liked and I'd like to be in a good relationship and I feel like just because of that one bad one it's ruined my chances and I feel like I don't even know how to act anymore around people. The abusive guy was my first bf, and I did sleep with him and not really by choice (not sure if that matters.) It was just very bad and my self esteem got very low. Does anyone have any suggestions? (sorry this is so long...) (link)
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Tere are special programs for sbuse women look in the yellow pages find a program and go to take lesson's for abuse, they are very helpfull and set you're mind straight, you're probably suffering from fear fobias,
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Okay, well i have been doing alot of reasearch. And lately, i know that i need a therapist. I know i have a problem. A mental problem. But the problem is...I am only 13 in a half years old! What therapist is gonna wanna help a teen who porbably thinks its just "Boy Troubles" or something?! And i cant tell my family. They wont take me...becuase they dont have enough money..and because they dont know how i feel. i normally hide my emotions. They think im fine. And i need help a.s.a.p or im afriad things might get worse!
please help me! any advice will do!
Thank you sooooooooo much!
- love Nikki (: (link)
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I can probably help you, and i would like to very mush, find a way to e-mail me to my e-mail address telling me what are you're problems and we can start on that, contact the,Advicenators regarding my e-mail address, I give my permission for Advicenators to give you my personal e-mail address,hope this work's.I have been a Healer for 22 years and have experience from a DON.
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Me and my best friend austin are very close friends.
We do everything together. We used to go to the amusement park like everyday for the past 3 summers until he got a job there. he promised he wouldnt but did anyway.
Me and him always used to argue though because we were so close i think. It bothered me alot. But I still cared about him. However, one day at school I got pissed because he was saying how i always talk about myself (maybe because he was my first best friend). I'm not too social, and he helped me become a better person and i learned alot from him. That day that he said that I got really mad, I transfered schools, and then dropped out the end of my junior year in highschool. It is now my junior yr summer, and I have adult ed in the fall. Since hes been working we havent talked much. Me and him didnt go to the amusement park like we used to not once yet. We planned for it one day, but i decided to go car shopping instead.. I felt like he was going to be better than me, or have something that i want. maybe I'm insecure about myself I'm not sure.
I always feel like we are competing against each other. Weather it's who works out more, who has more muscle, who gets their license first, or even who has a nicer shirt. I feel like I'm jealous of him. Alot of people dont know I am, but I am. I think this is whats holding me back from hanging out with him. He's my best friend though, but maybe were too alike?? I feel alone he was like my only close friend. I only have aquaintances really. I want this jealousy to end. and this competeing.
I want it to be like it used to be.
For some reason I like it when I seem better than my friends is this normal??
I got him to work out, and to run, and to buy hollister clothes and everything cool looking, and he did, and now its like affecting the way i feel about myself
Pleasse give any advice
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It seems like you like you're frienf more then you normally like a friend, get you're act together and slack off, keep a more unatached relationship and act like a male.
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oh my god.... one of my closest friends is married with a kid and her god forsaken husband cheated on her again. and he lied about it until she threw proof at him... she is the most loyal person i know and she is very loving. she takes care of everything and works and studies in the same time (not to mention her daughter) and her husband just sticks to the tv and does nothing because he is really really addicted to wwe and ufc. (he records and re-watches them every hour of the day) if not he is playing video games. she even got him a job through her contacts as a game tester and filled in his college application and loans and everything... and then she found out what he'd done and was on the verge of suicide.. i calmed her down that is not the issue but she doesn't know what to do next and she wants to leave him! i really want to help her get rid of this (her family is not too keen with divorce and i live with five roommates!!) she works part time and she studies and i know if she tells her mum she'll force her to take in all this crap and suck it in... i don't think it's fair that she has to suffer through this!!! what should we do? we live in canada. is there a way that i could help her out? seek help and get rid of this!?!?! i mean we don't have alot of money ... what is our option right now? please help!! (link)
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Seems like a lost merriage, Divorce seems like it is necessary in order for her to get rid of that lazy bum and try to make a life of her own, It's hard to take this steps when you are short of money, sometimes there are state program's that can help seeing it is necessary to take this steps for the safty of you and you're child. Good Luck
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So I took a course on babysitting/kidsitting. I talked to multiple people in my neighborhood about it. Most of them said that if I took it they would hire me. So I took the course but now that I have the certificate nobody will hire me. I am afraid to put up flyers because I heard about how some people call the numbers and pretend they have kids to babysit but then they are like perverts and end up like kidnapping they babysitters. I want a job but noone will hire me. What is a good but safe way to get the word out that I'm certified and avalible to work? (link)
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Look in you're hometown newpaper, under wanted, and you can havethem checked out.
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i was wondering if like a normal girl lol gets wet when shes like having an orgasm and stuff.. i wasnt sure and i fingered myself to answer my own question and i had an orgasm for sure but i didnt get like wetttt i had a little bit of discharge and then a little bit later i tryed it again and i was actually kind of dry down there it was hard to finger myself because it was like really dry and it hurt because my finger wasnt like sliding so i was wondering are you supposed to cum a lot or something like whats supposed to happen? (link)
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Try using baby oil and use very little pressure something like just lighty sliding you're oiled fingers up and down till you cum, it's probably you're first time for you, you're normal need will soon develope as you go.
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everythings going wrong with me and i don't know why... i keep crying uncontrollably and i cant stop. I don't to leave my room cuz i'm scared if i'm in public i'll just randomly start crying and everyone will think i'm a freak... and my eyes are all swollen from crying to much... so bascially i just sit at home all day at eat and think about how pathetic i am and cry... i want to be happy but i don't know how to make this stop. I've even thought about suicide but i couldnt do that
So basically what i'm asking for is advice on how to make me happy. Things that make you happy... blah blah blah (link)
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You mention that every thing is going wrong with you, you should have written some of the things that are going wrong with you, that's probably part of the problem, also you seem to have some fobias, how- ever you should stop crying and start figuring out the root of the problem then ask for advice on how to fix it or start fixing it you're self, crying like you do must be looked at before it developes into something serious, Wish i could have a conversation with you to see what developes about you're problem,Wish there was a better way of communication, probably i could help, any ideas.
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what are some things that turn a guy on?
like.. while you're making out and stuff, what are different things that you can do? cause after a while, it just seems like the same old stuffff. (link)
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Sex is sex and there are different things you can do to make sex fell good, however no matter how many things or stuff you tryout you wound up having intercorse to fullfill you're self, something that helps is to take you're time and try to enjoy sex the right way, maybe you're short change on sex, try to get some advice from someone you trust, maybe it can get more completed.
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im having surgery done it tomorrow. ive had it done before...but after surgery will i like be out of it cause of the drugs? i can't remember lol. i kno it hurts. and does anyone know like how i can numb my toe or like make it soft before the needles go in? I want it to be as painless as possible. My mom used to be able and get me numb cream, but isnt able too this time.
thanks.
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Tell the Doctor to take his time on numing you're toes, they can make less painless if they use the needle on short shots.
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I went on vacation with my aunt, and when we returned home we had caught scabies from the chalet we stayed in.
We treated the scabies and they dissapeared successfuily, but now i am left with red marks/scars where the scabies burrows were.
How can i get rid of them? (link)
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Use petrolium vaseline continuesly that should help, if last resort Laser Surgery.
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I've tried a butt load of things to lighten my dark spots. Honey, sugar, olive oil, lemon juice. I've also bought Meladerm, Dermaline, and Paris extreme whitening cream. I've been putting Dermaline on my knees, and when I saw my skin was peeling, I was happy [since it says it's "supposed" to peel in order for it to work]. I started applying it on my face. Now my mustache area, as well as the area around it, is noticeably whiter than the rest p my face, and it's the only part on my face I DON'T put it on! It looks like when you first wax your mustache. It's as if the cream is darkening my face, and it gets more noticeable every day. Obviously I've stopped applying it, but I don't know how to get rid of it. I don't even care if I have to DARKEN that part of my face, I just want my tone to be even before school starts. I know I'm blowing it out of prorportion, but I'm gonna slit my wrists if this doesn't go away. We've all got too much crap to deal with to be worrying about being made fun of for having a white mustache. ThnXx in advance guys. (link)
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Yoy can try fresh carret juice, it might give you a brown color on the skin first but later on it's suppose to fix tne problem, also use vitamin e. oil with alovera, this should make the skin free of bacteris, it's a slow process but it beats slaching you're wrist.
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My 7 month old son was born healthy an on time, but as his tear ducts started to form (I think around 3 weeks) on one of his eyes the duct opened up on the outside. So now he has a little tiny hole in the corner of his eye. What I am wondering is if ther are any other mom's out there that have had this type of thing happen and if so, what needed to be done to fix it. He is continuously having tears and sleep yucky stuff coming out it. Please let me know any advise.
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Don't waste time it could be something serious, take him to a eye specialist. Hope it'e something minor.
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i know who i am and i am very comfortable with it. i don't mind sharing myself except that the true me will probably send my family's reputation down the drain and give all it's members a heart attack.
3 years ago i graduated from highschool and was getting ready to go to college after summer. in the middle of it my grandfather died and the whole family had to pack and leave one night and spend the rest of the time in another city (which happens to be near my college). i was only given 1/2 a day to pack since my grandfather was on the verge of dying and my parents thought we could still make it in time.... little did i know that i wasn't going home for another three years....
here's the problem... in highschool i use to to write stories.... and i use to lock them up in this drawer in my room.... i have 2 keys one with me and the other i hid there just in case... i would have gone back to get it except my family decided to close the house and take a tour around the world... this year they returned and invited my older siblings to the house... my eldest found the key and i'm assuming she read everything and has been calling me for a TALK.... i know she probably took everything too in case she didn't get the chance to talk to me and i returned (so i won't burn them and she'd corner me when she has the chance) in any other situation i would have said so what because i know that i have no privacy. but writing is an outlet and at the time i really needed one....
the problem here is the content.... i've never had sex yet but i'm as experienced as could possibly be with out... and my stories are about sex and fantasies... and the charecters almost always have my name and the stories almost always talk about running away with a stranger and cover a spectrum of various taboos.... i am very explicit when i write (i mean worse than any porn screenwriter could ever be but not as vulgar) i don't write that way except in private and now that privacy is taken away. how do i deal with the embarrassment? and how do i prove that this is purely out of imagination not experience? i've lied before about befriending gays and lesbians and teens and what not so i don't have credit for the truth to be taken seriously. and my family has strong beliefs (very conservative!) about abortion, abstinence, homosexuality and so forth... i know i'm different but i love them so much to break away despite the possible drastic measures they may take.... for now how do i just fix this situation....
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I can't see that you have a major problem, you fantacise alot, somewhat a writer which i think this is what it really is, you're defence is that you are studing to be a writer and that is materal you use for you're work even thoug it contains sexual writings, i can't see what if any thing else you could do that would help the problem, or maybe you can think of a better one.
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I really like this boy at school but I only ever talk to him on myspace.
Ive talked to him a little bit in person but only a few times a couple of months ago.
Im not a confident person at all, what can I do?
I know he likes me or he is at least trying to get to know me, he is always the one who starts the conversation. He usually only asks me questions about school and we talk aboutour teachers and stuff. We've never really talked about anything else. I find it a bit awkward coz he is in my class but we dnt really talk, only online. I am not confident and i dont know what to do.
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Take you're time sometimes some guy's are shy and have problems getting to say the thing's they wan't to say, like he likes you and would like to take you to the movies, or want to have a close friendship with you, give him time or if it get's to the point to where you have to hold his hand when you see him, that might help him on opening up to you, or mention that you find him attracted to you and you think of him being very special to you,However something like that might make him take off a hundred miles an hour, so be carfull to make him understand that you are a sincere respectfull lady.
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