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My friend is leaving so me and some friends decided to make her a 'bebo' and 'myspace' flash box with pictures of everyone on. We just need a song. Can you suggest any good songs with lyrics relating to missing people/friendships.
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well this is just a suggestion, november rain by Guns N' Roses is good, it reminds me of ur situation
GoodLuck
Jon a.K.a GateKeeper
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How do you kiss? How do you know if your a good kisser? No slopy wet ones and dont say if you can tie something with your toung or unwrape anything with your tounge.Also i wanna kiss my boyfriend how would i make a move what would be a cute way also it has to be sitting down because hes taller than me thanx (link)
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well a cute thing my girl frends did with are kiss was this
we were staring at each other, smiling then she said "Good god, do i have to do everything?" then she grabbed me, pulled me down* she was lying her head onmy lap and was stretched out* and she gave me a soft kiss on the lips
GoodLuck
Jon a.K.a GateKeeper
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recently i learned how completly nieve ive been. it turns out like a ton of people at my school cut themselves and i didn't notice at all. these are people im rwally close to...one's my best friend but you don't know her so as i promised i probably dont have to kill myself for telling you. you know i dont want her to hurt herself and what hurts me even more is that she says its the only thing that makes her happy. when i think about it i dont feel like im thinking a bout the same bff ive had since 1st grade and i just want her to stop. shes trying but im afriad if she doesn't have a theat it wont work. i dont want to tell an adult(well canr really) and i dont want her to be unhappy...but i DONT WANT HER TO KEEP DOING IT! How can i tell her to stop? and this doesn't mean shes like a masochist does it? (link)
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Ok i want you to understand somthing, your friend is in a depressed state, the reason she cuts is because it gets her mind off her inner pain, this is likely due to a medical disorder. honestly the best thing you can do is bring her in to the docters to get her diagnosed for manic deprision and inform a trusted adult because although you dont want your friend to be mad or unhappy with you you most understand that this IS a matter of life and death, this could kill her and can leave painful scars(mentally and phisiclly) with the help of a doctor, trusted adults and you, a true friend, she can pull throught this.
please contact me if necasary or if you just want to talk and your friend can of course come to me, my email and AIM are in my column
GoodLuck
Jon a.K.a GateKeeper
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Ok, this past year i have had 2 boyfriends. The first one was really great and I liked him alot. We were really close and i thought he cared about me. Then at one of my bff's b-day party's he was invited and so was my other bff. Well, my other bff and him went to look for the girl that was having the party's softball they lost in the woods. A little later they came out and my friend took me to the side and said he had kissed her. I was REALLY hurt. Then in the same day he broke up with me. This was his excuse:" I got my 1st cousin pregnant." Then, later on I found out it was a lie.
The second boyfriend I had was really close to me too. Then, he stopped returning my calls and all my friends were saying he was cheating on me. My bff(the girl the 1st guy kissed) said he had been calling her all the time. She also said she would talk to him for hours at a time. So, it really hurt me that she was doing this to me and rubbing it in my face. I don't wanna lose her as a friend, but why can't i hold on to a guy.....? (link)
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tou simply need to find the right guy, those two guys might have been close to you, but anyone can be close, i understand your pain but believe me it isn't your falt, those guys were, excuse my language, but low life assclowns, you don't need them, so instead look for a guy, that you like, but be careful, guys are natural assholes, i should no i am one. don't let him get in your heat intill you know you can really trust him.
And has for your friend, tell her that it's hurting you that she is telling you how she talks to him for hours, dont get mad or anything, just explain. a true friend will apologize and cut it out.
GoodLuck, and don't compleatly give up on guys, i know most are assholes but there's still a few good guys left, just need to keep faith that there out here somewhere
Jon a.K.a GateKeeper
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I cant seem to let my ex go. I have known him over 1/2 of my life. We were best friends but a terrible thing (rape) happened to me by his best friend and rumors that I cheated left us to break up. I was demanding and selfish and abusive towards him and it messed up a lot of our relationship. We both got locked up around the same time do to our behavior...Now I have gotten out and changed around my life. Im doing very well and I have matured and grown up some. He is still locked up and we have the same counselor...But i keep having dreams of him and I constantly think of him. I love him..and I know he cares about me, but at this time I just cant get him off of my mind. He gets out in a few months, and he is doing very well. I pray all the time for god to help me let him go if there isnt a reason for him to still be in my life but it just wont go away. I need some advice on what I can do. I mean I am already occupied, Im a cheerleader, I workout a lot, I keep myself busy, but anytime I have time to think...its mainly about regrets and what i couldve done to help our relationship not ruin it. Past is past and i know that but I cant seem to move on! Any advice? (link)
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I think the real question is not how to forget him, but do you actually want to forget him?
This man has been a big part of your life and because of sercomstances things went sour for you to, and it's like you said past is the past, so why not start over? being with him doesnt mean going with him (unless you want to and the time is right)
Im just saying, everything in life has a purpose, so maybe there is a reason you dream of him, you had the same counselor, you both were locked up at the same time.
I could be wrong, but hey, love is strong, and i you said it yourself ,you love him. so follow your heart, it will lead to happiness, but peoople on this site on't
I wish you luck and happiness
Jon a.K.a GateKeeper
BTW to answe your question it all really depends, life takes a mixture of things, they are 1)faith (and im not talkin bout like" Have faith in jesus!") 2)heart 3) brains
you must always have faith in how things will work out because all things must be equal in life, it must have both a positive and a negative,. the trick is to always find the positive fore often it is harder to see.
To get far in this life you must you a mixture of your brain's and your heart, listen to your heart because it will tell you what you want, but also listin to your mind because it will help you find how to properly get to what you want without loosing more.
So my answer is simple, follow your heart, go with the flow but always use your head, never leap into somthing without thinking about it. that often leads to the negative side of a dicesion rather than the positive side of a decision
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i use to like this guy for a real long time he would always play with my hart and say that he didn't know what he was thinking and now he kinda likes me but i don't wanna like him and i am kinda over him but everyone (all of his friends) say i still like him and that he is my everything and stuff like that so i kinda said that i don't like him and that i could get him anytime i wanted to one of his friends so me and this friend made a bet that i could get him back before we went back to school. and if i did it i got $100 and if i don't than i don't have to do nothing i already started flirting with him again and its kinda going well but i feel bad i mean my sister says i should do it for all the things he did to me but i would feel bad i wanna tell him but i don't know should i keep going with the plan or should i stop? (link)
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well here's out it is, It is true that revenge is a sweet dish
but all sweet dishes have a sacrifice.
This sacrifice is that in order to get back you have to become like the very person you'd be taking revenge at. Do you really wanna become like him?
Furthermore, It is very possible that je could turn this against you and hurt you because is this really out of his charicteristics from what has happened in past.
GoodLuck
Jon a.K.a GateKeeper
P.S. if you still want revenge, ex-lax is always a good idea ;)
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what does it mean in that sublime song "what i got" when he says "hits that bottle and goes straight to the rocks" (link)
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"hits that bottle and goes straight to the rocks"
translation :gets drunk then gets high of coke
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ok so i have a boyfriend and i really love him but i want to go out with another guy but i don't want to cheat becuz i have done that tom many time and i haven't been doin it for like almost 4 months and im pround but which guy do i choose?
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If you love your boyfriend then you woun't leave him for this other guy, but i say follow your heart, although people on this site may give you the wrong answers, your heart will always show you the path
GoodLuck
Jon a.K.a GateKeeper
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What exactly do you consider "making out" (link)
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I consider it tounge in mouth, longer than 30 seconds a semi makingout. anything after that is making out
GoodLuck
Jon. a.K.a GateKeeper
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i need to know how to make my ex man jealous he made me feel and look like a complete fool . he made me hate myself and want revenge. (link)
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well, i don't know how to make a man jelous, but i sure as hell know how to make a fool out of somebody.
One simple word for you, laxatives, these badboys allways do the trick, what ya got to do is get him into a resteraunt or somplace were there is one bathroom, make sure it is filled or he cannot get to it, make it an important dinner he is at, like with parents, no girl, w/e. As long as the stuff is in the food and the bathroom is full, he WILL shit himself
GoodLuck
Jon a.K.a GateKeeper
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I really want to wear thongs because I tried my friends on once and it felt SO comfortable. I don't want one just because my friends wear them, because thats just stupid. I really like the feeling of them, but I'm afraid if I wear them, it'll seem like I'm a slut. The farthest I've gone with a guy is just a PECK on the lips, one time and thats it. So I'm no where near a slut. My mom doesn't care if I wear thongs, she actually even bought one for me. I want to wear it, but I don't want to feel slutty or people to think a slut. But I love the way they feel, they are good for when I wear tighter clothing, and my mom approves of them and I have one in my drawer already, so should I wear it or not? I'm 13 and female if it helps. (link)
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If you only have pecked a guy on the lips then i doubt anyone has the slightest chance of finding out you have one unless you point it out.
and dont worry bout what others think of you, only worry bout what you think of you
GoodLuck
Jon a.K.a GateKeeper
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i need help thinking of a screen name
any ideas?
like should i use song lyrics?
idk i really need help...any suggestions? (link)
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i use an alias as myn, for isntance my alias besides GateKeeper is MadHatter. use a character you like, a word, w/e describes you
myn is MadHatter1713
GoodLuck
Jon a.K.a GateKeeper
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what are some dream sites that explain what your dreams mean? (link)
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http://dreammoods.com there you go
GoodLuck
Jon. a.k.a GateKeeper
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I am a 14 year old girl but im 15 in 3 months and i know its illegal to have sex in uk before 16 but i really love my boyfriend and i'll be honest caue i want real advice i've been going out with him over a week and i already feel he loves me and i love him and i think i feel ready i mean he's given me oral sex if that can be correct but i've not done anything to him and i think he's the right one and the one i want to loose my virginity too and i want to know if theres a way of checking to see if ur ready by tasks or talks or something . one magazine said to see if ur ready to have sex see if you can walk up to your local chemist and buy condoms out of it from a lady who knows you live near by is this a good way of telling if im ready please email me bak or reply soon cause tomorrow or the next day is ment to be kinda big with him and me
please help love me xxxxxxxxxxx (link)
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Listen Kido, i say follow your heart with most situatons, but at least wait for the second month to have sex, there's alot of other stuff you can do, if your still with him at 2 months, then do what you feel is right but know this, you HAVE to think this through, are you going to marry this man? would you give your life for him?
GoodLuck
Jon a.K.a MadHatter
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how many shots of alcohol will usually get you drunk and how many beers would get u drunk? (minimum amount) (link)
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this all depends on your weight, how much you have eaten, and what alchahol you are drinkin, some drinks will get me shit faced in two shots, others take up to 5 just to get me a buzz, and if it's thanksgiving , good god get the keg
GoodLuck, dont drink and drive or drink too much, you look like a moron
Jon a.k.a GateKeeper
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My best friend just called me from her cell phone and said she was running away!! what do i do???? (link)
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Try to calm her down, find out why, it's important to find out her plans, tell her to meet you somplace if you think she's in danger of herself and tell ehr parents to meet you there or invite her to your house. the most important thing is to KEEP HER NEAR BYE!
GoodLuck contact me if you need me
Jon a.K.a GateKeeper
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when you lose 5-6 pounds you dont really notice it do you?
*i weighed myself today cuz im dieting and trying to lose weight but i noticed i was 5-6 pounds lighter but i dont look it at least i think* so do you think you should see a difference? (link)
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Their is a slow transition that you won't notice unless, for instance a friend you havent seen in awhile
they see you they'd notice cause they arent used to it but during the transition those who have seen you and you yorself are used to it
GoodLuck
Jon a.K.a GateKeeper
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is it true that drinking ALOT of milk could make your boobs get bigger? im 14 mine are really small and i know i still have lots of time for them to grow but im very thin with a high metabolism. so if i drank alot more milk would it add some size to them? (link)
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some believe that this is true, but most nutritionists would say that this is nothing but a myth
GoodLuck and don't worry it doesnt matter
Jon a.K.a GateKeeper
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Ok well here's my problem, my mom is like super christian and I think I wanna follow by the rules of buddah and I want to be boodist! but I still belive in god! I dunno what one to choose. And plus if I do decide to become budist I dont wanna tell my mom! I dont know what to Do! arg! help! (link)
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You can still follow christianity if you wish because buhdism is meant to be a philosophy more than a religion, and if i am correct one of buhda's last request was NOT to turn his teachings into a religion
GoodLuck
Jon a.K.a GateKeeper
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Okay well im a christian and everything....but i have tried weed a couple of times. see my sister was the one who got me high all those times and itsz SO0 hard to say no to her because i always feel ret@rded when i say no. well i guess whut im trying to say is, am i going to go to hell because i did it???? ANd i wanna stop doing it but i dont kno how to tell my sister.. and dont say just tell her no because you dont understand how hard it is. Because i NEVER see her and all that.. ijust dont kno whut to do...
plz help i rate high! (link)
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One who knows who's goin to hell, who are we to say who is right and who is wrong, but i highly doubt you'll go to hell ( if there is one) for that.
second turn sayin no into a joke like
"Nah sis, I don't do that naymore, i just take the other ppl's wallets when they do" then wink at her, she'll either laugh or stop doin weed around you, or both
GoodLuck
Jon a.K.a GateKeeper
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