Hiya! I am Dr.D, and I am here to give you the help you need! Got a question about relationships? Well your talking to Dr.Love here! Questions about your body? Got the title Doctor for a reason! I can answer any of your questions. I live to serve and help people. Because your lives matter the most. You all have questions about life, and I've been through some of the worst things life can throw. But I know how to pitch back. SO WHAT ARE YOU WAITING FOR!?!?!?! Go ahead, and message me, I'm here to help. The Doctors in, and ready to solve your questions. :-D
-Dr.D
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Hey guys,
Just curious, ny crush is saying a lot that he likes my company and he says we have a good banter. Haven't got a guts to ask him out but I just want to make sure that he's likes me even though we've known for half a year. Thankyou (link)
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Hey! How cute! Human emotions are so strange. Am I right? In situations like this, we are confused with several emotions, like excitement, nervousness, anxiousness, its all enough to give you butterflies! But the only way to know if he likes you, is ask. It sounds stupid I know, but it could turn into a relationship right their. Men are just as nervous as women(and i should know, i'm a guy). I never can get the guts to ask out my crush. She's the part that would complete me! But the only way to know if your crush likes you, is just ask.
I wish you good luck :-)
-Dr.D
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I am thinking about changing schools, but my friends are making me feel bad about it, even though this new school is better for me than the one I am going to now.
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Hey! Don't worry! Changing schools and leaving your friends is a tough choice. One hand you are going to a school that will benefit you in the future. On the other, your leaving all your closest friends. Actually, I have a friend named Bella, and she is going through the same thing. She is a great singer, actress, and artist. And she wants to go to a performing arts school, and grow up to be an actress. Now, your not the same as Bella, but I will tell you what I told her. I said:
"We have been such good friends. And I may disagree with your philosophy sometimes, but I respect you and what you do. You'll get a lot of chances to go to amazing schools. But you only have one hometown school."
This probably didn't help you much. But in my opinion, never leave your friends behind.
I hope you choose what you think is right. Don't listen to my opinion. Follow your heart(and yes, I said that. It sounds stupid but just do it.)
Best of wishes
-Dr.D
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I went to college late, starting at age 20. The reason for this was because I worked for a few years first to figure out what I wanted to do.
Now I'm 2 and a half years into college and my GPA has fallen from a 3.8 to a 3.2, but I'm still hoping that I can raise it to a 3.5 . My issue is I'm bad at the math classes in my major, but fine at everything else. I also have some classes with a teacher who doesn't believe in giving out A's so I usually wind up with a high B in her classes. She's a great professor though and she teaches quite a few courses of the courses in my major and to be honest even if I could take those courses with somebody else, I wouldn't.
Anyways, I've never applied for a job before where they asked me what my GPA was and I'm wondering if all the hubba bubba is true that "real jobs" ask for this?
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Hey!
Well yes, some jobs that do not require college education will need to know your GPA if it revolves around a future job that does involve college education. For example, if you signed up as a apprentice for a nurse, they would like to know your GPA, because they want to hire someone who will most likely go into medical studies. And right now, your talking to a Doctor(*cough* in training)!
But thats why some jobs will need to know your GPA. Hopefully I answered what you wanted. I'm sorry if I answered the wrong thing.
Have a nice day!
-Dr.D
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A boy says, I won't give up on you during the chat. He says, if he has to he will help me till his last breath. Thing is he's helping me with my lesson and I'm obviously not picking up fast now is this just friendly thing to say to a girl mate? By the way, he's super nice. (link)
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Hey! And awww, how adorable! People naturally or accidentally will hint to their liking of people. This could be a good sign that he likes you. If you like him back, hint back at it. give a small sign, accidently, or on purpose. it doesnt matter. Only you and him can figure out if you want to pursue in a relationship.
Good luck!
-Dr.D
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Everybody says bands are tight knit. I've heard that all my life but never experienced it. Try as I might to make friends, it never happens. In my last band I think it was because I constantly screw things up, even when I try my hardest. I recently moved to a new school and I thought I might actually succeed in making friends, but I didn't. At least at my old school I had at least 1 friend that was my friend before band. It just depresses me that I can't experience that tight knit band relationship that I always hear about. It doesn't help that I'm not the best player. I can't practice very much since I live in an apartment and the walls are extra thin. I'm also very socially awkward. Usually everybody just hangs put in their own groups while I'm stuck in the back reading or playing. I truly love playing my instrument, but this lack of friends is just really depressing me. Why is it so easy for them to get to know each other, but for me it's so difficult? I do have friends outside of band, but it would be so nice to just have someone there to hang out with that can practice with me, or sit beside me on try long bus rides. Any ideas for what to do about this situation? I'm not gonna quit band, but not having anyone there for you just kinda hurts.
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Hey! Don't worry! Everything is fine, and the Doctors on the case! I see no on answered your question. How rude! You got me! And guess what? I can help!
When going to a new location, in your case school, its often hard to find or make new friends or bonds with people. But you specifically want a band relationship. well here is my advice. you may not be welcome to play your instrument inside, but thats why we have the world of outdoors. practicing outside will get you away from your neighbors, and into the outdoors, which is more healthy.
But if you can do more practicing, then you can show what talent you got to the rest of your peers! If you can show them that you have talent, they will watch you more often. And while they watch, show them the better side of you. be funny, show your personality, laugh a little! I'm not joking! Be the person you want to be, and show you are welcoming new friends.
Best of wishes!
-Dr.D
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just curious, when I get a missed call twice in a day from a boy and while I ring back he replies it was by accident which is kind of weird because I would never call anyone accidently twice. however, when he calls it's always hi and hello, that's all. I don't know if he thinks of me when that accident calls happen or am I dreaming way ahead?? by the way, he's my crush and we go to same college. I reckon he likes me coz he does say you're a good well mannered girl. anyways, thankyou all
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Hey! Aww, so cute! Crushes are ones weakness, but greatest strength! I can't tell you if your crush is doing this on purpose to try to talk to you. But this could be a sign! It is often that humans will actually try(unintentionally) to get their crushes to think about them. Its like a involuntary movement. So you could be looking your future dream boat!
Have a nice day(and good luck)!
-Dr.D
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18/F .. I am 18 and a few months and my mom is still telling me when to go to bed and what to do. She is constantly trying to run my life and won't let me do things on my own. I tried talking to her but she just brush it off. I'm sick and tired of it. I just want to do my own thing and I need her to let go of me a little. Please help me?? (link)
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Hey! Don't worry! Doctors on the case! Mothers naturally have the sense of directing their children because they feel as if they still must help and aid them, even when you are an adult or are standing on your own two feet. Its in their nature. Now for advice, I think you need to show your really independent(unless you live under her roof, you might have a problem). Just joking! But you need to show her you indeed want to be treated as an adult, and are independent. This may not be the best advice, but its all i can prescribe.
Have a nice day!
-Dr.D
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So in high school I never really had that group of friends I would usually jump from group to group and never really had a best friend I mostly had acquaintances. However I'd like to say I hung out with certain groups of people more than others and would even hangout with them outside of school. So now that high school is done I don't see these people at all anymore and I've realized how I don't have any friends and that most of these people were only my friends because we saw each other everyday. I feel like it's my fault because I should've tried to develop a close relationship with these people cause now if I see a photo or a post of social media of these groups of people hanging out with each other I get sad because they didn't event think to invite me and when I ask if they're free they always say they're busy. I'm always the one to text these people first and if I don't text them at all I won't hear from them. I've tried so hard to make new friends at my new school but if you've seen my previous posts you'd know the friends I made were either fake or just acquaintances who just came for lecture and don't want anything outside of class. Please help with tips on either how to get these old friends to remember I exist or how to make new friends? Cause being shy literally ruins everything thanks in advance (link)
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Hey, dont worry! Doctors here, and on the case! it is often we all get lonely and sometimes go into a depressed state when we have no friends. I can't make you what you want, but i can sure point you in the right direction! Now for looking for friends. unfortunately, we have clicks in today's society. But if you can figure out which one fits the real you the most, join that one. Now, looking at this group, try to get in projects and activities together in classes. And try to find common interests. This may not be the best advice, but it worked for me when I had switched schools. Remember, dont change who you are, find people who match you, and wouldnt change you. Because you are the top priority, and also mine.
Have a nice day!
-Dr.D
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Hey there! I'm Laura and I'm 16 years old. I've been with my boyfriend for a year and a half now, and I'm emotionally prepared to have sex with him, though this question isn't completely about that. See, I have this problem where I can't get ANYTHING into my vagina. I first realized when I was 13 and tried to put a tampon in and couldn't get it in. I couldn't ask my mom how (she's very strictly religious and conservative and we don't talk about anything, she doesn't want to talk about my body and has made me uncomfortable talking about it. We kind of have a shit relationship which is why i came here with this issue), so i found some online tutorials. I still couldn't get it and it hurt very very bad, so I gave up. I used pads until I was 15 (at which point i tried tampons again and was once again in pain) and only masturbated clitorally, having tried to get my fingers in myself a few times but never succeeding. It began to worry me again last month when i was at my boyfriend's house getting hot and heavy and i realized we were getting pretty serious in our relationship and he asked me if i would like for him to buy condoms if i'm ready. i told him that i would like that but i wasn't sure if i would be able to. he's a very mature, progressive 16 year old boy, so i told him about my problem and he told me it was okay and that he or understood and that we could stick to just doing other things and it didn't bother him and so on and so forth. he really is a nice boy, but i'm going to want to have sex and use tampons at some point in my life, and when i turn 18 i'll have to start seeing a gyno yearly and i want to be able to have access to my own vagina before someone else tries. i've used diagrams and mirrors, so i'm fairly certain i'm in the right place, but no amount of lube or muscle relaxation or advice has helped at all. if anyone knows what my problem could be, insight would be greatly appreciated. (link)
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Hi! Dr.D here. Body issues huh? Dont worry! This is normal. Virgin women tend to be very tight in that area. And so before there is sexual intercourse, it is often that nothing will go in. But I promise you, a penis can get in. Unless you skipped a period. sometimes if mysteriously a period is skipped, it can be the beginning of a blood clot in the vagina, if that is the case, your gonna want to visit your local doctor to either prescribe you with anti-deoxite pills, or a quick and harmless procedure.
Have a nice day!
-Dr.D :-)
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