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Hiya,
Long story, sorry. If a boy likes a girl but unfortunately (they both have a girlfriend and boyfriend) at the moment and there's no way of them breaking up but the boy wants to stay in touch with the girl forever as they are in the same class in the uni, does that mean he has a thing for her? Despite of him having a gf already and she has a bf too. Possible to like her in a romantic way??? He can't wait summer to be over because he won't see her. He acts like he likes her in a various kidding way. They've been friends since uni. She likes him too. Does he want to stay in touch because if something happens with gf in the future, he can confess or ask the uni friend out or is it just normal guy thing? They both get on and class is always fun when she sees him. When she don't see him in the uni, she misses him. So guys, is he just being a funny friend or could there be more?? Thank you for the answers

there isnt always one way to see a new 'relationship'. Meanwhile this is about a love story. When you feel its important for you to see the other and you dont want to miss a thing about him, this means you have feelings (even small ones).
but if you are having feelings (which is too obvious) why dont you ending your relationship with the other girl/boy?? maybe this relationship makes you feel safe which is cool but not enough.
We have to make the right decisions cause life is too short for everyone.
xoxo

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So a couple months ago I moved to a new state. Me and a few of my old friends still keep in touch. Lately I've felt pretty jealous of my friends. When I call my best friend, all she talks about is what her and my other friends have been doing. I miss my old life so much. We don't talk as much anymore and it honestly really hurts, some don't even talk to me anymore. I don't blame them in any way, I know how hard long distance friendships can be. I really don't wanna talk to them about it, I've never been very good with that kind of stuff. Is there any way I can make these jealous feelings go away?

You have to MOVE ON!
New state, new life, new friends!!!
It's important to keep in touch with your old friends, because (maybe) you know them since...forever, but life is running & you have to go forward, meet new friends and dont stuck in the past.
Do not feel jealous, you have to be glad that you still talk with them (even if there are not all of them) but remember:
if something must last then it will last.
your new life its the only way to see who is real your friend and who is not,
glad to help you.
xoxo
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