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Student...wanna be a Zoologist,after highschool.I've always been told that I give great advice, and my friend got one of these and i didnt know places like this exist, so i decided to give it a shot.
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I am the middle child in my family and sometimes I think I don't belong with my siblings. Don't get me wrong I love them to death but... I am 13 a typical girl teenager. I like make-up, boys, fashion. But my brother does not respect any of my private life or social life. I am always baby-sitting for my little sister while my mom and dad are working and while my brother is out with his friends 24/7. It's not like I do it for my health i'm doing it for the $$$ but I need to get out too and especially since its summer. I am always fighting with my older brother and when ever I am on the phone with my boyfriend my brother always makes some rude remarks like "hey is this your tampon" or something like that something gross. I TOTALLY respect his private life and social life. My brother goes through my stuff, looks at my txt messagees on my cell phone to all my friends and my boyfriend and he goes on my screen name and talks to my friends pretending to be me. I have told him so many times that I need some space and he doesnt care. He gives smart remarks to me and I can't handle it. I've told my parents they yell at him yet when we're around my parents together he acts so perfect and he is older then me... how pathetic... but seriously I NEED HELP!!! PLEASE HELP ME!!! GIVE ME SOME ADVICE!!!!!!!!
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Brother Hater (link)
dude! I know that story. He'll eventually grow out of it, or move out b/c he's old enough. But in the mean time, and this sounds so immature, but play fire with fire, bug him,invade his privacy, look @ his texts. It works,trust me, i know ;)


ok here's the thing i hav this rlly gourgeous sister and everyone tells me omg ur sister's so hot ....... u dont looko like her. i am constantly comparing myself to her like weight and clothes and sports.she is super skinny im not saying im fat or anything cuz im not
but still she can get any guy she wants i can it always seems that she's better than me. (link)
noone is better then anyone, just remember that. Tell your sister. Maybe hang out with her more, if it's attention from guys your wantin, but just remember that she isnt better then you, just be yourself the guys will come ;)


i feel like an outsider of my own family. My parents are divorced and both of my brothers live with my dad so i'm all alone with my mom living with her boyfriend. They do everything together, like this week they went to the beach without invited me,. they went to Alantic city, Virgina, flordia. . all w/o me,.. my mom use to pay so much attention to me ,it really hurts =/ i tried to talk to her but she just tells her boyfriend everything,. and than they yell at me for not cleaning the house ? SHould i move with my dad cuz my mom IS a complete bitch!! loL -sorry =( // aleast i would get more attention in the future..?

please help x0x (link)
I am in a similar situation, parents been divorced since i was 6. But i would never live with my dad. only b/c we dont click like me and my mom. So, either sit your mom down and explain to her throughly,if they yell at you just be sure you have a hold of the argument, DO NOT BACK DOWN! if that doesnt work then, yeah i would advise movin in with your dad...but that's only if you acutually feel it is right.


i just won tickets to go and see the "special sneak preview" of "I, robot"... are the tickets for a PREVIEW? or for the movie itself? please answer this soon soon soon! (i rate people) (link)
The whole movie, a special sneak preview is when it's a one day only kind of deal until the movie is supposed to go out on theaters.


There is this guy that I have liked for 2 years (I saw him in my 7th grade yearbook when he was in 6th and I was in 7th). I am now going into 9th grade. We see each other often and we are good GOOD friends. He is one of my best friends. Well, he flirts with me like no other girl. His mom even says he isnt the flirting type. All of the people who were in our drama class say that they think he likes me. He tries to make me laugh when I am sad and he is a sweetie for life! We went and played pool today and everytime I went to shoot, he would be saying something like "I know then...." and then he pauses, watches me (making it obvious), adn then when I am done, he starts talking where he left off. I took pictures of him the last day of school and they didnt come out. Well, he had his mom take a pic of him for me! My mom gave it to me as an early b day present (his mom and my mom work together! WOW SMALL WORLD!) Do you think he likes me? With all these clues? Everyone says he does but I dont know. Please help! (link)
Most likely he likes you b/c most guys you tell that you like them will start backin off from you if they dont like you in return,plus all the hint and everything, i think you def. have a shot.


Im 14 female..okay my bff steph n i are....soooo close we go on vacas together n my mom is like her second mom since her family life isnt so good..she is like my sister..we have been through hell n back together n i know i can tell her anything!! shes such a great friend! but...well lately we have been drifting..we r kinda going seperate ways i think..im into school..im going to summer school to get a highschool credit n she wont go..she missed 49 days from school last year n yeah..so im into school n shes not..plus our moms are 2 TOTALLY diff. ppl...well it sux bc i kinda do feel like we r drifting n part is bc of this guy..he is my ex b/f(which by tha way im ova completley bc of his nasty additude!!!)..i have knwon him fer 3 1/2 years n she has been "close" with him for 1 1/2 or so..well he is a big time PLAYA!!! n her and i both know it..but him n her have some special realtionship...n right now they r REALLLLLY close..but i know he is guna end up hurting her..n sumtimes she will bring it up like how much of an ass he is being to her n shell just laugh n say "o-well ill learn sum day!" but i knwo she is guna come running baq to me hurt AGAIN fer tha 6th time..n it just gets irratating..i wanna talk to her but i dont think she'll listen..im not sure what to do....?!?!?!?!? plz help thannnnnx! much luv! (link)
If she is as good as friend as you say, then she'll listen to what you have to say.Set her down tell her what you think about ya'll drifting apart,and this guy...maybe come up with some ways to make it all interesting again.Oh, and true friends never go away, lol they just sometimes "drift".


I liked this kid for a couple months.. but we always would flirt during the school year.. now its the summer n he asked me out n i said yea... because i really started to like him... we went out but he broke up wit me... then he asked me back out and i said yes... then a week later i broke up wit him because he was never wit me n he never called... but then i started to relieze that i missed him alot... n he said he still liked me but he was still thinking about goin out... i was ok wit that... but then he started liken my best friend... i told him he plays around wit peoples heads to much... should i still like this kid? or should i move on? (link)
I would move on if i were you. This kid doesnt know who to like, and doesnt know how to keep one girl, and your bestfriend of all other people to like.def. move on.


I really like this guy but he doesnt like me im sad because I really like him! I dont know why he doesnt like me he wont tell me My question is how could I get him to like me? (link)
The only thing you should do is be yourself, dont try to be somethin you're not. If he doesnt like you for that then im sure there is some1 out there who does.


Hey...
What does the word modest mean? Is that a good thing if you are modest? Thanks!! (link)
Modest means bein really good at something but like you dont brag about it or anything, and sometimes you'll even deny the fact of bein so good at it.


my best friend really likes this guy, and she never told me that she liked him, so i had no idea! And now she like hates me because, i started liking him. She thinks that i started liking him just to piss her off, and that's not true! How am i supposed to convince her that i had no idea she liked him? (link)
Just keep tellin her over and over, MAKE HER LISTEN! as a friend she should understand where you're commin from.


i really like this guy alot. And he tells me im gorgous and that he likes me too. Then we went to the movies with me and my best friend. And the next day he ends up liking my best friend instead of me! should i move on? or what should i do? (link)
Definatley,b/c apparently he didnt truley like you. Or else he wouldn't have fallen for your friend.




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