hey im Jourdan.im like this. ppl say im gothic others say im punk. i dont know what i am but i dress goth but im too happy to be one. i always look at the bright side of things. AIM me anytime u need to talk to me. im always willing to help. im a good friend so anytime u need to talk just talk to me and ill try to help what ever is bothering you. if you have a question put something in my inbox anytime you want to talk to me :) and jonny the homicidal maniac is my hero!!!!!!
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Location: from CA but moved to CO
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Age: 14
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Hey everyone. I have my own column, but I can't answer my own question. I met a guy online back in May or around that time. We didn't talk much until now, and we've gotten soooo much closer. We both think we're soulmates and meant for each other. Even though I haven't met him, I feel this connection, and it's really cool. I just don't know what to think though, because I hear all those stories on the news and everything, and it really scares me. What if he's a rapist or a serial killer or something?! I really don't think he is, because of some of the conversations we've have, but there's always that chance. I just want to know you're opinions on this, and what I should do about it. Is there anyway I can find out he's really 16 w/o actually meeting him? Thx in advance, sorry about the length. Happy Holidays 2 everyone!
Shortie8959 (link)
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maybe he has a friend you can talk to. im not really sure about it. if theirs a friend online he has talk to him and ask him and stuff. hope i helped
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im moving to south carolina in 5 months. im 15 my boyfriend is 16 and we been together for 10 months. we love each other...hez been to jail for 4 months though and i met this boy and we started chillin and had se n everythin n i fell in love with him. but my ma made me crush my feelings for that guy because she didn`t trust him. i loved him. then when my boyfriend got out, i forgot about the other guy. that`s not the point. i wuznt in love with my boyfriend while i wuhz cheating with him. Now that he'z out i wanna be with him a lot. I missed him ya know? Well last night on the phone, we were talking for a very long time. I was soo open to him. i told him about the other guy but i didn`t tell him when and that i wuhz cheating on him. All of the sudden, he started crying and was like "I have to ask you a question!" i kept asking him-"ok what? tell me" but he didn`t because he was 'scared i wouldnt tell the truth'. Then i hung up with him and he called back like-i need to talk to you. when i asked him if it wuz bad he said "yes" and then i asked if he was gonna break up with me. he hung up. i don`t wanna break up with him. I already lost one boy i loved more than life...now him...what should i say to make him come out with it!! sorry so long =((((((( (link)
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maybe you can email him if he has a email address. give him a note. you just have to say tell me now, if i need to know then tell me. sorry if i dont help
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Okay my friend and i (he's a guy) are not really talking! Because I have been ignoring him, and supposedly he isn't mad at me! I found out he is sick today and lives right up the street from me! I was wondering should i go up the street to give him some chickensoup or pasta? Or should I even go up there to see him?! Would it be too random?! (link)
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i would call him and tell him your comming over. good idea with the soup help him out. talk to him and help him get better
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okay i cant handle this anymore. how do you deal with parents that are ALWAYS fighting? i mean they wont separate they talked about it but they wont and it's beginning to tick me off because they will be good one day and then the next you know it they are fighting and it sickens me! i cant handle it anymore i feel like punching them out. please help. THANKS! (link)
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have you tried talking to them? maybe id be best to talk to them and tell them how you feel and tell them stop fighting and talk like adults should. maybe spend a few nights at a friends house and let them sort things out
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Hi all well im babysitting 3 girls after xmas can anyone give me some ideas on how to keep them busy so its a bit easyer for me
roxie
ps ill rate any good ideas
have a great xmas everyone (link)
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ok if your wanting these ideas so you can wonder off. dont. heres ideas i have a 5 little bro and a 1 1/2 little sis. get some paint and some paper and paint with them. do activities like draw. do something like taht watch tv, music, draw, you get the hint
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i have a boyfriend who i love VERY much. we (his name is corey) went out for 4 months and then we broke up. when we broke up he went out with my best friend and then they broke up. then he went out with my other best friend to try to get over me and things led to other things.... she was moving really fast and he didnt want to get made fun of so he just went along with everything. well she gave him a blowjob. he broke up with her right after because he found out i still liked him. he regretted the whole thing. i was have a really tough time dealing with everything. then i went off to highschool before him *hes a year younger than me* and i got a new boyfriend. i went out with him for 7 and a half months but i didnt want to be with him. we were kinda off and on for a long time. things happened between me and him that i didnt want to happen, but i didnt know how to say no. i never did anythng to him... he did things to me sexually. and then i finally got the courage to break up with him. all my self esteem was gone by now, as u could probably imagine. i still liked corey a LOT and so we started talking again and we got back together. weve been together for over 3 months and i keep thinking about what happened between him and my ex-best friend. i just cant seem to get past it. he regrets ever doing it and he knows how bad it hurt me. we have talked about it, we have cried about it. i just dont know what to do to get over the past. i keep picturing what happened. and corey cant get over it either, he gets upset about it all the time. how do we get over it and what do we do about it? thanks for any advice you can give me. (link)
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you just need to forget it. dont do this if you dont want to but maybe you have to do the same in order to forget it. DONT DO IT IF YOU DONT WANT TO. or if you think your not ready or something but just forget what happend. sorry if i dont help
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I'm wearing a sweater and wasn't sure how to do my hair. It's a big, off the shoulder sweater from American Eagle. I'm just wearing it with jeans. I've have pretty long hair, down to the middle of my back. What can I do? (link)
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you can curl it, put it up, pig tails, anything you want to
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i play guitar and need to know what kinda of stack i should get for small venues. (link)
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awsome i have a guitar its a bass, its a yamaha. my amp is kinda small not very big, mines a fender and its a really good company i suggest fender for your amp
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ok im 13/f and my bf always asks me do u wanna make out and hell yea i do but i dont know how how? i mean idk.i really like my bf but i am kinda prude and i wanna atleast make out so this is kinda a stupid question but how do u make out with sum1?
ok i need advice asap bc my bf is starting to get annoyed bc i keep saying not right now not right now...any1 have any ideas? im afraid he may break up with me? (link)
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well, youll have to make out with him. hell teach you. you may not get it right away but youll get the hang of it because you cant really explane how to make out. tell him youve never made out before and you dont know how. tell him you want to but you dont know how. hope i help sorry if im not such great help
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Hey people...Happy Holidays...hopefully you guys aren't having a confusing holiday like me lol. Well I am going out with this kid and he's a year older than me and let's just call him Kevin. Well Kevin told some of my friends that he liked me and they kind of made me go out with him. I didn't really know him and I still don't at the moment. So I really don't like him because I barely know the kid, I'm not good at learning to go out with him either. We've been going out for about a week now and it's just driving me crazy. He calls me all the time and is sooo clingy! He bought me a diamond promise ring for christmas and OMG he shouldn't have done it. Obviously I don't like him as much as he likes me. Well on New Years I want to go to my best friend's party (it's a guy) but the thing is they don't get along that well. I don't want to lead Kevin on either but I don't want to have to tell him I don't like him that much because I do NOT want to hurt him. I need to like break it off and I don't know what to say!!!!! Does anyone know what to say to him? Besides I don't like you or besides being mean to him. I mean I definitely don't want to hurt him but that means I might just have to make something up to tell him I can't have a boyfriend right now! Anyone have any ideas? (link)
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ok well first off tell him how you feel. tell him you need more time to get to know him and learn more about him. dont jsut say it in like seconds. take time and tell him so hell understand that you dont know him much. dont stop talking to him that will hurt him more than you think. just say something like that tho
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My sister has had a pretty tough year, and I think she's finding the festive season a bit overwhelming. She hasn't wanted to get involved with any of the usual things she enjoys this time of year, like decorating the house with lights. I'm nervous that tomorrow on Christmas Day, she'll be really down. How can I cheer her up, given that the normal "festive" things she likes are just depressing her? (link)
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get her something shell treasure always. a card. something you made. tell her that your there for her and you care for her. show her how much she means to you. shell apreciate it alot
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I wear tinted moisturizer on my skin and nothing else.. except blush. But my question is, since I don't use any powder, would it be bad to use a powder blush? Or should I use a liquid blush.. (or w/e its called.) And does anyone have any reccomendations for fair skin? Like brands that I can buy at Target. Thanks!! (link)
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my mom sells marykay. its all up to you on what you want to wear. liquid or powder. id wear liquid. but thats me. get both. use both and see which one feels better or waht you like better
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ok so, what do you do if you're stuck in this situation:
your dad had an affair for 3 years .. without telling your mom or you or your brothers
sounds bad enough, right?
well .. he's still with the whore and expects me and my brothers to warm up to her... be nice to her .. accept her into the family and what not. oh right, and to add to that: she has a 2 1/2 year old son who is annoying as hell.
she comes with us on vacations, and i know my dad spends the money ...that he needs to 'save' before we're able to buy a BASKETBALL HOOP? ... on her
thats not right.. and i've tried having those long serious chats with him. he thinks i'm just doing what my mother does ... hating her for no reason. she screwed over my whole life, why shouldn't i hate her? ...what should i do? and don't say i should try to like her .. cause thats not happening .. other than that i'm up for any ideas
helllp me (link)
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i wouldnt say try to like her, far from it. i would be as mean as you can be no matter the conseqenses. i would do everything in my power to scare her off. be mean to her son everything you can do call her a whore anything just do the oppasite your dad says to do
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my boyfriend got me this really nice watch for christmas and im supposed to be giving him his tommorow but i have no idea what to get him!!! helpp.. (link)
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get him a cd, his fav band on a shirt, anything like that anything hes into will work
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i was gofing around with my boyfriend while all of a sudden he got all wierd and started grabbing covers and all. so i ripped the covers awayto get him goin again and he revealed... well, he had a giantic boner. instead of laughin or bein grossed out i just ran away and haven't talked to him much. im 13, and i dnt knoe... i wasn't expecting it. why do you think that happened?
i rate 5's if you answer quick! (link)
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ok, he got like that because he let his mind wonder or something. dont run away next time just stop and let him calm down. your not talking to him because maybe your scared or something i dont know but that happens to guys youve got to learn that
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My boyfriend and i have been dating for 2 months and i need to get him a christmas gift. He is into baseball, poker, and bowling. Any Ideas???? (link)
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find out his favorite team for baseball, get him a jersy of them or a shirt hat anything, poker i dont know about and i dont know about bowling. get him a cd or something
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My boyfriend was living with me for a while, and he just "moved out" today. I can't call him, but I really miss him a lot, I don't know, I just need a way to miss him less. What do I do? We're still going to see eachother and stuff, it's just going to be less than when he lived with me. (He had to move out because my dad never knew he lived here, and he was really mad) (link)
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ok if you cant call him, can you email? why dont you try sending letters in the mail, ask one of his friends to get a spot that you two can meet all the time and stuff. hope i helped
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Do you neciserrily have to think a guy is cute to like them? Like can you be attracted to just there personality and still have a crush on them? (link)
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yeah. i go for personality. if you find a guy with good looks then thats just a bonis that you dont really need. most guys that are hot and stuff are such jerks and not very good to pick out. all the ones with the most sweet personalitys are the best
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hey this is for guys mostly but if girls want to answer ok. so anyways im going out with this guy we have been dating for 2 weeks and i really need 2 buy him a christmas gift but he wont tell me what he wants. guys when u say that what does it mean. and any gift ideas would be soooo great. thanks. (link)
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ask him his fav band and what cds he has, a shirt with that band on it, or go to his fav store where he gets his cloths get him a shirt something like that
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i have a serious problem.......there 3 guys who like me ......i like them all equally but there might be something more to all three of our friendships......i just don't know....please help me ...i'll rate!!!!! (link)
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well sit down and relax, ask yourself which friendship of them all do you value and would never want to destroy. or write on a peice of paper, three colomns and each put their names in them and under their names write what you like the most about them. which quality does each have that the others dont that you like. pick one that you know will still talk to you after youve broken up and wont be a jerk. pick one that you think will treat you the best. that or you can stay single and just figure out their bad things like jelousy if they have that and self centered, you get my point then choose
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