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I'm an average girl who knows alot about life and has experienced a lot in life. I enjoy music alot. It is my passion. I love to sing, write, and give advice. If you need advice, i will be more than happy to write it.
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God I'm so lonely, Why must I be the only person i know still single its like even the most hideous people have bf/gf. I am so alone and need some advice how to get a girl.
Thanks
Get yourself out into the world instead of sitting complaining to a computer.....Let people, girls, know the real you and they will like you for that. Be outgoing so that they notice you but not so out going that you become a total jerk. Be nice and kind and talk to as many people you can. The more friends you make, the more there wil be potential for you to get a girlfriend.
Say you're working. Some guy walks in, and he's a nice, respectable young man who, after moderate conversation, turns out to be kind of interesting.
Okay, I'll just cut to the chase. I'm basically asking how you would respond to a guy asking for your number while you were at work (one who doesn't work with you). What 'parameters' would lead to a positive outcome, if any?
-I overthink things consistently.
I wouldn't reccommend it. I know that that happens to me constantly at work, even with guys who do work with me. I generally feel flattered, but when i'm at work, i like to stay focussed on my job.
Ok there is this guy I like, lets call him Mike. So Mike is a year older than me (I am 15). So last week, he asked me if I wanted to go to the movies. We ended up going Friday with some of my friends and in the beginning I felt bad because I was kind of ignoring him. I was really like..scared which was why I was ignoring him (I know, it doesn't make any sense)
After the movie was over and everyone left but the both of us, we talked for a bit until my dad came to get me.
So then a day later, Sunday we talked for a little.
Then since he mentioned the day we were at the movies about just the two of us going next time, I asked him online and he was all like "It sounds like fun" and then said Wednesday would be the best and he hasnt brought it up since then.
It just seems like hes lost interest in me because a couple of days ago he would IM me as soon as I got online. He doesn't do that anymore and he barely talks to me. I asked him why he doesn't call me and he said its because his cell is broken or something. I don't know what I should do anymore. Any suggestions?
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I think you should talk to him and ask if everything is still up for wednesday. If he says yes, than great. If he says no, well then you'll just have to accept it. There are plenty of fish in the sea. As for the not talking to you as much anymore, guys are often like that. They give many mixed signals. I have found that playing hard to get often does work. (perhaps that''s what he's doing)... Next time you see him, just look absolutely fabulous and he'll eventually begin to talk more. Guys take a while to open up too. Once you get to know him better on a more BF/GF level, things should work out
I'm gonna keep this short. I started sumerschool today, met a guy there- started talking. After school we went for a bite to eat and before I know it I'm kissing him and he's my boyfriend!! This is no not like me! Sure I had fun with him today but he is so not my type! Ot maybe he is but there is something that doesnt feel right. He is really sweet and nice and likes me alot (after one day, I know..) But I kinda like this other guy too and I don't know if he likes me but I think I have a chance...So now I'm torn. Should I give the guy I now have known for 10 hours and who is ´my boyfriend appeantly or should I dump him and try going for the guy I actually like??
PLEASE HELP ME!
Thank you!
I think you should talk to him and tell him that you 2 are taking things too fast. You should tell him that you don't want to be exclusive and should try dating others while also dating eachother. keep it casual.
okay so my bf..is amazing! but all my friends.(boys and girls) are going 2 the movies this friday..my friends have told me that he was gona put his arm around me and give me a hug(possibly kiss) after..so i was wondering on some good adviice..thanks soo mucH!
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Go with it. Do what comes natural and enjoy every moment.
15/F Alright, so I have been dating this guy, ryan, for about 6 months. I can honestly say that I LOVE him. Bu, lately he has been acting distant, strange. I was talking to a girl online and as soon as he found out I was talking to her he made me stop. It's just weird. And This may be a little TMI but the last time we were doing "things" He just stopped and said, "I can't do this." He's never done rhis before, What do you guys think, and any advice on how i may be able to figure out if he is?
Sounds to me like he's cheating. I have been in this situation before, and it didn't end well, you need to let him go and find someone who appreciates you and puts you as their first priority. There is no reason to play as someone's second.