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I can help mostly anyone in anything! Just to let you know i wanna be a pchyologist when 'm older so this is just like practice for me=)-

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ok nicole i dunno what to do i think i might like pauli (as a friend) but everyone tells me that he hates me i dont understand he will talk to me all that stuff start conversations all that im just sick of begin treated like that i will ask him if he hates me he will say no but then he tells his friends that he hates me I CANT DO IT i try to make him better when he is sad everything to do for him but then i get treated like this i cant stop coming back to him I JUST DONT KNOW!! just plez help me

Hey Hunny,Just relax!everything ends up good in the end if it's not okay.. then its not the end!!So no need to worry! And remember all the quotes i told you before! Hunny forget him! Hes a butthead!!! And you deserve better! I love you so much and i hate seein u like this! XoXo NiCoLe ~

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the basketball gamestarted out fine unti i realized i had no friends. Everything i said came out wrong or stupid and it made me look really dumb. It seems like when ever i talk to someone each person is from a totally different crowd so i dont think i fit in with any crowd because no crowd wants me to be their friend.. well alteast it seems that way. I never have anyone to turn to when i have problem.. and i dont know what to do

Hey Sweetie,I'LL BE YOUR FRIEND!hehe.I think i might know where you are coming from. Just be yourself and don't worry what others think about you!!Maybe they would start to like you.Hope I helped!XOXO NICoLe~

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Is it normal to shave a little bit below your belly button and bit above.. cuz i got the little hairs but they bother me

Hey Hun,I think its normal. So no need to worry! Hope I helped!XOXO NiCoLe~

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if you get a fake tan do they look kind of obvious and people will be able to tell that they are fake? (im talking about the kind of tan that you get and get done at the salon, not the one you can buy at a store and put on yourself)

Hey Hun,if you are really pale and in the middle of winter are just "magically" Get tanner.I think they would know.Hoipe I helped! XOXO nicOle~

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do you think its better to fit in and go agianst yur own beliefs OR to be a little ""less popular"" and do what you want to do? i am stuck in between.

Hey Hun,BE YOURSELF!Stick with YOUR beliefs!Because if they don't like you for who you are they wouldn't know the TRUE and REAL you. So stick with them! Hope I helped!XOXO Nicole~

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Well i am in 7th grade and my bestfriend is moving to West Varginia and i just met her at the beginning of the year and now she is moving at the end of january and i am gonna take it very hard because we are like bestfriends soooooooo what should i give her and tell her b4 she leaves??????? Need Help Fast!!!!!!!!! Thanx
oxoxoxo,
C.S.

Hey Hun,Give her a BIG surprise party that she will NEVER forget!!Remmeber to keep intact with her!!hope i helped!XoXo NiCoLe~!

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I am a girl and 13 and i'm obsessed with a 41 year old actor, (Johnny Depp). Is this a bad thing to want to be with a man that much older than I am?

No, that's just normal.Lol no need to worry.Hope I helped xoxo Nicole

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last nite, the guy i like (lets call him bob) asked me if i liked him... im starting to get over him, but i still like him. bob is a sophmore and im a freshman but we are good friends that get along great. i know bob doesnt like me becuz i asked him who he likes... (its sum girl who alredi has a bf) i kind of want to try to get bob to like me even tho i know he doesnt. last nite wen he asked me if i liked him, i said no... i was wondering if i made the rite decision because, now i know bob wont like me becuz he thinks i dont like him... but i dont rele want to tell him i like him because i dont want things to change between us... WHAT SHOULD I DO??

-- confused girl w/ a 1-way crush

Hey Hunny,You should have toold him te truth or just have been like "kind of why?" because he might have wanted to go out with you or liked you too and didn't want to say it because you didn't!!!Hope I helped XoXo NiCoLe~

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ok see like my moms going out with this guy..hes kool and all just stupid stuff that really annoys me about him..like the fact that everytime i do somthing wrong he wont come n tell me he tells my mom n she overreacts about it..for example the time i left my straightener on on the bed..he want and told my mom about it but he wouldn't come n tell me..so i get in over trouble cuz my mom thinks its a BIG deal when its really not ..and like he nags my mom all the time about how i dont know how to cook, clean, do laundry, chores, fold clothes, make the bed good..etc and then i get bitched at for not knowing how to do it and its not my fault..anyways people say i should tell him how i feel but i dont want to hurt their relationship and i dont want him to be mad at me.. i dont know id feel bad :/ well wut should i do?

Hey Hun,prove that you can be good!Just acyt more responible.Then see what he says about you!!hope i helped!XoXo NiCoLe~!

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14f. I really really want to get my nose pierced I think they're so cute!! My mom said I'm not allowed any piercings until im 16, what can I do to try and convince her that I really want it done!!! & I can't do it myself, it'd be way to difficult/.

Hey hun, maybe you should wait to get your nose pierced because moms usually always have reasons for things. But if you really want to convince her show her that you are responsible enough to have it done. You might also want to tell her that you will do extra things maybe around the house if she lets you get it done. Or maybe make a deal with her. Hoped I helped! XoXo Nicole

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I like my boyfriend, and i like to be around him. but im not sure if i really like/love him. Im 15/f. He says he likes me too, but we dont really have that much in common. I had my heart broken in the past and well i really dont want it to happen again so i was wondering if maybe thats why im not really into this guy. I want to be because he is awesome and one of the nicest guys i have ever met, but sometimes i think about things to much and then i start thinking he really isnt that interested in me. What would you do in this situation?

Hey Hun,if you think you don't love him i would break up with him but say that you still want to be friends and how much you care for him. DOn't waste your time dating him because Mr.Right could be looking and maybe he wasnt it.So just keep on looking!!Hope I helped!!XoXO Nicole

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My mom was an alcoholic, everyday she would drink. DUring christmas even more, just because she hated using all of her money and was afraid we'd be moneyless after christmas. On 12/23 I came home from school, all happy because it was the last day and now I have a 2 week vacation, and I came home to my mom being drunker then hell! I was sick of it and I went upstairs because I didn't want to talk to her. About 2 hours later my dad got home and yelled me from upstairs ( I was sleeping ) .. he said that we had to go to the hospital because my mother had passed out.. she had overdosed on anti-depression pills and was drinking ALOT of alcohol at the same time. when we got to the hospital we waited about 30 minutes and they came out and told me my mom was dead. I can't stop thinking that this is all my fault, like if I would've stayed downstairs maybe I would've stopped her from OD. I've been to a psychiatrist about this, but nothing seems to be working. What should I do?? Thanks for any help in advance! (sorry its so long)

Hey hun,its not your fault!It's hers she shouldn't have been drinking.Don't take this out on yourself. Do you really think she would have listened to you if you told her to stop?Trust me babes,its not your fault!!!Feel free 2 ask me anymore questions!XoXo Nicole~! i hope i helped!

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My ex-bf and I started talking again online. Sure, we worked everything out. It still feels funny when talking to him though, especially if I still like him, and he has no idea. Well last night, I asked him wut he was doing online, he told me he was talking to people and "his" girl. At first I thought, "is he refering to me?", but then I was like no, he can't be, he has another girl in his life. Well I was babysitting today and i was watching 3 kids play outside in the front, and what do you know...my ex comes walking down the street (he lives in my neighborhood) with 2 girls. I pretended not to even notice him because, look at me, I'm a loser babysitting, and look at him hanging out with girls from MY school and MY classes. I KNEW he saw me because right when he was in front of my house his face was no where near the direction in looking at me. So my questions are,
1) Should I ask him what he meant by "his" girl? I don't wanna look nosy though...can there be a way to make it sounds "non-nosy??"
2)Why didn't he even bother to say hi, or call my name, even if I wasn't looking his way?
Thanks soooo much
and you'd never guess who'd be asking this question...yes, I am a person on advicenators who gives advice :)

Hey Hun,If you guys are friends he shouldn't care if you ask him hat he ment by 'his' girl.JUst be like "You kno a couple nights ago how you said 'my' girl?What did you mean by that?" It shouldn't bother him.He shouldn;t be emmabressed to say who his girl is!!Hope i helped!XoXo NiCoLe~

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I cant ever find the right guy for me. Most guys get mad becuase i always turn them down and they think i do it to make myself look to good for them. I just want to be with someone that i can tlak to and someone i find attractive someone who can make me laugh and someone who i can have a good time with. I cant seem to find anyone out there.

Hey Hun,Don't look for love.Love will come to you eventually.So while you are wiating just sit back and relax.Get that off of your head and Mr.Right will come to you when its time!hope i helped and you find Mr.Right!!XoXO NiCoLe~

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Me and this guy are friends right now and I feel we have a close connection since he always seems to want to talk to me. But he has a girlfriend....so tell me please, how do I get him to like me as more than just a friend OR ask me out? Please help it would be greatly appreciated.

Hey sweetie,he has a girlfriend repect that and wiat.They probably love eachother a lot.DOn't take that away from them.The best guys come on their own!!hope i helped!XoXo Nicole~

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Well out of the blue, starting after winter vacation, my old best friend is coming back to my school. We were best friends growing up till third grade when she lefty for a Catholic school well now she's comign to my public school and she was nervous and called me up for the first time in 4 years. NOw that I am the only one she knows it means that sjhe gets to "shadow" me for her first week till she learnes where everything is. I kinda don't want her around anynmore though, she immature and I have outgrown her and made new friends. Yet i feel stuck becuase her mom called my mom and said how excited she was and stuff and i can't just bum her off on someone.... What can i DO?

Hey sweetie,maybe she changed!Give her a chance.Cathlic School is very strict give she probably changed!So just give her a chance to make friends but while she does that let her stick around with you.Hope I helped and it works out!!XoXo Nicole~

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This year i made a lot of friends and they are alll really popular and they are my really close friends. They used to invite me to everything that they did and now they don't so i don't no if they still like me as their CLOSE FRIEND! COULD HELP ME OUT HERE!!

Hey sweetie,talk to them,if they were "real" friends they would understand.And if they aren't and don't understand find new friends!hope i helped XoXo Nicole~!

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I've been friends with this guy forever...and I really like him. I don't know what to do...but I really wanna go out with him and hook up with him. Sounds cliche: but i don't wanna ruin our friendship. Alternatives?

Hey sweetie,this what i would do.Have a friend go up to him and be like "do you like ______(your name) and he says yes your friedn will say "really?because she likes you too" and if he says no she will say "oh?just wondering" but you need 2 talk 2!hope i helped!XoXo Nicole~!

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i am a guy and i am in middle school and there is this girl that is like my best or 2nd best girl friend lets call her hilary. so hilary asked me out and i said yes then about a week later she dumps me. then a few days later she asks me out again and i say yes cuz i still liked her. then 3 days later she breaks up with me again. and then about 3 weeks later hilary asks me out agian and i said yes then she dumps me five days later and i have a feeling that she is gunna ask me out again wut should i do if she does?

Hey babes, Say no!!No matter how much youlike her she is just using you!!Sorry to say hun but from what i just her thats what i'm thinking. I'm a girl,trust me hun!hope i helped!XoXo Nicole

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well is it wrong to like someone elses boyfriend? Well, i have this friend who is one of my best friends and she has a boyfriend who i think is wicked hott..and i sometimes have dreams about him but not always. I mean this best friend is wicked nice and i love her to death& i would take a bullet for her..but she has boyfriends all the time & i never had one boyfriend..and i wanna be happy& shes always happy.and im never happy. i mean its not like im gonna go steal him away from her cause im not that kind of friend or girl. but i dont know what to do or think.. should i just forget about this and just keep liken the boy ive been liken for a long time now or what? need some help..

Hey Sweetie,ask her to hook you up with 1 of her boyfriends friend!Thats only if you like them of course! But i think you need to talk to her and tell her how you feel! Maybe she can get you a date with the guy you like for a long time since she doesn't really have a trouble with guys!hope i helped!XoXo Nicole~

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