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Hi!I have a friend. Well, i like this guy, but then i told my friend about this guy and now she likes him to. The guy asked my best friend out. I was crying for like almost an hour. She told me that she still wanted to be friends and every thing but i dont know. It hurts really bad and the only problem i have is should i still be her friend or no? Sould i tell her that i hate that she is going out with the person that i really like? i dont know what to do because i dont want to lose a friend over a guy.

I think that I'd be crushed if this happened.. I can't believe she said yes to him even though she kneww you liked him, even before she did. I would talk to her and tell her that you're extremely hurt... that's the only thing that I think would make things better. Just sit down and have a longg talk with her. =]

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Okay, so my boyfriend and I were hanging out tonight and he kept tryin to like get into my pants, i don't mind because we've been doin that a few times and it doesn't bother me..but now i have my period and i don't want him doing that right now..what should i say to him to get him stop with out him being offended. i dont want him to think i don't want him to do anything any more..thanks

Just let him know that you have your period.. he won't be offended. He'll be thankful that you told him before he found out for himself lol

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long story short:
I went to a party met a really cool guy there and now we're pretty deep
it's been like a year now and he asked me if we could *blush* you know what.
I'm sooooooooooo not ready beCAWZ we are both erm, young totally not the time until we've got our lives together.
So anyway I heard a rumor about how he's been creeping around with other chicks going into hotels then the next thing i know my girl calls me up spitting bs because she saw him with this girl in his backseat ((sooooo not cool))
I asked him and he said no.
here is my question:
My girl never lies to me we're blood ((blood sisters but not like that))
but she could be jealous but so many people have said it and said it was like a different girl every night. I really dont want things to end but they just might
WHAT DO I DO?!!-signed.
WULA!

if your friend is known to always tell the truth .. believe her over him. if you're not letting him have sex with you [good decision considering you know you're not ready] maybe he thinks that he can get what he wants from other girls. then come back to youu and act as if nothing ever happened. if you hear things from plenty of other people .. then i might start to believe the plenty of people over him. but the thingg is .. maybe he really is telling the truth. all you can do is keep an eye outt. don't jump to conclusions.

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Ok.....so guys...people at school call me a slut like all the girls and stuff...but i really don't think I am...and like they all say that guys love sluts..but i dont know....i meen I really dont think I am a slut..but guys do you like sluts or no...and what turns you on about a girl the most???

thanks

[ guys don't want sluts ]
slut's a just there to screw and then move on the next day.
trust me - I go to school and see plenty of them lol.
guys don't want to have a relationship with a slut. they just see them as someone easy to get ontop of. haha
suree they might get more attention.. but it's only because they disrespect themselves and give off that they're easy.
_ respect yourself _

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soccer is coming up soon.... i need to get in shape... really bad. whenever i run now i feel i get out of breath a lot easier. and i think my leg muscles decreased, i lost a lot of weight. what can i do do get in shape, and increase my muscles (mainly leg muscles.. although arm muscles would help for my throw-ins)?

thanks..

There are actually a lot of excercises you can doo. You shouldd try to run. That's what I do a few weeks before soccer starts. Try to start out with 8 minutes of running. Then the next 9. Then 10.. so on. Run with a friend, listen to music. It makes a lot easier. You can also work out at a local gym. Also, try doing a lot of lunges. [ slowlyy ! ] What you can do is bring a CD with you on a run, jog for a song, then powerwalk for the next .. etc. It's also a help to work out your upper body for soccer, even though a lot of people think you don't need to for soccer. There's a TON of exercises you can do to get in shapee ! Have a greatt season.

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i ben playin soccer for 5 years now....im okay...i should be better i want to be better....i just get nervous when i have the ball and i lyke kick it anywhere and i dont have very good ball control....is there ne 1 who plays soccer who kan give me a few tips or excersizes 2 do?? i have practice everyday (i amde the skool team) for 2 hrs...so we do practice ALOT but the season is starting in about 3wks and i wanna get beter...thx

I know a lot of people that are like thiss.. You may just need to get some more confidence. I used to just kick the ball anywhere .. I think it was mainly because I was afraid that I couldn't do it. Sometimes you just get intimidated. You should try to get as much practice as you can. Maybe you can try to join other soccer leagues too. The more you play, the better you get. You can get some people off of your soccer team to practice with you. Have them play defense and just try to dribble it down the field. You can try dribbling around cones to gain ball control. Even ask your soccer coach for help. I hoped I've been a helppp. =]

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Some of my friends are smoking (cigarettes). I'm really worried but I don't think they'll listen to me if I ask them to stop. Should I stop hanging out with them or what? I'm afraid of being pressured by them.

The truth is, your friends probably won't listen to you when you ask them to stop. They'll think that it's their life and they should be able to do what they want. And they just mayy pressure you to start smoking. Just simply tell them no. Peer pressure = sucks. They might keep trying to get you to. Don't give in, just keep saying no. You should still be able to hang out with them, considering they're your friends. But if they don't respect your decision to not smoke, and constantly bug you to... then maybe they're not exactly true friends.

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