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Thinking about suicide? Think about this
You've decided to do it. Life is impossible. Suicide is your way out.
Fine--but before you kill yourself consider these facts:
Suicide is not usually successful.
You think you know a guaranteed way?
Ask the 25-year-old who tried to electrocute himself. He lived. But, both his arms are gone.
What about jumping?
Ask John. He used to be intelligent , with an engaging sense of humor. That was before he leapt from a building. Now, he's brain- damaged and will always need care. He staggers and has seizures. He lives in a fog. But, worst of all, he KNOWS he used to be normal.
What about pills?
Ask the 12-year-old with extensive liver damage from an overdose. Have you ever seen anyone die of liver damage? You turn yellow. It's a hard way to go.
What about a gun?
Ask the 24-year-old who shot himself in the head. Now he drags one leg, has a useless arm and has no vision or hearing on one side. He lived through his "foolproof" suicide.
You might too.
But...
Who will clean your blood off the carpet or scrape your brains from the ceiling? Commercial cleaning companies may refuse that job- -but SOMEONE has to do it. Who will have to cut you down from where you hung yourself or identify your bloated body after you've drowned?
Your father?
Your mother?
Your wife?
Your son?
The carefully worded "loving" suicide note is of no help. Those who loved you will NEVER completely recover. They'll feel regret and an unending pain.
Suicide is contagious. Look around your family. Look closely at the 4 year old playing with his cars on the rug. Kill yourself tonight, and he may do it ten years from now.
You DO have other choices. There are people who can help you through this crisis. Call a hotline. Call a friend.
Call your minister or priest. Call a doctor or hospital.
Call the police.
They will tell you that there's hope. Maybe you'll find it in the mail tomorrow. Or in a phone call this weekend. But what you're seeking could be just a minute, a month, or a day away.
You say you don't want to be stopped? Still want to do it?
Well, then, I may see you in the psychiatric ward later.
And we'll work with whatever you have left.
I love you all LOTS
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is being a vegetarian a bad thing?? my friends think it`s like being anorexic or somthing! (link)
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nO its not bad I am a vegetarian you dont realy loose waight or anything your stil leating and all jsut not meat and they make food that loks and taste like meat but its not meat
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well.. the guy i like wants to finger me and i told him he could and..i know that we won't talk about it anymore i know that its just going to happen, and i just started using tampons the really little ones and.. i've never done anything else .. "downthere" so im pretty tight, and i know all guys automatically think "ohh use two fingers" is it going to hurt really bad? should i judt deal with it and it will get better? (link)
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it wont hurt that much but if he sticks his fingers down there to for it can pop your cherry exspecially with 2 fingers with one it would be ok but its not going to hurt when he fingers you but most likly he will use one finger only old men in there 20's use 2
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does anybody know where i can get music for free.. i really want to hear this song from like.. a year ago.. but i dont know where to find it?! i will rate 5s:) (link)
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realplaymus.com some thing like that go to google at put that in hope I helped
Megan
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everything's a mess! nothing's going right..
my grades at school are low unlike other times when i always got all A's..and i am loosing my self-confidence..this friend of mine is so PECFECT at everything that i don't know what to do..even when i try my best, she does better than me! it's just frustrating and i start crying..she is my best friend but i can't help it..her grades are just wonderful, and her everything is so great! when i look at her and look at myself, i feel very stupid..can you please help me get back on track?
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Well Katherine Just each day when you get home from school go over what you did that day. Ask your friend if she would like to study together. And if you can make time go to your teachers and tell them that you are having trouble with what ever you are having trouble with. And dont let your friend get to you and you not stupid grades arent every thing in life evan though you need to try your best on them its ok if they not your best I'm sure if you do what I told you about sitting down each day and going over stuff you will bring your grades up and if not come and talk to me agian if you have any ~?~ IM me Cookiemonster L2 hope I helped
Megan
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Can anyone tell me the right way to shave down there? I shave down there, but after shaving I still feel hair, especially on the lips. I have a really hard time shaving the lips, is there an easier way to shave them? (link)
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Get that shaving cream stuff like for your legs any kind is good but I usially wax evan though it hurts you can get done with it in like 1 sec and you get every thing when you wax it once or twice you will not feel it as bad the 3 or 4 time
hoped I helped
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is there any way to change your password once you have an account? if so how? thanx. x0 (link)
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All yiu need to do is go to profile settingsright when you get on that page there will be a big long box _________________ you put your password in it and the password you would like to have
hope I helped
Megan
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does anyone know any good sites to learn how to belly dance with step by step instructions or know how to belly dance. no instructors or videos/dvds (link)
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THere is this brittany spears video thats show you how and its like only $5.00 lol you can get it at wal mart or but I got it for $3.16 lol
hope I helped lol
p.s. it also shows you how to do the worm too lol
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ok well i have sweaty arm pits i want to tell my mom but i dont know how to..like i was think of saying mom i think i have a problem do you think you can take me to the doctors..and she would probably sat why..i would be like because i have been sweating and i want it fixed..but its to embarrasing to say anything about it...do you have any suggestions? (link)
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Its really normal every uys and girls go throgh it its just soem thing normal but embarrasing jsut like some one starting there period lol
hope it works out for you
megan
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Okay,I'm goin out with this guy.And im starting to get sick of him pickin on me insted of loving me.Like the other day at a game he was like hittin my leg,i know hes just kidding.But its getting on my nerves.. (link)
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maY be you should just tell him like say I really want you to be serious about our relationship and all just tell him how you feel and if he keeps on doing that jsu tbrake up with your probably his first girlfriend so he doesnt know how to act or anything
hoped I helped
Megan
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hi
ive got this friend and shes really annoying, she folllows me around EVERYWHERE and i mean EVERYWHERE! even when i want 2 talk 2 my other friends in 'private' she has to come up and listen in. my other friends think shes annoying as well and we dont no what do. and she always leans on my shoulder all the time and when i tell her to get off, she says that shes tired or something like that. PLZE HELP
what can i do/say to stop her from doing it???
luv nickixxxxxxxxx (link)
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Well jsut tell her she is getting annoying if she annoys then you need to tell her if not she will think that yall are like the best of friends and keep on doing it and if that doesnt work just tell her I need to tell my friends some thing d oyou mind and she probably will leave and if not I dont know
Hoped I helped
Megan
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I really love the laid-back, hippieish, original style of Mary-Kate and Ashley Olsen...
Does anyone know where to get clothes that look alot like theirs for not too much money...I'm really not into spending 200 dollars on a teeshirt:-P (link)
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Wal-mart has them but I dont know if they will fit you there in the kids section but I never saw you before so you might be that size and they also get allot of there clothes from areopastale
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I'm holding a handful of pills. I want to die so fucking badly but I'm afraid of destroying my family. They know i've tried to kill myself before*but endd up making myself just really sick* n havent let me see a shrink, i have absolutly no reason to be feelng this way. i had a fine day n now im looking at these things wondering what do to. i've taken a few, slowly. counting. but i jsut wanna fucking go but i dont wanna hurt people. i need to get the fuck out. can i run away for a bit w/o being arrested?
14female (link)
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I know how you feel my friend was going to kill her self just think about all the fun stuff do you want to end that and burn in hell for the rest of life or do you want to ask God to help you
Hope I helped
Megan
p.s. Please dont kill your self evan though I dont know you.. You have allot out there for you If you ever want to talk to me about it IM me Cookiemonster L2
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ok i met this guy off buddypic a while back and hes got a salute and a lot of pictures so i know its him for sure and we talk on the phone and stuff....well he wants to meet me next weekened and hes already talking about fucking me in the car next weekend....hes like oh well have SO much fun....i have a boyfriend though of 5 months...and we promised to NEVER cheat on eachother..and me and my boyfriend havent even fucked..should i do this?? (link)
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Well hes probably just kidding about the fucking but I dont think you should but if you do take a couple of friends with you and make sure each one or all the ones that have on bring there cell phone that would probably be best
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i was just wonderin... well i just got my period for the first time yesterday and i wanted to know how many pads your supposed to go trough it one day? (link)
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well if they are the thick ones about 3-4 and if it the thin ones about 5-7 but heres a tip tampons will be better so if you start to wear them now since you just started you will get use to them sooner than just starting to wear them in like a year or something
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i am going to be 14 soon nd i took a cpr class and i like children but i have never babysat before and i really want to but everyone always asks my older sister first and i would put up flyers but thats dangerous, what should i do? (link)
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just go to people that live around you and ask them if they would like you to babysit one day for them and give them you number so that they have no reason not to say I dont no you number thats how I got a job...
Megan
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hey this is for mainly guys unless there are any girls out there who play football- but i reallyyyyy love football and i am a girl and i want to be a coach someday- what do you think? could that ever happen?
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Yeah I thing it would be really cool if you become a coach I would love to see more girls out there on the football field coaching or playing lol
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do yall know any GOOD face masks you can make like with just everyday stuff in ur house? thanks (link)
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eggs just take that big orange thing out lol it will make you skin really smooth and get read of black heads and it feels so good
Megan
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Ok there is this New Guy that has been at my school for like 3 days. And he Sits at my table for lunch, and he also is in my Gym class and my S.S class. And i think he is cute but i don't know if i should tell him or not. Can you guys please tell me if i should your not. (link)
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WEll I think you should tell him
I always say
You never lose by loving, you always lose by holding back.
You never know he might be thinking the same thing you are right now
Megan
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Hi.
If I don't wash my hair every night then my hair gets and looks so oily.I usually do wash my hair everynight but every once in a while i don't have time. Does anyone know any products that i could use to make my hair less oily or anything i can use so it doesnt look oily....please.
Thanks! (link)
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They really dont have any products buy some one told me that if you put baby powder in your hair not allot but a little it will make the oil dry up and it works to
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i have a Question. The guy that beats me. His brother likes me and he said that if i do anything with his brother he will kill me. His brother is not like my ex he is a lot nicer and i really like him what should i do? Michy (link)
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you need to tell some one like the cops or soem one that can do some thing about it if you dont he might think you are doing some thing with his brother and might try to kill you even if you arent doing any thing with him thats what happend to my cousin
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