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Q: K so about a month ago Mr. X (who doesn't know I exist) walked across my PE class to get the the basketball court outside. Usually we have people walking in and out all the time so it wasn't so odd. Other than that, I barely see him around school. I took a PE class to meet him maybe but he is in a more advanced class.
So today, I went inside his PE Class and was playing hoops when he walked in and looked at me with a suprised expression on his face and asked his friend "Is this the ------- right class?". I didn't understand why he would say that because usually people walk into the gym and play all the time.
So my friend and I moved to the outside courts and started playing hoops in the rain. There was only a guy at the edge of the court, trying to tie his shoelaces. Other than that it was just me and my friend. Then Mr. X walks outside with his friend and stands at the edge of the court with his friend, dribbling a soccer ball with his feet. Anyways, he just stands there for like 10 minutes, dribbling and talking to his friend. It was odd because everyone inside was playing ball and he led his friend outside to where me and my friend were playing.
Sorry if this is long but is he interested maybe or...? I rate 5's.
I think hes defiently intrested

Q: OKay well i like this guy and the only thing is that ive gone out with him 3 times and i broke up with him last well the only reason i did is because im scared to get close to anyone i guess like my dad left when i was 12 and one of my best friends got all mad at me for no reason and stoped talking to me and my sisters about to have a baby so my moms all strest and is yelling at me and my best friend cammi is going threw alot right now and i normally help her and i cant even give good advice now and normally im realli good at helping people but now i cant get my mind off this guy i like and my advice has been realli sucky. im not sure what to do so can someone please help me..
aww you sound like a really good friend. anyways...I think that your scared to be have your heart broken which is like really normal but i think that you should flirt with him again and maybe if you want let him know that you like him so you guys can go out again. You have alot going on and you need a boyfriend. Really hope i helped

Q: Ok, so I have been going out with this guy for almost a month, but it feels like it has been longer becasue of certian things. I mean we have been like best friends since 6th grade and we madeout before going out, so it's not like we started out as slow as some people might. He's still really good friends with his ex, I mean I'm friends with her too and I'm also good friends with my ex, but I get jealous of his relationship with her, and I'm not usually a jealous person. I don't know how to say anything to him, or to her, because it's a werid subject for me, and to top things off the only person that I can really talk to about with, or have really talk to about it at all with, is my ex. How do I say something without sounding like a girlfriend who reads too much into things and worries too much?
Okk well i think that you shouldnt talk to your boyfriend about this because it may ruin your relationship... i think that you should just think about the friend relationship you have with your ex. You would b kinda mad if your boyfriend got jelous of him. Plus...your going out with him so he does like you more than her. just try not to get jelous. Hope i helped =]

Q: there are these kittens under my porch and i don't know what to do...i know to call the spca but,my mom says i can have because there is only 3..but here is the problem they will not come to me..i don't know how to get them to come to me...
can somebody help..i don't want it to snow one day really because i don't want them to get sick.

if you really love animas then you answer this then...
Build up some trust... put out milk and maybe cat food every day and each day move it farther toward your house and then hopefully soon they'll come on your porch and then you can give them milk and hopefully theyll learn to trust you i hope i helped and i hope the kittens turn out fine

Q: My parents won’t let me go out at night or with my guy friends. And this is what all my friends are doing so night after night I’m finding myself at home playing chess with my little brother. This is not how 10th grade is supposed to be. How do I get my parents to loosen up? Also they won’t let teenagers drive me places. How do I convince them that this is ok? And how do I get them to trust me with more freedom?
Yeahh well i think that if you havent screwed up lately then you should tell them that you havent done any thing to loose there trust and should b able to go out when you want and when they give u a curfew b home! Then defently dont screw up that night
hope i helped =]

Q: Wow this is a pretty long story and I really don't know where to start. OK I met a guy on an online chat place and we hit it off really well and really liked eachothers personalities. We decided to start talking on the fone and got into the habit of having a daily conversation and became pretty close. He lives in Staten Island and is 18 while I live in N.J. and am 16. Neways we decided to meet @ my house 1 day after school buh my mom somehow got his # and called him and told him that if he ever stepped foot into my hose she would call the police and get him in jail. I got grounded 4 a month because I had lied to my mom about our relationship. A month has passed and during that month we weren't really allowed to talk. Now that that month is over I called him and we are officially dating even though we've never seen eachother which is quite strange. He's really busy with work all the time and he only has 10 minutes in his day to talk 2 me. It's really hard 4 me to live with 10 minutes a day having never met him because i feel like we need to talk more often. I confronted him about my needs and he told me that he's always really busy and he never really has time, which I completly understand. It's really hard 4 me to go through my days not knowing when we're going to meet because we both run on tight ass schedules. I love him a lot and he's the only guy that truly understands how I feel about everything. We plan to meet extremely soon, like in a week or two but I'm just wondering if it'll last?? Long distance relationships are really difficult and what makes it even harder is the fact that he's muslim and i'm jewish. Yea we have a lot of obstacles 2 face but I feel like if we go through them together than we'll be ok in the end. Should I try to get over him? What should I do about the fact that we live so far apart? I really don't know what to do anymore..because I want to be with him but I feel like I can't. What do I do????? Please Help. Thnx in Advance!!!
Okk. so you talk to him on the fone right? so you know hes not some wierd rapist or something. so i think if you really like him just try to make it work if not just get someone closer theres many guys out there and you dont want to stick to one guy who u never saw. u noe what i mean? well i hope i helped

Q: Me and my girlfriend have been seriously dating for almost 3 years. 8 years before I met her, she became friends with an exchange student from Belgium. She had a big crush on him, however nothing romantically happened. Last week he was in town and needed some 1 to go to Orlando Florida with him, my girlfriend and her brother agreed to go with him. At the end, her brother wasent able to go, so she ended going with this guy by herself. I trust my girlfriend 100 percent, however, the thought of her willingly going, while fully aware of my negative feelings towards this so called "friends" trip has been driving me crazy. Ive asked around and the answer I always get is " get rid of her". My question is, do I have the right to feel mad, disrespected and betrayed by my girlfriends actions, what should I do?
well i think that shes allowed some space but its not right if she knows u dont like him. So..idn hope that helped a little.

Q: if i do 50 or more sit ups every night about how long should it take before i start to see a difference?


hmm about 2-3 weeks

Q: hey im 16 and okay so heres my problem...well i have a boyfriend who switched schools and who lives like an hour away so i dont get to see him much but we talk all the time...i love him a lot and i dont plan on doing anything to loose him...but...well before i used to like this other guy and we were like close to going out like we could really tell we liked each other but i never knew what happened but we still talk alot and we're good friends and i think i like him again but this...this is VERY BAD...BECAUSE hes going out with my best friend and they've been together for like 3 months and its bad enough that i already have a boyfriend who i really dont want to lose...now i dont know how my friends boyfriend feels about me and im trying hard not to show that im starting to have feelings for him again...i just need some advice on how to just get over him and put him in the past i really really want to and i'll do anything so please help!
i'll rate
heyy well i think that you should Defently not flirt with him since its ur friends boyfriend and all but just keep telling urself that you love ur boyfriend since you do. and maybe since you can drive you should go and see your boyfriend more often that may make it better to like him more
hope i helped

Q: My best friend is moving next june(2007) and I won't have any body to relate and hang out with in jr high(9th grade). My 2 best friends in the 5th grade moved away and now this is happening. We both can't believe what's going on. She's told her mom that she was not moving and that she would glue her feet to the floor. She sais that Me and her boyfriend should become best friends b/c we have a lot in common, I just don't know what to do. I feel really depressed right now. What should I do?
wow i noe exactlly how u feel..i've had 2 best friends move away. Okk heres the thing when my best friend(lauren) moved away i was so sad cause i didnt really talk to anyone but her cause she was always there. but when she moved i was sad for the first few months and i still am sad cause i remeber all of our memorys but i got alot more friends cause she moved. You will find another best friend i promise and you should still stay best friends with ur friend thats moving. yeahh hope that helped=]

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