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I've posted music questions before, and only got like, one or responses on them, so please, can i get a lot of replies?

i LOVE music, but it seems like im always listening to the same stuff. i hate rap, but heres some songs i like, so can you guys name some good songs?


tears don't fall-bullet for my valentine
calling all cars-senses fail
girlfriend-avril lavigne
only one-yellowcard
smile in your sleep-silverstein
& other bands like, rise against, +44, etc. but i only know a couple songs by each band.
so please?!!?

I like pretty much the same music. but my favoirte bands are Valencia and Hawthorne Heights i deff. suggested those :)

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Anyone know any websites I can go to to watch videos of like people doing double spins? I tried to google it but it didn't help me. Thanks!

i'm not sure but maybe try youtube.com

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I was talking to my friends like an hour or more earlier and they were at one friends' house hanging out. Since they were going to leave his house soon, they told me they were going to another friend (he lives like 2 minutes walk away from me)to watch a movie and that they'd call me when they get there so i can go over. They told me they'd call me in 10 minutes but they didnt, so i called them like 5 minutes ago and they were like "oh yeah, we're watching the movie right now". They didnt even invite me or remember that they were suppose to call me or anything. Needless to say, Im annoyed and slightly hurt. I don't know if i have a right to be. There's like five of them and not one of them bothered calling me or asking me if i was coming over. My friend was like "Yeah we're watching the movie.. why are you calling us?" I didnt feel like explaining that I thought i was invited... apparently i wasn't? I dont know. So now I'm quite upset.. my question is do I have a right to be? Or am I just overreacting?

you deff. have the right to be bad. & you should just get new friends. but also i'm sure that by tomorrow you will be liking them again :)

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i have a really immature and pathetic problem thats made up of a few little problems. but it's REALLY bothering me and stressing me out.

this part isnt really a problem; two days ago the most amazing, sweetest thing happened to me. "matt" is my best friend. he means everything to me. i am so comfortable with him, can be myself around him, can tell him anything, and our relationship is so important to me. it's so hard to do that with anyone else because i'm kind of shy and insecure. but matt gives me butterflies

OMG this is one of the trickest things i have ever read. idk what to tell you hunny. But you need to be there with your friends b/c it looks like both of them are going through so hard times. & they both need SERIOUS help.
But also i think you should just go for the guy. Because your friends will hopefully accept it sooner than later. But if he truely makes you happy and you should just go out with him. but still stay really close to your friends beacuase they really need you.

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in november, we had an incident in my family where my dad beat my mom and tried to choke her. ever since then my parents have never acted the same. now i have these dreams that my mom kills my dad and that they stab each other and all of this. what should i do? 6 months later, it wont go away. should i get help? what do i do.

Thats soo terible. But you should seek help from anyone you can trust, or even someone with more experiance (like any kind of consilor). You will be happier, and glad you did it.

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Im mormon. I can't wear shorts/skirts/dresses clothes above the knee. But all my other mormon friends wear them. Its ah-nnoying!! I really want to wear them because I feel left out and not pretty. i have such pretty legs and body its just how can I wear short skirts?? What should I do?? Thats why I hate summer. Im jealous I just cant stand girls wearing them and NOT me. HELP!!
:(

Well if you think its against your religion then don't do it. Your other friends are "breaking" the rules. so just stick to your cut. and who cares i'm sure your beautiful inside, and well out (even though people don't get to see that)

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Ok so i got a boyfriend yesterday and 5 of my friends like him and before i said yes i talked to them the 4 were all fine but cut but they toild me to do whats right and they were so nice then my bestfriend ii asked her and i told her if you dont want me to il just so no but she was so happy and she was like YEH go for it but she told that she had gotten over him ok and she was like go for it yay then when i said yes she started crying now shes mad at me and i dont want to dump him what should i do =[=[ ??

WOW thats a tuff one. well your friend told you that it would be ok. so its rude for her to be upset about it now. but she is also your bestfriend so don't let that relationship end. Talk to her about it. But don't break up with the guy. just see what happens and you wait your friend will except it :)

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When I go to the doctors office, he shows me a chart that charts my weight and height, and has my weight and height when I was younger. I think that the chart is related to BMI, but im not positive. Anyway, does anyone know where I could find a chart like that?

the shape kind of starts thin, then curves up and gets wider. if that helps.

http://www.nhlbisupport.com/bmi/

you can find your BMI at this site. its real easy just type in your weith and height!

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I wasn't sure which category to put this in so..Ok..Anyways. My friend (a girl) has a boyfriend and I'm single (I'm a guy). So one day we were talking on yahoo and she said she was gonna call me again (We had talked on the phone the past four days in a row.) And before she left she said "Haha, I talk to you more than I talk to my boyfriend." and I wasn't sure on how to respond to that..I don't know if that's a bad thing...Or a good thing..PLEASE HELP!! Thanks in advance.

well first thing first..do you like her?
I'm a girl, and i have a few really good guy friends that i like to talk to a lot. I don't like them like them though. but if you don't even like like this girl then don't worry about it. I'm sure shes a nice girl, and was just saying that in a nice and "friendly" way :)

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Right now I use a 2inch ceramic Chi straightener, but I'm thinking of switching to one of those straighteners you can use while your hair is still wet. (Because it takes my hair forever to blowdry, and I'm tired of rushing) Do these straighteners work as good as normal ones? And what's a good one I could get?

well i have one that you can use when your hair is wet. but i think it kinda makes your hair frizzy. but thats just me. so i don't know

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Last month was the time that i had my first real period. the month before it was just brown. But last month i used a tampon although it was my 1st period. I only left it in for a couple hours. I havnt had my period again. I was suppose to have it about 2 weeks ago. I have this discharge like stuff that reminds me of jello because its all mushy and stuff, but its clear and oderless. Could this be a sign of anything? Why havnt i started and is there something wrong? is it safe to use tampons?

well it was only ur first time. and it'll be irregular sometimes. but don't sweat it. it happens to everyone :)

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me and my ex boyfriend have gone out twice and the last time i dumped him because i thought he was flirting with other girls cause he was calling them "sexy" and stuff but thats a whole different story but now hes leaving me comments saying "hey sexy i miss you" and stuff like that and hes leaving me compliments but hes saying the same stuff to other girls, the thing is though hes only talking to those other girls cause he wants to "get some" and he knows hes not going to get anything from me, he says he likes me still and he misses me but i dont get it if he likes me and i know he really does like me then why would he flirt with all these other girls? someone wanna fill me in?

Well if he really did like you, then he would forget about the other girls.
but guys are guys. and half of them are just looking for some ass. So i say froget about him, and find someone that will love you, and only you

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