so i am going to sound rediculous, and this may be long, i appologize. but i am in a strong need of advice and this is the only place i can turn to without a biased opinion now.
i went out with this guy zach. he was really sweet but kind of immature. but i really liked being with him b/c he understood me like no other person ever has, he was a good boyfriend. well his immaturity got to me and i broke up with him, but we both thought it was only temporary, i know this.
we never stopped being best friends though, the day after we broke up it still didnt feel wierd. its a little bit mroe distant but that was my choice after this happened...
2 weeks later we were talking bout getting back together and we were flirty and he told me how much he loved me. well i have history with this girl in my school, we were friends and we got in a fight b/c she didnt get invited to my party [yea immature little fight that teenage girls get into, i know i was wrong but we all grow up] and instead of just being catty like any other teenage girl she went to the shcool and told them my dad beats me, i had bruises form volleyball but no my family is fine i never told her this she was just trying to cause drama. me and my sister almost got taken out of our house by social services, she thought this was funny. well her name is kelly.
and at this party zach was all over kelly they were cuddling in the bed, fell asleep together, and flirting alllllll night and every1 there [even he admits] that they were acting like boyfriend and girlfriend. this really hurt my feelings b/c it wasnt just any girl, which i would have been upset but not say anything, but he knows what she did to me and he was the one i was crying in the arms of when social services told me and my sister we were going to be taken into foster homes [they didnt b/c lack of evidence, me and my siste rof course denied everything]
it felt liek he betrayed me... i tried to mention it but all he said was "im not replacing you with kelly" and i told him it was about alot mroe than that, he will just make me feel like im being over jealous.
today he asked me out again, he did that with kelly last sunday. i told him im gonna have to think bout it, that hurt me but we are great together. he gets me more than anybody and i love hanging out with him but the kelly thing will always bother me =/
ONE MORE ISSUE, i dnt have alot of time... there is this guy Matt that is the sweetest guy ever. he likes me soo much and i liekd being with him, he makes me feel really good. he's friends with my friends and really the perfect personality but im not sure he knows me at all... he likes me but i feel liek if i let out my crazy side or my temper gets the ebst fo me he will not expect it and think of me differantly
so the questiosn to answer :: should i dump zach? or go for matt?
Well since you mentioned this other guy. I think you're learning towards him.
Zach wouldn't have done anything with that girl. Especially when he knew what happened between you two. He wouldn't have gotten close to her like that.
It seems like he wanted you to get jealous. Because if you saw him with another girl... you'll supposedly want him more. I think that could have been a plan. But I don't think anyone should tell you who to go for.
And this Matt guy..? I guess you could go for him and get to know each other a lot better. People will always think of others differently when their emotions let loose. But it won't be drastic to I like you to i hate you/You're weird
unless you do something drastic/wrong. Like your temper, if you punch someone. Maybe that's a bit too far.
You could give Zach another chance. But he seems like more of a best friend. He would have put your feelings in consideration instead of getting close to another girl.
You could go for Matt. He seems to make you happy.
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ok im a girl and homophobic. but not scared of gays but im scared of lesbians. am i still homophobic or what? i dont hate them or anything but i just get scared of them. and is being homophobic is bad?
Yeah I guess it is a fear. But you shouldn't go around saying you are homophobic..
Because people don't take it as it's real meaning [a fear of the 'same']
they take it like you hate gays.
Maybe you're afraid of someone hitting on you or something.
It's not bad
it's just who you are..
It's bad..if you say you hate them.
You are afraid of lesbians.
But you don't hate them.
So I don't really see a problem.
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i used to pluck my eyebrows all the time!!
i havent for about 5 months now.
my eyebrows dont exactly grow along my head, but kinda up upward, like off my head.
PLEASE HELP!!!
if you know anything products or tricks it'd really help!
Yeah. I had that problem too. Do you trim them? The hairs can become too long and stick up. You just brush your eyebrows upward to the side and trim.
Now.. you need to train your eyebrows to stay in one place since they are growing out all awkward. I use hairspray or hair glue [Ice]
it might take a while for it to stay like that but if you continue to use hairspray.. it will go back to normal.
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okay well today on the bus my boyfriend, lets call him tim, well he was like "you can't even see your earrings cuz your hair is like waahhh" we have been going out for a week and a day and then my friend like help up his hand to "pound it" and like a did a hive five so he like pounded the high five i guess you would call it because i am just random like but anyway then tim was like "now thats just retarded" and that kinda made me mad i dont know. and he usually says i love you when we say by on the phone but he didnt today. do u think he is mad at me or was he just playing around on the bus or maybe he had a bad day? i dont know, please help!
thanks in advance!
I don't think he's mad at you.
Maybe he did had a bad day. Just see how the next day goes. If he doesn't say anything nice then talk to him about it.
Does he usually say things like that? Do you know him that well? Maybe he's being himself and just playing around.
I would play attention to what he says though. Does he just comment on what you do or what others do? If it's all on you, then you need to talk to him and say that it kinda bothers you.
The first comment seems okay though. The second one.. is a bit questionable. It just depends on how he says it.
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I'm thinking about dying my hair black or some other color. I was wondering if ya'll thought i should or if i should go with another color here are some pics of me. (ya, i know some of them are a ...touch crazy lol) and ya my hair is blonde.
http://viewmorepics.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=viewImage&friendID=87885386&albumID=0&imageID=1748121274
http://viewmorepics.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=viewImage&friendID=87885386&albumID=0&imageID=1808139103
http://viewmorepics.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=viewImage&friendID=87885386&albumID=0&imageID=1808133979&MyToken=14134a90-6fdb-45e4-80f7-4a815b85b487
Thanks!
Black might be a little bit harsh with your skin tone.
Maybe consider chocolate brown or a light golden brown?
The pictures are kind of hard to judge from. The lighting I mean.
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Im getting my wisdom teeth out in 2 days. I am soo scared. I am pretty sure they are impacted or atleast the top ones are. Is it really going to hurt? Ive heard the procedure is nothing, which i believe but i care about the pain afterwards! Im also getting the "laughing gas" people say its like being high..well ive never been high so what should i expect? How do they give me the gas (like on a mask? i dont get it)? Will I know where I am when I wake up? Will my face be swelled up? How long? Im getting them out on a friday so will I be able to go to school on Monday? Oh god I am soo scared I just want it to be over..Thankyou for your help&time.
I've read some experiences from laughing gas. It is a mask they put on you. You feel lightheaded, dizzy, "high" and you won't feel a thing. It's an ansethetic.
I chose the IV. I was out so quickly. You probably won't remember where you are. For me.. it felt like I was sleeping/dreaming and I had to blink a few times to realize where I was. Someone might help you walk you out just so you don't fall over [because you might be a bit dazed]
Yes your face swells up. It will take at least a week to go down. I would not go to school Monday. You should try to get a note to stay home for most of the week.
Get lots of soup and probably.. straws. I had my top and bottoms out. Yes it hurts if you don't take your painkillers. I refused to because I don't like pills but gave that up, and took them. They really help.
The first day, you should try eating whatever you want. The second day was a struggle to eat. You should take the medicine they give you once you get home so you don't get that throbbing.
You won't get any pain.. if you take the meds they give you.
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okay, see i have just started my period so i have no breasts. Prom is in 3 months and i want a really cute dress. but one problem, i have no boobs! i have a water bra, so people think that i do. would they have grown by then? or what can i do to make them look bigger? ( im 14 )
You can get those padded bra cups.
There's also a padded tube bra.
You could always wear a bra with straps but, wear a pretty shrug/etc [http://www.knitlist.com/98gift/shrug-shawl-bedjacket.jpg]
along with your dress to hide the straps [if you are wearing a tube dress]
It is possible that you can grow in that time but don't expect a huge, noticeable change.
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There is this cute guy that goes to myspace and is at my school. He isn't "totally freakin adorable" though. what are some good convo starters. in a message?
/Hey, I've seen you at school. I've always wanted to say hi!/
/Hey, don't you go to ____ [school] ? You look familiar./
/Hi, i think you're in my friends class. He/she said you're pretty cool./
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Does anyone have the myspace to someone who was on Sweet 16? :]
http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewprofile&friendID=113148626
http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewprofile&friendID=112881765
http://myspace.com/alli_m
Just go here:
http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0445890/
and sign up.
Go look through the message board of My Super Sweet 16
and people have posted their myspaces.
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I was just curious if you are someone close to you hads a b.day that is on february 29, how do you celebrate it and just what day to you call your b.day during leap years. Is it odd or what?
You can celebrate it on Feb 28th or March 1st. Somewhere close to it.
Whatever day that's good for them, really.
It's not odd :]
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umm i have to read a newberry honor book. which one do you think is the best read for a 13 year old girl who likes like a little romance, humor, adventure, emotions, etc in a book? like just a good book basically, or i'll lose interest easy. i have to get it at the library tomorrow, for a literacy assignment. thankyou lots! it doesnt even have to be on this list. it just has to be a newberry honor book or a newberry award book.
these are some i found that i may like:
On the banks of Plum Creek
Ella Enchanted
The Cricket In Times Square
The Giver
Maniac Magee: A novel
Island Of the Blue Dolphins
Little house on the prairie
the view from saturday
the great gilly hopkins
joey pigza loses control
bud, not buddy
Holes
Charlotte's Web
The Summer of the Swans
The Westing Game
THANKYOU FOR YOUR TIME!
I really liked The Giver
The Giver.. was hard to lose interest.. It was so strange and different from our lifestyle.
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alright im fifteen yers old and i had over 900 friends on myspace till today when it was hacked. The only one who knew my password was austin my best friend! would he do something like this? He said he would never, and I belive him but I have a doubt too. Idk whoever hacked it only left me with 12 friends im pissed
Just trust him.
And it's not like you knew every single friend on there.
People with 900+ friends are a target for hacking. If someone is good at computers, they will hack. It's quite easy to hack with the right programs and the skills. It would only take a few clicks to get your password. :/
Because they know that those people are "myspace whores" and worked so hard to get friends...
So they just want to upset them.
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Why in school my boyfriend acts like he doesn't really want to be around me or even talk to me?
No one can tell you why exactly.
There can be a number of reasons why, but there's not enough detail in your question to judge from.
You really need to ask him yourself.
Maybe he's giving you the wrong message. And you anaylzed his actions wrong.
But you really need to say something to him, to actually get somewhere.
Like.. "It seems like you don't want to be around me at school."
And bring up what he does. Like if he doesn't hug you or whatever he does/doesn't do.
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13|f kae. as we all know Valentines Day is only a short way away me and my boyfriend have been going out since January 16. i want to know what i should get him | i dont even know even know if he is getting me anything . what should i do | get him ?
Well. You should give him something little like a card [bought or made] and a piece of his favorite candy or chocolate?
Nothing big in case he didn't get you anything. [I'm sure he would] but just in case.. so he wouldn't feel bad!
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My mom knows im obssesed with using my computer. I love it. I dont watch tv, I just go online and play pc games or chat with my friends. My mom says I spend to much time. I got my grades in they werent too good, but I passed? She yelled at me and called me a loser. My brother and sister kept telling me hahahaa kc ur getting ur internet taking away. What am i going to do without it? My brother and sister are like loners and have no friends im serious i never see them hanging around with ne one, r they jealous I have a life?>
Well, you really don't have a life if you are online a lot.
I don't think they are jealous. They probably find it funny that you are online too much and your mother might do something about it [taking way your internet]
Since you seem to be online a lot, they want to see how you can live without the computer.
You could maybe watch tv or have a friend over.. Do anything but go online?
What does your siblings have to do with this though? Your mom can probably turn off the connection/power. You can have an 'offline' life and spend more time with friends. It doesn't mean you have to hang out with your siblings unless you are grounded?
You should show your mom that you can use the computer but keep up your grades. You could always do research and study that way. If you bring up your grades and use the internet to your advantage, I doubt she would bother you about being online too much.
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i'm female, 15 years old. There's this guy, aaron, that i really really like. me and him hooked up a while ago, but then he said that he loved his ex. so...things were akward for a while, then they were back to normal...most days. he's really moody, and somedays he flirts with me and makes me feel soooo loved, but then other days he doesn't even smile back at me or wave, and on even worse days he flirts with other girls and is a total ass to me. My friends usually say that he's so moody because he's going out with his ex again...but i don't know.
so my question is what is he thinking, and why is he sooo moody
Do you know if he's going out with his ex?
It just sounds like things aren't going well with them.
I really wouldn't know what he is thinking or why he's like that. Maybe you can pull the answer out of him?
It jut seems like he flirts with you when he can't get with another girl. Just like.. he's using you because he knows you will always be there. :/
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how do you get guys to notice you without being sluty and suchness like that??
being yourself will get the right guys to notice you.
if you are slutty, of course you are going to attract guys.. but they aren't the ones you want to be noticed by.
it may seem like no one is noticing you, if you are yourself.. but somebody always does.
you have to be confident and show off that pretty smile of yours. they will notice you that way.
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how do i get glue off my hands?
superglue?
yes nailpolish remover works.
you could always peel it off but that might take a long time and it could make you skin a bit raw.
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i am an athlete at college and i am bulimic...i also just found out i have a heart murmur...i think its caused by my bulimia...is it pssibl that i might have a heart condtion?
Some heart murmurs are harmless, but you really need to talk to your doctor and get it checked out.
You might have a heart valve problem.
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I'm wondering what color I should dye my hair. I dyed my hair black about 4 months ago. My original color is dark brown and my skin is like caramel. My hair goes a little past half of my back. I'm thinking I want to dye my hair like a light light brown so that it looks almost orangy, or like a deep red, its kind of reddish purplish. Tell me what you think. What other colors could I dye my hair ?
I like a dark red would be good.
Dark colors would compliment you.
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