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im 14, and have been with my b/f for about 5 months and today i ACCIDENTLY stuck my hand down the back of his pants. i meant to put my hand in his pocket but i missed! he told me not to be embarrassed but i still kind of am! am i overreacting?
Yeeeah, you might be overreacting just a *bit* .. it's not a big deal, and if he told you not to be embarrassed, then he obviousely didn't care too much. So, yeah, I wouldn't worry about it :o).
xo .
ok im about 5' and i weigh 106 lbs and my friends all say im skinny but i dont seem to think im skinny and i know that muscle weighs more then fat and im a gymnast and a softball player but i still think im gaining weight and i guess i eat ok.. but im still worried that im becoming fat.. am i fat?
You're definately not fat :o). You're obviousely athletic, and yeah, I don't think you have to worry too much about gaining a little weight.
im 13 yrs old almost 14 iv been strugglinh with eating disorders the past 2 years, ive been eating now regularyly and gaining the weight i lost back. its really hard knowing i used to be so thin, anyone have any advice? and im 5'1 or 5'2...for those two heights whats a healthy weight for them? thanks
Anywhere from 98 - 136 is technically a healthy weight. If you're not already, you should start talking to a therapist and if you'd be comfortable with it, maybe join a support group .. you can also try looking around for message boards + websites dedicated to recovery .. try http://www.something-fishy.org/ or http://www.poppink.com/home.html .. Good luck!
xo .
i was wondering the best way to... "enhance" my chest, thick bra, gel, etc,. i dont want to use tissue or any thing like that. is it true pushups, and milk enlarge breast? thanx again
Pushups can increase the size of the muscles underneath + around your breasts, and so .. yeah, I suppose they could make you look bigger. But gosh, you're 12, it really doesn't matter! I guess if you really want to, you could get a padded / gel / water bra, but it's going to seem really odd if you wear a padded one one day and a non-padded one the next day.
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ummm im 13 and i weigh 78 pounds is that what im suposed 2 weigh if not what is
It all depends on how tall you are .. if you're just tiny in general, it could be the right weight, but .. yeah, if you're taller, it could be underweight. But, yeah, nobody here can *really* tell you, because we don't know how tall you are!
xo .
ok, im 12 and im so flat! is it possible to grow boobs over 1 summer? im going to a new school and itd be cool if i had achest
am starting to grow. will i be able to grow in time? if so how big?
i know looks shouldnt matter but every girl i no has a chest
thanx
There is no miracle grow for boobs. You're only 12 .. I didn't have any boobs when I was 12 either, and most of my friends didn't have a whole lot either. Stop worrying about it! Anyone who's opinion you should even care about will like you for YOU, not your boobs. Good luck at your new school! :o)
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Im 5 ft and i weigh 91 Ibs...is that fat?
No, that's not fat at all!
if im 13, gunna be 14 in 4 months, and i still haven't gotten my period, is that abnormal or sumthin, all of my friends have already started, and sum people i kno who are younger then me have started, my mom started when she was 11, my sister started when she was going into 7th grade, and im entering 9th, and still haven't started,is there sumthin wrong wit me??
Everyone's body is different, and people develop at different rates. Don't worry about it, it's completely normal, and there's probably nothing to worry about. For now, just be glad that you don't have to deal with it!
xo .
i am havin a real trouble tryin to pick a colour for my room. i have knda a big room and i dont want colours wot make it to big or to small can sum 1 help me plz
It all depends on what feel you want your room to have and what YOU like. A friend of mine has a huge room, and she painted it a really pretty dark pink, and I think it looks gorgeous .. but I don't really know what you like, so I'd suggest just going to a place that sells paint and looking at the little color swatch things to pick one out. If you're unsure, just buy a little bit of the paint and paint like, one wall or a section of a wall, and then if you like it, you can go back and get enough for your own room, and if you don't, it's no big deal, you can just get another color.
xo .
i have to share a room wiv ma sis and now ma mum said i can move into the spare room but i dont no wo colour to have it. i love the colour pink but my room wiv ma sis is pink so i want a different 1. can ne1 help me
You could always paint it a different color pink than your sister's :o). Or if you have like, molding around the top + bottom of your room, you could try painting that and the frames around your windows pink, and keeping the walls white or something. If you really like pink, and that's what you want, you shouldn't paint it a different color just for the sake of being different.
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my bff loves to wear pants then a skirt over. its so weird and ugly but she loves it and wont listen when i tell her she shouldnt do that...do you have another option instead of wearing that tacky stuff?
Yeah, I don't think that looks too great either, but if it's what she really likes to wear, you can't stop her. I guess I'd just drop it, because that's her style, you know? You wouldn't want something like that to ruin your friendship, would you?
xo .
This is the worst thing that has ever happened to me, my best friend that I've known since I was 2, died. She was in a car with her boyfriend and two other friends when a drunk driver crashed into them, killing everyone. I was supposed to go with Kelsie, my best friend, but I'm not allowed to go to parties that she was coming home from. I feel guilty and so depressed shes gone. What do I do to get over my best friends death?! Thank you
First of all, I'm *so* sorry about your loss =/ .. losing someone is never easy. I lost a friend about a year and a half ago, and from experience, you can't really just 'get over' it. Time is the only thing that'll really make it better, and it may take a while. But at the moment, try to keep yourself surrounded by friends .. you're all going through the same thing, and it helps a LOT to be around other people. You're probably not in school right now, so try to get people together and just .. be together. If you want, you can talk about memories, or just do nothing. Um, if you + your friends knew their family well and you think it's something they'd appreciate, you can write them letters .. and if you want, write her a letter .. you can just keep it or let it go in a balloon or something later on [[ it might sound dumb, but, i don't know, those are some things we did ]]. Just try to remember all of the fun things you did together. Oh, and make sure to spend some time by yourself, because I'm sure you'll need it. But it's pretty much time that heals everything .. if you feel like it'll help you, you can talk to a counselor, and I know there are support groups for people dealing with the same kind of thing, so if that's something you want to do, do some research and see what's available in your area. It's completely normal to be depressed about it for a while .. losing a friend is a terrible thing to have to go through.
xo .
I need to earn some cash 4 my summer vacation. We leave July 15 and I really need to save and make some $ so I can go crazy spending!!!! Lol. I get $20 midmonth and end of the month so when I leave, I'll have $40. That's ok, but I'd like 2 make some more by then. Any suggestions how 2 make some extra cash working around the house or anything? I can't babysit, no little brothers or sisters. If u have any ideas on how 2 make fast and easy $ doing work around the house, tell me!! Thanx.
Luv y'all, Erin (15/f)
You could always try babysitting for other families! See if your parents have any friends with kids that need babysitting every so often, or if you have any neighbors that need a babysitter or whatever. Just make it known that you're available for the job :o). Ask your parents if you can do extra work around the house for some extra money, or go around the neighborhood seeing if anyone needs any yardwork done. You could also try selling lemonade // baked goods // whatever else [[ it sounds little kid-ish, but you can make a few bucks off of it ]], or car washes. Um, if you have old clothes / toys / other things that you don't want anymore and are still in good condition you could try having a yard sale or selling them online. Good luck! =D.
xo .
Hey ok ive ben hilighting my hair for about a year and i jus wanna dye it but my mom wont lemme do u have any ideas that will make my hair blopnder or any way i can get my mom to dye my hair ? thanx!!
Next time you highlight it, you could put more highlights in, or I guess you could get sun-in or something like that if you really want, buuuuut be careful, because that can turn your hair orange if it's not pretty light to start out with.
Are you supposed to wear underwear while playing volleyball in spandex?
Most definately! We always did when I played .. volleyball spandex generally aren't designed to be worn without them, and it probably wouldn't be too healthy to not wear anything underneath.
okay, I just wanna know for all you people who are in gymnastics or dance...can you give me tips on how to do a better switch leap? i've can almost do both of my splits and i dont know if you can help me but i just need to know how to do a better switch leap. thanks.
For me, it just took a lot of practice. I can't see you doing it, so I can't tell you if you're doing anything wrong or not, but most likely if you keep working on it, it'll come :o). Talk to your teacher/coach and see if they can help you out, after all that *is* their job. :o) Good luck!