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I was wondering

if you want to have a baby, like when ur old like 25 and stuff, do you not wear a condom?

i was always wondering

and does sex hurt for the first time??

a condom is used to prevent pregnancy and std's, so if you are trying to have a baby then dont wair a condom.
and yes sex usually does hurt for the first time but dont worry its not that painful and it doesnt last long
hope i could help

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15/m my really good friend,probly best friend in the whole world, who i really like is really depressed. her ex made her feal bad and she thinks its her fault and i never really have seen her happy since. Anyway what can i tell her that would help her. ive tried telling her it wasnt her fault and tried to cheer her up and it wont work. p.s. her name is christy and she is 14. no smartassy answers please and i rate high so please give me suggestions.

all you can really do is tell her it wasnt her fault and give it time and eventually she will get over it. in the mean time help her to keep her mind off it like make plans to go to the movies or shoppin or a sleep over or waht ever you guys enjoy doin. maybe try and meet new people like a new boy probly could really help her get over the old one or atleast keep him off her mind for awhile

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what's myspace? everyone is always talking about it at school!

its a place where u can meet new people. or talk to your friends its very fun u should get on ei love it

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i dont know if you guys are familiar with myspace..and tila tequila in particular but my boyfriend is always lookin at her pics. should i be jealous or what? he tells all his friends how perfect she is and shes like half naked in all her pics! im not even half as pretty as her and shes soo pretty grr.
what should i do.. :\

i looked up tila tequia and if i got the right girl i wouldnt be to worried. you boyfriend has a very slim chance of even ever meeting this girl. let him look at her all he wants it would be stupid to start a fight over this im sure theres guys u think are hot to and look at. hope i could help

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What are some cute ideas to get your boyfriend??? I want somthin' cute but maybe a lil original. Nothing like a pic together but idk. He dances a lot and it abuot always lissening to music.. Im not to great at buying CDS and he has a lot maybe another idea? Please Help!!!

-13/f-

well maybe you can make him a mix cd of all his favorite song
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alright so me and my boyfriend have been together for a month. but we don't tend to talk a lot wich kind of upsets me,i was thinking on ending the realtion ship but i truly do like him a lot. we went out once over the summer for quite a period of time but broke up over a silly reason. but now were together again and i don't want it to get messed up again.how could i talk to him about this?

well its obvious that you two like each other so i wouldnt end it b/c you would probly regret it in the end. make plans with him on the weekends or after school to hang out at your house or his. you guys will get closer and can ave time to talk. if you both have things to do maybe call each other when you have free time or write each other notes.
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My Friend stayed with me last night and we were so bored out of our minds....there isnt anything to do! Can yall tell me some things to do so next time it wont be so boring? A few things that might help you: we are female, 15 years old...i dont think theres anything else yall NEED to know...please and thank you!

you guys could rent a movie, or go to the movies, goto the mall, watch tv, gossip, go online, play a game, or maybe invite more ppl over so it wonlt be so boring
hope i could help

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on december 26, a new family is moving in to the house next door to mine. my mom talked to their realtor (another neighbor) and found out that the family will have a 3 yr. old and a 5 yr. old. by the way, I'm 13.
the question that i have is, how long should i wait before i introduce myself, and how should i do it? i really want to babysit for them, and i work really well with little kids. i've never worked for pay before, just as favors for my aunt (with kids age 2 and 7) so im not really sure what to charge either.
i know this is really long, and has a bunch of different questions. but any answers will be appreciated to the tone of a 5! thanks in advance!

i wouldnt wait to long you wouldnt want someone else to snatch up the job. what i would do is when there moving in go over and ask if they need and help and introduce yourself, help them move in then simpley say if you ever need someone to babysit i can do it.
and i think for babysitin 2 kids you would probly only get 5 doallar and hour.
hope i could help

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what are some jobs to do for a 13 year old

umm theres not to many jobs for 13 year olds but babysitting and things like that
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I know this looks stupid from what the subject is but plz read!!! anyway I like my ex alot more than I did now than when i was going out with him, and I made the cheerleading team and he made the basketball team and this prolly sounds stupid but I think if we do go out again that it would be so cute the idea that he and i would be like the jock and the cheerleader, anyway i like him alot and my friends say go for, yet they say dont at the same time what should i do, tell my best friend (Jon) to tell him i wanna go out with him again or aomwthin????!!!!

umm i would just tell him yourslef. its a little middle schoolish to have a friend hook things up you know what i mean.
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I am in the 10th grade and I am already recieving intrest letters. The problem is that I have no IDEA what I want to do in life. I was once thinking about majoring in psychology, but I have no iDEA, can someone please Help me

im not to sure what anyone can help you with. its not like we can tell you what you want to be you have to find out yourself. but dont worry im in 10th grade and have know idea what i want to be and i know alot of people that are like me to. dont worry you will figure it out
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there is this boy at school that i like. He has a girlfriend but one of his friends told me that he said if he broke up with her than he would go out with me. Should i stay with it or no?????????


lost,

pickme111

umm im not to sure if i really understand whats going on but ill try anyway. if hes going to brake up with her right away for you then sure stay with it he probly likes you alot. but if you have to wait around for awhile for him to this, it kinda just seems like you a back up girlfriend so he has one when him and his current girl brake up, if thats the case you can find someone better.
hope i could help

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my best friends boyfriend likes me what should i do ?

well how do you know he likes you, did he tell you stright up i like you? or do u just think he likes you if so i wouldnt jump to conclusions and ruin your friends relationship. however if he did tell you i like you its important that you tell your friend.
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my boyfriend of 3 months broke up with me for no reason at all.. well i love him.. but i am trying to get over him. i met this other boy and he already loves me.. but hes going way to quick. and i still love my ex. what should i do? i dotn wanna hurt this guy.

you need to tell this guy that you want to take it slow and to slow down because he is scaring you and goin way to fast. start out as being just friends for awhile maybe you like him alot to, and he may be just what you need to get over your ex.
hope i could help

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I really like this guy alot. I have never felt so comfterble with anyone. the thing is we arent going out.. And im not sure if he likes me anymore. I really just wana belike.. "listen I like you alot and I wana be official." Because I like him alot. I just wana blurt out everything I feel but im afraid he doesnt feel the same way! Also theres another thing. I feel so comfterble with him that I kinda wana have sex with him but im a virgin and ive never even been fingerd! But I dont wana give myself away cause im afraid to lose him! WHAT DO I DO?!

i have been there a few times and it sucks. but the answer its simple, even if it may seem hard. since your so comfortable around him tell him how you feel if you youll always wonder what could have happened if you had done something. plus even if he says he doesnt like you you guys can still be friends and you will know for sure how he feels and you can move on. if he does like you start out slow and since you are a virgin you should take things slow and make sure you really have these strong feelings for him before you give him you viginity or might regret it.
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i need some cute christmas quotes for my aim profiler. any ideas or sites that have them?!

thanks a lot

heres one of my favorites:

so dont be scared when a big ol` fat man
comes into your room one night and throws
you in a bag cuz i told santa all i wanted
christmas is you

hope u like it

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hey i love to make things is there any web sites out ther that have simple crafts? preferably for christmas

here are some sites i found a few cute ideas on:

http://www.garvick.com/annual/christmas/xmas-crafts/

http://sdsd.essortment.com/christmascrafts_ridm.htm

http://www.creativekidsathome.com/activities/activity_14.shtml

http://www.fabulousfoods.com/holidays/xmas/giftbags.html
^^this ones my favorite

hope i could help

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Do guys just want girls who are hot? Or something more?

it really depends on the guy. most guys like only hot girls, some like ones that have more then just looks, and thers a few that like girls for who they are and not just how they look.
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Ok. So i just got six new babie jack russels from my brother's dog. The only problem is I don't know what to name the one we are keeping. It's to young to determine if its a boy or girl so plz give me both! I'lll rate 5's on everyone if you follow the guidline. Here's the Guidline...example names:

Boy names Girl names

Spot Ginger
Bingo Sugar
Grizzly Lady
Flash Lassie


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Thank you so much for all your answers. Plz give at least 2 names for both. I appreciate it greatly!!!!

how bout for boys names:
1 barker
2 spike
3 fritz
4 max
5 rusty
6 sparky

and for girls:
1 lucy
2 tasha
3 princess
4 daisy

hope i could help

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Does anyone know any good websites, chatrooms, and basically anything that might help me get in touch with someone with the same interests as I? I'm a 16 year old Asian, yeah pretty sick huh? oh wellz

um you can try myspace.com

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