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I'm Mallory. Im 17 and live in central ohio. I love giving people advice because i think i usually know a good solution to peoples problems. My friends always come to me with their problems so maybe you should try it too!! :)

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If someone smokes pot for about a week straight and stops 4 or 5 days before they are given a dip test for urine testing, will they pass the drug test?

i suggest taking a shot of vinegar each day until your test and drinking a TON of water

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my hair has been falling out like crazy but its not normal falling out i mean its a lot of hair but i dont know why and i dont know if i should tell my mom

16/f

thanks

i would try taking a multivitamin daily. if that doesnt help definately tell your mom!! you may have some sort of alopecia (technical term for hair loss) and the sooner you get help for it, the better!!

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Tonight my guy friend is bringing his friends from another school to this community festival. They are really hot, and I'd like to get to know them. What things should I say or do to get their attention? Should I go with a casual look (jeans and a black cami) or should I wear short shorts with a tight top?

i definately think the jeans and black cami (make sure it shows just a LITTLE bit of your tummy). it will make you look sexy with out looking too slutty or high maintainance. the short shorts and tight top make you look too desperate if you are planning on flirting with them too. listen to what they are talking about with their friends to figure out what kinda stuff they are into and then jump in the convo whenever the time seems right. also, remember something that they said that was interesting to them and bring it up later making it seem like you are into it too!

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All my friends say my boyfriend is weard (mohawk) and an @$$. But he is always kind and respectful to me. Every time someone askeds me if i'm "really" going out with him they laught an say "wow, ok". I think i should dumb him but as i said "he is always kind and respectful to me" what should i do?!?!?!?!

dont listen to what other people say!! people are bitches!! if you like him stick with it!! everyone thought my boyfriend was weird because he had a mohawk and i stuck with him because i liked him n now he got rid of his mohawk and got a couple piercings and is GORGEOUS and we fell in love....and guess what!! everyone tells me all the time now how sexy my boyfriend is!!!!! haha but now i have him and they cant!! i say stick with it!

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okay, so i wanna highlight my hair. i usually go and get it done, but i wanna do it myself this time. however, i dont really have the time to go out and buy stuff for it right now. so does any one know, stuff at home that i could use and how to hi-light it, and not make it look like crap?!

i will rate 5's to any one who helps!

xoxo ♥ Brittany

thanks guys~!

honestly, i wouldnt try it!!!! if you use peroxide you are most likely going to have it in one side longer than the other and have your hair a LOT lighter on one side than the other (the darker side may even be orangish yellowish)!!

save your time, money, and embarassment!!! go to a salon and get it done!!! hair color experts is always an excellent way to go!! if not try a local beauty school for about $25 and ask the teacher who the best in the class is at highlights!!! YOU WONT REGRET SPENDING THE EXTRA MONEY!!!!!

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My boyfriend and I are celebrating our 2 year anniversary next month. Any ideas on what to get for him? I want to get him something nice and special, but he doesn't wear jewelry and he already has a really nice watch. What should I do?

me and my boyfriend were dating for 3 months and i went way overboard and bought him that new nextel picture phone but he LOVES it!!!! try getting him a new phone or bring him shopping with a budget or something. you could also try GOOD tickets to a concert or sport that he likes...if you REALLY wana do something nice you could buy him tickets or something and tell him that they are for him and one of his friends and they should go have a good time...every guy needs a guys night every once in a while!!!

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i just started use tampons. behind my moms back. my sister was the one who wanted me to. but thats not the point. my mom told me all this stuff about how if it gets stuck you will have to get it serically removed or u could even die from them. soo basically im terridy of them. ive got it in "there" but like im too scared to let the plastic come completely off cause im too scared to leave it in there on even sit up. that probally sounds really retarded. but what do i do about. if u give good answeres ill rate high

your mom is being retarded!! yea you can die from them if you get TSS but if you look on the package, the chances of that are highlyyy unlikely...if you make sure you dont change your tampon too much or keep it in for too long and use the right absorbency, you MOST LIKELY arent going to get TSS.

also, your tampon is not going to get stuck in you!!! if it does (which it probably wont) you use your fingers and pull it out....if that doesnt work, you go to the gyno and they get it out with some tongs!!!!!

ive been using tampons for 5.5 years and neither one has happened to me!!!

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Ok ive been going out with my boyfriend for about a month and 1/2 and i love him so much. I know it seems to soon for love but i have been his best friend for many years previous. Everything is going down hill and i dont know what to do. I care so much and i dont know where he stands. We never talk anymore and if we do it goes nowhere. Everyone tells me i should break it off but i cant i dont feel its right. Hes into my friends, and really pays no attention to me. its almost like he has gotten to comfortable.
What sould i do?

sometimes i feel like my boyfriend has gotten too comfertable too....you just need to talk to him about it!! just be like yea i want you to be comfertable with me and im happy that you are but we've only been together for 1.5 months and it seems like you are too sure that i am going to be here with you forever!! you know i love you and want to be with you but we are dating..we arent engaged and we arent married!!! there is a chance that this wont work out..even though i want it too!! i think sometimes you act like you are way too comfertable with everything going on and dont really take time to think that you might lose me. i feel like i feel that im soo lucky to have you and you dont feel the same way about me..because we are both lucky to have eachother...
be prepared because he will ask for examples of how he is "too comfertable"

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It has been over 9 months maybe more since i have cut myself.. but lately i really dont care. But see im trying to open up to my friends about this situation. I can talk about it in a journal. i can do w.e but when it come to explainning i chicken out. My moms even worried bout me being all "depressed" and "stressed" is there a good way to calms down a bit. maybe? or just opening up..please i`ll rate 5 if its a good answer and not some fuck just playing around and asking dumb. this is serious... and im tired of peoples fucking stupid remarks.

if you are cutting yourself you either need to figure out how to quit FAST or get the balls and tell your mom that you need help before you kill yourself!!!

just remember:
when you hurt yourself it is so selfish, you are also hurting other people!!!!
more people care than you think and a lot of times people dont realize that until they are dead and see how many people are at the showing and funeral (that happened to my friend last august)
THINGS WILL GET BETTER!!! i promise!!! i was depressed and wanted to kill myself for like 2-3 years and the only reason i didnt do anything is because my best friend told me that if i did she would...now i couldnt be happier!!!!!! i have a wonderful boyfriend and i couldnt be any happier to be alive!!! my life now is totally worth going thru the hard times that i did

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ok so me and my family are interested in a Sprint PCS Vision plan for our cell phones..there are four of us and od course my dads name will be on the plan thing..we want 300 anytime minutes plus sprint pcs vision picture mail and stuff so the total is $50 a month..but then it says its and extra $25 per month to add a phone with PCS Vision on it..if we all activate our phones to that plan at the same time will we have to pay that fee? or does it mean phones that you add later on? im so confused and i dont really trust asking the people at the counter..thanks!

im not positive but i would guess it is that extra fee no matter when you do it because it says PER MONTH...so thats guna be like $125/month for you guys for only 300 minutes (which really isnt a lot to share...it isnt even a lot for one person)....i would go with verizion because you get free mobile to mobile (no matter if the people are in your family or not) and free nights and weekends (on most plans)..my phone is 550 anytime and free nights and weekends for $40/month

nextel is also a good way to go because they have plans with free incoming calls...no matter who they are from and free direct connect

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KK well see my cousin is like older then i am and im 16 but i was wondering (i dunno wanna go search something incase my mom check history) or the links i go too. so i was wondering if you can tell me some symptoms about cocaine and stuff. shes alway wearing sun glasses and when there off her eyes are alway puffy... she`s really quiet and keeps to herself. she changing alot and its scaring me. why i got the cocaine idea was from her sister. she caught her doing something but wasnt sure. im really worry and i can say anyhting.. to no one. besides uses but its not like your gunna go and tell someone. please help me with this situation and how i can try to stop it from ruining her life.

sleeping all day and awake all night (*BIG ONE*)
sniffing a lot
rubbing nose a lot
nose bleeds
dialated pupils

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I've been searching everywhere to find the bathing suit that I want. I cannot find it anywhere. I'm looking for a plain black string bikini and absolutely no stores have it! If you guys know of any stores where I could find one I'd appreciate it. I rate 5's! Thanks so much in advance.

http://store.alloy.com/content/features/swim/jsp/color_list_layout.jsp?itemGroup=swim_color_black

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I would like to buy a Chi Straightener, where can I find one and how much could I expect to pay for it?

FHIs are better....if you know anyone with a beauty lisence they can get it from brittany co. for about $96 if not try charles penzone for about $135

if you INSIST on having a CHI and you know someone with their beauty lisence barnum beauty supply has them for about $106...if not try a local salon for about $150

FHIs are basically an updated chi....the 2 guys that made chi went their seperate ways and TA-DA....here is FHI!! they work better and last longer!

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I just got my haircut at this new salon and the lady cut it so short..and it's all ONE LENGTH..i usually cut it layered at another place but that person went out of town so I had to get a new stylist for a while. Anwyays, I was wondering if there's a way to make my hair grow out faster so I can get it recut/layered when my old stylist comes back? Please help! Thanks

you can buy mane and tail shampoo which will make it longer and thicker *walmart* and you can also keep getting it trimmed every 4-6 weeks. also try calling a salon and see if they have electrolysis or some kind of scalp stimulator. those things stimulate the oils and hair in your scalp, making it grow faster.

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Hey, I want to get my lip pierced. The lebrae (sp?) kind. (You know how it's in the middle and what not) But my fear is that it will hurt extreamly bad. If anyone has gotten theirs pierced could you tell me how bad it hurt? Or any other information I need to know? THANKS!

my boyfriend got his done and said that hit tongue and cartlidge on his ear hurt much more..he said that he went in to get his labret pierced and when he left it didnt even hurt so he went right back in 2 minutes later and got his eyebrow done...but he might have just been trying to sound cool...

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hey i really would like to know where i can buy some sunglasses like.. the nicole ricci type! .. and they're big and the outsides are thick and white and the actual glasses parts arent black but kind of a dark brown! and i dont want them from somewhere really expensive like dior or something haha but around like $40 $50 or even less..i know there's some girls out there that know exactly what im talking about;) please help! i'll rate everyone that answers with a reasonable answer with 5's

if there is a rue 21 around you, try that...they have a ton of sunglasses for $5-$6

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I got my hair dyed like in March professionally, and the hairdresser said to come back every 8 weeks and I can get my roots fixed up for half price. Well it's too late now, because it's 3 months later and my dyes faded, my hairs soo screwed up because i dyed it wayy to many times so it's like 5 different color shades. My mom got her hair dyed professionally, too in about May. She just told me today that she's going to get her hair dyed again, and I've been asking her for sooo long. her hair doesn't even need done, it's like her roots are showing slightly, and my hair looks stupid and she even said it! I help soo much around the house, I'm not really spoiled, I don't ask for much. What's something that I can say or do to my mom to try & get her to let me get my hair dyed NOW!!

tell your mom that your hair is upsetting you and really hurting your confidence because you feel ugly. also tell her you will help her clean the house one saturday morning to help pay for it.

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Dose anyone no any cute/hott hair styles for summer? i have an oval face..if that means anything. Thanks!
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you are very lucky because everything looks good with an oval face!! try anything!! i suggest framing your face with a razor and adding all over layers...a 90 degree haircut is always cute (your hairstylist will know what you are talking about).

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Usually I get my hair dyed and highlighted blonde professionally. But now I want to dye my hair a medium brown and I was wondering if the hair dye boxes at the store did a fairly good job at it? Is it even that possible to screw up on brown? If you have used anything in particular that you've tried and it works, could you please tell me the brand and price, etc? I've use hair dye kits PLENTY of times before, but i always used blonde (which looked horrible) and was just wondering if brown worked. Thanks.

you cant be positive with store bought hair color kits...those usually contain metallic dyes in them which are very bad for your hair. also when you go to a salon to get it done in the future, a lot of their hair color reacts badly to metallic dyes and if your hair is still growing out and its still in there, there might be a bad chemical reaction. i suggest getting it done professionally.

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ok...does anybody know how you can make your hair big...like in the 80s? like, REALLY really big....mostly blondes did this to their hair, but ive been wanting to do it, but i dont know what its called or how to make it stick up and stay up...so if u can, PLEASE reply a.s.a.p!!! thanx

put hairspray in your hair, then grab a rattail comb and tease it.

to tease it:
*grab a small section of hair from the crown of your head and hold it straight up very tightly
*use your rattail comb to push the hair down toward your head, basically creating a huge knot
*do this to 5-10 sections of hair on the crown of your head
*use a brush with soft bristles and lightly comb over the knotted mess
*hairspray it and you're good to go!!!

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