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Q: i live in NY. is it to late to still be wearing UGGs? to me it is.. but i still see people wearing them? do you still wear themm? ..the weather here is like in the 50's.
when the weather in new york is in the 50's i think its too late to wear uggs.some other people might wear them still but it is up to yourself.i live in ireland and the weather is between 14 and 18.if you saw someone wearing them over here now you would think they need their heads cheaked.
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Q: i need my ex-boyfriend back like you ahve no ideaa i dont no what to do this is like the first time this has ever happened to meee pleaseee helppp mee give me like cute things to say too him plzz
you should say something like this.i was just wondering do you want to give us another go because i still have feelings for you and it was a big mistake breaking up.
GOOD LUCK!xxaoifexxx

Q: So my boyfriend is almost positive he got genital herpes from an ex-girlfriend. However, he hasn't been tested and he hasn't had an outbreak. We've been having sex, intercourse and oral, protected and occasionally unprotected. I'm wondering what my possible chances of catching or having caught herpes are. Thanks in advance.
your boyfriend needs to be tested ASAP and if he does have herpes then you have to be tested ASAP too.you have a good chance of getting them from him when ye didnt use a condom.i hope everything turns out ok,xxaoifexxx

Q: whats four-play?
foreplay is what couples do everything except actual sex (intercourse).excample:kissing and touching.
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Q: im 13, and boys my age are REALLY immature.. so i tend to like boys that are alottt older then me.

like, i like boys that are like 16-17.
is it bad if i dated boys that much older then me?

would be the pros and cons?!
theres nothing wrong with dating boys older than you but boys of the age 16/17 are at the age of having sex.14/15 i think is a good age as long as they know where they would be going with you. if you know what i mean?im 13 too and boys our age are really imature but with my experence boys at the age of 16 are looking for one thing SEX!

i hope i gave you good enough advice,xxaoifexxx

Q: oh my goodness. my period keeps flowing so fast, it wont stop. I have to keep changing the pads. does anyone know any ways to make it stop or go slower.??? I heard eating chocolate does i think? Is that true, or are there other ways?
im the same way it is so annoying.lots of exercising will make it lighter but longer aswell and drinking lots of water will make it lighter too.and for changing the pad less often would be wearing super ultra pads.GOOD LUCK!xxaoifexxx

Q: This weekend I am going to the movies with my boyfriend, but technically this is our first date. Any ideas of what I should wear?? I want it to be cute but hot at the same time, without being trashy.

Thanks
i will give you two different outfits.

1:a denim skirt,a cute longer top and flats

2:nice jeans,a cute v-neck top and flats or flip flops.

i hope your date goes well
i would love to hear hoe you got on
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Q: I would like to dress really pretty for when I get back from spring break which is Monday to school!!! Have any ideas as what I should wear, my make-up, my attitude, my hair, shoes, and everything else?? I would like to get started soon:)
i dont know what style you like so im going to keep it down to earth.

clothes:maybe skinny jeans,a nice fashionable top
that is modern and unique
shoes:a nice pair of pomps (flat shoes)
hair:if you could get your hair coloured or
without the trouble of getting it coloured
maybe straightened or curled and the top
piece pined back.
makeup:eyeliner,mascara,fountation and some lip
gloss.
it is nothing too drastic but it is really nice and it is simple to put together,
GOOD LOOK!xxaoifexxx




Q: 13/f. hey i get manicures alott, (french) and i was wondering how to make them last longer?


your so lucky you get alot of manicures.but anyways i think the best thing would be leave them drying in the dryer for a while longer.that is the only thing i know that would make them last longer.
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Q: Ok well my lips are soooo chapped and it bugs me more than being on my period. Don't ask. Anyone know how to get them to be not chapped fast??? thanks!
i use blistex intensive moisturiser.carmax is really good but it might sting a bit and i think vasoline is the best because it looks like lip gloss and it is really good for chopped lips.hope i gave you good enough advice on what stuff to use on your lips.
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Q: okay so .. there was a lil chance i could of been pregant so i took plan b pills . i wund up getting my period about a week earlier than i should and a week after i had sex and took the pills, its never on a certain time though. i get it all differetn dates. so when i got it it wasnt light, but it wasnt as heavy as it was usually . do u think anything is wrong, or im just over reacting and worrying to much?
there probley isnt anything wrong but if you are still worried about it then you should go and see your doctor (if preferred a female doctor)doctors are there for you to ask questions and to help you to stop worring.GOOD LUCK!xxaoifexxx

Q: Hey, so my bf and I don't make plans with eachother too often, but when we do he doesn't show. Like we planned to go to a dance together and that day I was talking to him and he randomly said I am grounded today. And I didn't even think that he wouldn't go to the dance because he was grounded. We weren't even like talking about the dance when he said he was grounded. So he didn't show up at the dance, and I was all alone. Then he said he would go to my basketball game, and he didn't go and when I called him his excuse was he was grounded. Then we were going to go to a hockey game and I called him twenty minutes before the game to make sure that we were still on, and then he was like oh yah I can't I'm grounded. So I was pissed because he wasn't even goining to call me and tell me that he couldn't go. And on top of that I asked him for his cell phone number and he wouldn't tell me. It's not like he just didn't tell me he won't tell anyone, but what is up with that. He won't even tell his best friend his number. But he told me that he loved me, and is planning on kissing me. Am I missing something??? We are going to the movies this weekend if he stands me up again what should I do I really like him. People say that I should have already broken up with him.

HELP!!

Thanks : /

well if your boyfriend really loves you he should give you his number and should give you a prober reason why he didnt show up.to me it sounds like he is just using the ascuse of being grounded maybe he was before. but all the time?
if he doesnt show up at the movies then you have to tell him that you cant continue going out with him if he doesnt make an effort to show up and then he might start showing up.you probley will find it hard to say that to him but other whys he will just not show up and he will say he was grounded.GOOD LUCK!xxaoifexxx

Q: basically every three weeks i get little drops of blood in my undies - i think its blood at least but my discharge isnt discouloured and i was wondering (because its happened for about 2mnths now)if its the start up to my "big first" period where i have a big flow or something
your first period wont be big and as you have been getting these drops every three weeks that might be your period so i advice you to start wearing pads or you might call them towels when you get these drops because they might get a bit heavier and you do not want your period to come through your clothes.
good luck!xxaoifexxx

Q: My Daughter is 11 and she tells me shes old anough to babysit but i dont know if she should. I started babysitting when i was 11 but i want to make sure its a good age. Please help!
well i started babysitting at the age of 12.but every child is different.it depends on how machore the child is and if they are good in situations like a baby waking up and wont stop crying.hope my advice helped.

Q: 13/f

Tomorrow im going to my boyfriends house
And tonight im stayin up late
No exceptions
I am deffinatly staying upp late tonight.
So my cousin that's a dude is going to go look at a house like with his mom and brother and he wants me to come
But thing is i would have to get up at like 7 on a SATURDAY morning
I dont wanna go
But i would deffinatly feel wicked bad if i didnt
So what should i do?
well i hate getting up early on saturday mornings it should be law to stay in bed on saturday but anyways you should just tell your cousin that your really tired after the week that is if you are
hope everything works out,xxaoifexxx

Q: Okey well all my friends are all most the sam,
well when it comes two this.

okey so thay ask me if i can do something & if i cant ill tell them and say where on the phone & the`ll be like OH well i gotta go or just stop talking. or be like can i call you back later & never call me backk

im a a suckkyyy friend?
no your most defintaly not a sucky friend.you dont have to tell them everything that happens in your private buissness.would they?
im just like you i tell my friends i will ring them back later sometimes i do but not all the time.they dont think im a sucky friend they just know i like to keep somethings to myself and if your friends are really good friends they wont think you are either.

i hope i gave you good enough advive.dont worry that you are a sucky friend because your not.
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hi!im a 13 year old girl.i have brown hair and i am tall.
i am from ireland.
i love music and boys!
i play basketball and football.
i have two sisters one younger and one older.

my boyfriend dara is the sweetest thing.my ex-b/f rang me loads of times saying my b/f is cheating on me and he wants to go out with me.i asked my b/f and he said he would never do anything to mess things up between us and im like soo sexy so why would he cheat on me.im totally falling for him.

my friends tells me that i give great advice so if you need some i would be happy to give some.




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