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Hey my name is Rachel and iam 17 years old and iam going to babysit for this 15 year old autistic boy during the summer for a whole month what if he has a seizer what kind of activities should I plan?what if I don't do something right and he throws a fit he sometimes does that?
when his mom is gone more than a few minutes he gets upset and throws a temper tantrum and his mom is going to be gone 2 hours every day and I don't want to turn her request for me to babysit down becouse his mom has done so much for me in the past the least I can do is babysit I can't do this alone what should I do? (link)
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ok 1st take a few deep deep breath. ok if something goes wrong call 911.make sure that his parents leave some intrustions. If he throws a fit so what, allllll kids do. Just TRY not to give in. be nice and understanding. kids really love it when you play with them and watch movies/t.v with them. Ask his mom what music id ok for him to listen to because kids love to dance!! Ask her if it is ok if you have a friend with you while you babysit that way if you go to the bathroom he will have someone else in the room with him and he most likely won't throw a fit. hope i help.!!
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Ok so im only 13 but im in love i've been with this guy he's 15 i've known him since i was 3 he asked me to marry him because he said he loves me what should i do (link)
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ok 1st ur 13 and he is 15 so ur both just a little to young to get married. I think it is great that you both love eachother but if i were i wouldn't rush into anything too fast. You should really date a little longer and if you still feel the same then get married. Wish you the best!
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Ok, I'm having problems with my neighbor/really really really good friend. We've been friends since about 2004. Things went great until the beginning of this year. He just started not coming over anymore. He used to sleep over at our house every week but not anymore. His mom has talked to mom and has had problems before. She's really mentally messed up, she just clings to every single little thing she can find wrong with people. For example: One night he called (His name's Kevin) to see if we could play late Saturday night, but we already had some other people over so we told him we couldn't play. So his mom got together everyone in the neighborhood and did some picture-taking outside our lawn (our lawn) just to show he had friends too. xD
And recently, he's been having friends over and not inviting us like CRAZY. He keeps wanting to sleep over on weekends when he's over here but his mom won't ever let him. And his birthday was last week. I at least expected to get invited to his birthday party, but nope. He wanted to, or so he claimed, but his mom already picked out the friends who were coming, and I wasn't on the list.
I don't know why it's gotten like this. He just called asking for me to fix a problem with his Xbox so he and his friends he has over can play, and yet I can't go over there. That's using me right there. I want to be his friend so bad, but I think his mom's spreading lies about us and Kevin's hearing them.
What should I do? Should I distance myself? Thanks for any help. :) (link)
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try to keep in mind that his mom has "problems" and he has to deal with her carefully. maybe he wants to hang with you but because of his mom he can't. you should tell him whats on ur mind. be stright with him and see what happens.
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Ok, so theres this guy and I like him. He flirts with me a lot, but idk if it's intentional or not. We have a really small class and I'm the only girl he admits being friends with. We used to talk a lot. He told me he thought I was the prettiest girl in our class {but keep in mind we have a super small class}. Then, I wanted to go out and he pretty much said no bc he thought I was ugly. Since, then we're still friends, but I have no self esteem. Guys give me compliments, but it doesn't matter bc I always think back to what that guy said. I'm just confused because there's always "accidents" in which he'll hit my ass or boob, but I'm the only girl it happens to with him. Everyone thinks he likes me and that I like him. I just don't know what to do, I moved on but then he kept coming back and flirting so, what should I do? sorry its long, I do rate!! (link)
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ok 1st off hun, it doesn't matter if you have a small or big class he called you pretty! why he called you ugly maybe it it because he really does like you but doesn't want you to know it. I think he really does like you because why else would he grab ur ass or boobs? I think you ask him if he likes you more as a friend. be stright with him and he should be stright with you.
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im supposed to think of 3 different types of songs for our 8th grade farewell dance (im on student council) and i need a "Rap/hip hop" song, a "slow" song and a "overall" song..by overall they mean how the year meant..and it was good and bad and i cannot think of ANY!
5s for anything.and i mean anything! (link)
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ok this id going to sound lame but for my end of the year solo i sang unwritten by natasha bedingfeild, and my boyfriend loved it so much that at his gradutation their song is unwritten!
hoped i help!
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i really cant stand my sister. like anytime she says anything, i like want to kill her. she gets on my last nerves, and its at the point that i cant even be in the same room. shes yougner than me, and thinks shes innocent, but she bugs the hell out of me, and i really cant take it. any suggestions to like get her less annoying (there is ab-suh-lutely NO way im going to a therapist) (link)
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ok well i what i do when my rother is being annoying is i stay away from from, or i go to a friends house.
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I have this class and there is this guy that i talk to the entire period. Today we were doing something and we sat at a table and i had my hand out on the table and he put his hand on mine like he wanted to hole hands with me. I have a huggeee crush on this guy.
Would this be a sign of anything? (link)
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Ok I would say that it is a sign! YEA 4 U!!! I think this guy might have a crush on you 2!!
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At school I've liked this girl for a while, and some of my friends have found out that she might like me too. I was going to ask her out, but then I found out that she is getting married soon. It's not a lie because, I'm guessing that is what her family believes in. Although she might not be getting married for maybe a couple of years, should I still ask her out? (link)
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boy tough one! I think you should ask her if she is getting married, and if she says yea, then you shouldn't ask her out because if it is a family thing you don't want to disrecpect her family.
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I am 15/f. I am not sexually active and I am a virgin. The most my boyfriend has done is finger me. I'm not sure if I can explain this but I will try. The inside of my vaginal area, the folds inside the lips, are now for some reason outside of the lips. Before, the lips touched eachother and now they are apart because the inner part is sticking out a little further. My urine smells different and sometimes my vaginal area is uncomfortable. Any clue to what this can be or if I really need help? (link)
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ok i have no idea whats wrong with you but if i was you i would go see mt doctor. i wouldn't care if my mom got mad or if i was embarrest.i rather my mom be mad at me and me be embarrest then do nothing. i could be something that you need to get check out.
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Me and this guy were kind of dating then he stopped liking me cause he met some other girl. Now, he is coming back to me and wants to have what we had before. I don't like him, the only reason why I would get back with him was to kiss him cause I have never been kissed before. What should I do? Go along with it and get kissed... how could I do that? Or just totally forget about him? (link)
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if some guy leaves you because he thinks he found something "better" then you but then came to his senses that it wasn't what he wanted...hunny you could do so much better. if i was you i would want my 1st kiss to be with a guy who liked me for me.
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First off, i appreciate anyone who can answer this. second, this is going to be somewhat long but here goes nothing:
On saturday my mom told me my boyfriend could come over. she wasn't home for 30 minutes and he came over during that time which she said she was fine with as long as we don't go upstairs to my room. But we went up there. while we were up there we had sex for the first time and while we were doing it, she came home. so we raced downstairs and acted like nothing happened. and she didn't suspect one thing at all. then the next day *sunday*, one of my friends called me and asked if i had sex with my boyfreind. i told her yes along with the story. while i was telling the story my mom picked up the other phone line and heard EVERYTHING. she knows now and is calling me a slut, and trash. now she is telling me i am not allowed to see my boyfriend ever again and if he steps foot into this house she will call the police because he's 18 i'm 16 and still a minor. so i guess she could have him arrested for him having sex with a minor.
i still want to continue to see my boyfriend but now we are going to have to sneak around. i know that isn't right but that's the only way we can see each other. any advice on what i can do to get my mom to let me see him without her freaking out and calling me a slut??? (link)
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well here's the thing....i get why your mom is mad at you. you can't blame her. If i was you i would ask your mom if the ONLY way he could come over to your house is she was there the whole time he was there. it sounds lame i know but is is better then nothing.what my friend did was she sneeks over to his house while her mom and dad are sleeping. *hint* just remember if your gonna keep having sex with him do not come home pregant.
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alright. see heres the thing. last night i had a dream where i was hanging out with my bestfriend (hes a guy. im a girl) and ive known him a loooonng time and when i first met him i liked him alot but i had a boyfriend (still have the same bf) and i ignored my feelings for him and really they went away now that i know him really intamitly as a bestfriend. so last night i had a dream that was with him and we were 5 years older and i was laying on him and stuff and we were making out and then we had sex. and im really worried cuz i liked the dream :( and being that i have a boyfriend and hes my bestfriend and on top of that i am really good friends with his girlfriend. so all of this is freakin me out. do you think it was just some random dream or something more? (link)
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here is the thing..i think that you might still have feeling for this guy and you have been blocking them out because you have a boyfriend and you know his girlfriend. I think you should deside if you like this guy as a friend or something more.
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