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like, one day i asked my mom why i have bags under my eyes and she said it was because its basically hereditary and even if you get enough sleep its still gonna be there.
so i was wondering if there was any way to maybe get rid of it or make it visually less noticeable to me and to others.
or a way to cover it up, but i'd rather not have to.
soak tea bags and put them on the bags for at least 15 min. then put cucumbers.
trust me it works 99.9% gurantee:D
♥kay
what are some cute stores(online)to find cute bedding..like sheets?
ikea or bed bath and beyond
♥kay
Although this is long, I dont know where to turn and would appreciate any responses. Thanks.
Hi everyone. I'm 13/f and my best friend is 14/m.
Well, he moved here last year and his old school was kind of bad, but we clicked right away, I helped him fit in, so to speak (even though I'm not the most popular), and now he's the most popular guy in our school, by most people's "standards."
I didn't think he'd done anything bad at his old school, and I still don't.
But, as I've been becoming "closer" to him I've been finding out things like, he seems to have a girlfriend just to "do things" (not bad, that I know of - just like kissing) with her. When I first found out he kissed his girlfriend I cried- I know it sounds pathetic, but he seems to go out with girls who have NO redeeming qualities, and now he's going out with a "sl**" (I hate to say that, but most people think so.)
But she's not the worst. One other girl in our school is really bad, does drugs (well, it's a rumor) and is the sl***iest. She's probably done really bad things with guys.
Well, I feel horrible about this - and I'm still guilty - but, I found out someone's email password from my grade, and happened to see an email that said "____(the girl) got down on her knees for ______ (my bff), just like i did with _____ (some other kid) and started sucking away. But no one's mad at her and they're mad at me."
I bawled for a half-hour, because I couldn't believe that he would do this with someone/let her do it! I just still can't believe it, and I don't know if it was someone else but it is a pretty uncommon name (my bff's) - and I can't ask/tell anyone, because then theyll ask how I knew and I can't tell them I was on someone else's email! (I feel horrible - never again.)
My best friend seemed so nice when I met him. He seemed like such a good boy, he does well in school and has an amazing family but I don't think they know he's like this! I didn't even know! although it's becoming more apparent recently.
I just don't know where to turn. I can't believe he would do that. It's so shallow and DISGUSTING for an 8th grader! (I know lots of people do now - but I really thought he was waaaaay above that. that's gross, and he doesn't even hang out with her.)
I'm having a really hard time dealing with this. I can't even look at him anymore. I don't want to even associate with him! But he's still my best friend, so I can't just leave him like that - esp. when I don't know details.
I just can't believe it. I'm in such a state of shock. You might not know how I feel, but thanks for any advice you give.
I'm really grateful because I don't know who else to ask about this - thank you sooo much for your responses.
-Disappointed
wow,
he is such a jerk.
maybe it might be after he got in the
" in crowd " that usually happens, he
may not really be doing it because most
guys just act tough and stuff, and rumors
75% of the time are def. not true so cool
down and dont stress out, i think you
should just try and talk to him about how
you think he changed alot & if he was really
your bff he would listen to you =]
take care & chin up.
♥kay
every i look theres peple saying oh limewires illegal bla dee bla but i was thinkin the other day if its so illegal why is it still on the internet to be downloaded? surely the gov't would have taken it off by now. also its not illegal to send songs through msn and isnt limewire just like msn but on a much larger scale its all file sharing (you can chat with people on limewire btw if ya didnt know :P) so whats exaclty classed as illegal from limewire because the only decent excuse i can think of is its ok to download as long as you dont broadcast it on like public TV
limewire is illegal
but its like one in a bajillion chance they will catch you because, when you first download limewire they can't track you down because you never gave them any info about yourself, but if you get limewire pro, its most likely you'll get caught, so just dont worry about that illegal thing & try not to buy limewire pro. =)
♥kay
Alright, so i have problems opening up. I know my boyfriend gets frusterated sometimes because i'll be upset and not tell him whats wrong for a while. Its like i have a hard time saying whats on my mind while the time is right. I really do try and open up and communicate better but its something thats kind of hard for me, for some reason. Its like when I'm talking to him I dont tell him things that I should and then when I hang up I think of things I should have told him. Does anyone else have this problem or have any advice on how to work on communicating better? Thanks. (18/f)
hey babe,
i think you should try writing him letters or text him because then you can go back and erase & once you get comfortable w/ him you can probably open up easier, if you dont think you really could open up with him, maybe he isn't the guy because in a relationship its all about that & trust and maybe you just don't trust him.
hope everything works out better
♥kay
I have a mac, and there are a lot of unwanted icons on the desktop that I have tried trashing and deleting several times. It always says that it is being used for another task. Any ideas on how to solve this problem?
you should go to set programs access and defaults or do a disk clean up then delete all of the unused files,
or go look at your c drive and do a search on whatever file you need to delete then delete that file first then you can delete the unwanted icon.
i hope i helped:D
♥kay
16/f
This is a fairly ridiculous question, but it`s legitimate so please bare with me. I want a boyfriend. The whole idea of enjoying someone`s company and being close gives me butterflies.
I try so hard to be everything a guy would want. I dress attractively everyday, I always wear make-up and do my hair. I'm confident and flirt accordingly. I get straight A`s - I don`t want to be all looks. I try to be friends with guys and nice to their friends. I have everything other girls do - and more! Why isn`t this happening for me?
I'm 5'8 and between 115-120 lbs, I exercise a lot and love competitive sports. I looove going to hockey/football games and really getting into it and talking to guys. At amusement parks, I`m always the first one onto the most daring and adventurous rides. Every chance I get, I go to dances and parties. Aren`t those good places to meet a guy?
This all sounds like ridiculous bragging, but I`m trying to prove (to you and myself) that I have what it takes to be liked by guys. I love laughing and making people laugh, also. I want someone to have fun with, to spoil and to care for. Sometimes this 'want' for a boyfriend gets so uncontrollable that it takes over my emotions. Sometimes I think maybe I`m just not deserving of a decent (or any) boyfriend.
I must be missing something - what could it be? It`s been three years since I`ve last had a boyfriend.. everytime a guy and I get close, there`s always some excuse and fades away. I`m young, I don`t want to miss out on all of that pointless (yet cute) `puppy love`.
a. guys dont really like makeup
b. maybe you need to open up more with them
c. there is probably some shy guy liking you out there but you just dont know it yet.
d. the point of WANTING a bf is not good, you need to find someone you actually like, the idea is not the whole point, try to find someone that you think you like them and maybe you guys might click ;)
hope it works out fine
♥kay
My phone is cingular. I was wondering if it records all the incoming and outgoing texts that you make. And if you pay your bill online, do you see a record of all your incoming and outgoing calls AND texts? Thanks in advance.
omgsh yes,!
you have to be VERY VERY careful,
i have cingular and i had 2,000 txts
and i thought it was enough for me
& no it def. is not. if you want to
know for sure how many texts you use
call cingular, but its not really worth
waiting 3 hours on the phone listening
to some elevator music.
♥kay
my hair always dries frizzy after i shower even after using frizz free shampoo....
how do i get sleek straight after i shower
use garnier shampoo,
it makes your hair real sleek
then use garnier hair lotion
and viola! :)
take care hun.
♥kay
do u guys think that the flyer is the most important one & everyone only likes the flyer? or do you think people like the bases and other people too? is it that cool to be a flyer? like if youre not a flyer, are you pretty much a nobody on the squad?
thnks.
yeah thats what myth says,
but honestly its not.
its all about your personality,
in cheerleading it doesnt rank
up your popularity, you can be
a loser at school & do cheerleading
and you will still end up being a
loser, unless you change your personality.
so yeah dont worry
♥kay
Is it normal for discharge to come out pinkish before your period? I've never experienced this until now, and I was supposed to get it today, but I didn't get it yet. Last time I had sex was like 3 days after my period last month, and he didn't ejaculate in me.
So I'm pretty sure I'm not pregnant; and I haven't had any symptoms of pregnancy.
I've had almost all my usual symptoms of my period, breaking out, bloated, eating more. The only one I didn't get is a headache.
So yeah, is it normal?
Thank you.
even if he doesnt ejaculate you can still get pregnant and i never had pink discharge, it might be the begining of your period possibly
take care hun
♥kay
These are two seperate questions that I would appreciate so much from if I get a responce that will help.
First questions....
My cat who is a Brown, Black, White, and Orange Longhaired Persian Tabby is 11 years old and is in Kidney Failure. Yes, he has been to the vet they have him all these injections and liquids and no help. He has a Kidney Stone but they can't operate because he may die on the table. We have the injections at home to give him but they aren't working. A normal cat has a Kidney Value at about 38 his are at 130! The surprising thing is he is acting like his normal self! He is playing with his string and climbing up his cat tree. The doctors say that he is defying science by actually being a live. He is a beautiful cat, ex-show cat, we bought him after the breeders didn't need him for shows anymore. What ass****s! Anyways the problem is he isn't eating anything. I have tried to force feed him but nothing works. I don't want him to die of starvation and he is already down to 11lbs., he use to be 15lbs! Does anyone have any tips to getting the food in him or any food products that have tons of calories that don't take much effort to eat?
Second question.....
My little dog who is about 10 months old has a Corneal Eye Ulcer. Everyone can disregard this question unless they have prior experience with their animal having this. So I just noticed it yesterday and the second I did I rushed to the vet! They did this color eye drop test and are 100% sure that it is an Ulcer. They gave me two types of eye drops to put into his eyes that will help the pain and the infection. My questions is.. (for those with pets who have had this) how long did it last? Did the animal have to get some sort of serjury? Did the animal loose vision completley, parcially, or not at all?
Please help with either one or both of the questions if you can. It will help so much.
for cat you should grind food and serve it as a liquid
and i dont know how to answer the second question, sorry!
good luck
♥kay
What does the abbreviation lol stands for. I konw it's used after something funny, but notsure the actually meaning. Ur hint will be appreciated.
lol = laugh out loud
♥kay
Ok Well I don't know what it is but it's like a pimple that's not pussy or a bump and it's the size of my thumb.
It's on the side of my left legs above my knee.
In 4 days there was like a red ring going around it (like how a nipple has that dark ring around it).
It's been a week and now it's kinda dark kinda liek a purple and red colour mixed.
I don't know if it'll stay or go away..I'm ogign swimmign in 2 days so i hope it goes away cuz it grosses me out and my head keeps shouting MOLEY MOLEY MOLEY!
first get that checked from the doc.
then go get a HUGE bandaid,
my mom always does this for her mole
on her arm its really tiny, but she
says its ugly anywho yeah just cover
it up for now, until you go to the
doctor or yeah.
goodluck :)
♥kay
Okay..me and my boyfriend have been having sex over 1 year now..and he's been wanting to cum in me..i use birth control...and i was wanting to be extra careful with the vaginal contraceptive films..if you know what they are..they are like girl condoms..ive never used one. and i was wondering what the chances are if i use those and birthcontrol...and what do i do?
chances are you're going to be pregnant 50/50.
you should try & consult a gyno and ask them about birth controls more in depth & stuff.
♥kay
what do they mean when they say i "dry Humped" or i had "Dry sex"?!?? what is DRY? i thought sex was sex.
when you have your clothes on & doing it haha.
♥kay
lately i've been gaining weight.
last year i was 108 pounds. this year i'm 117. did i gain too much weight? (i play soccer all year long)
also if im 13 and 5`3 and weigh 117 pounds, would you consider me chubby? just tell me the truth and dont judge it on BMI. i don't look chubby but damn, i used to be soo skinny.
what can i do besides running/jogging to lose weight? I want to have a flatter stomach if possible. and what are good foods to eat?
to lose weight,
dont eat a huge meal 3 times,
instead keep consistently eating
and 117 is avg., but i think its
mostly muscle that you developed
dont worrrry!
♥kay
I recently heard antiperspirants can cause cancer, is this true? I NEED to wear antiperspirant or I have really, really bad sweat stains under my arms, which also smells. I don't want cancer, but I don't want to stop using antiperspirant.
hi,
haha no it doesnt cause cancer,
or everyone in the world would
have cancer,
dont worry it wont cause cancer
in fact,
it actually makes you cleaner so
your hygene would be better, then
you have a less chance you would
get some sort of disease or w.e.
♥kay