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everytime i get out of the shower my knees are all red and parts of my legs. why is this and is this bad?

the water might be too hot. its sorta bad for your skin, but it happens to me to.

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my hair is straight already, but sometimes it flips on the ends. do you think it would be dumb if i got a straightener even though my hair is already straight?

no, i have straight hair and i straighten it , i have like 2 no straight parts in the front so.

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i'm 13(male). my brother is 10(male).


i've shared a room with him since the day he was born. when i was 7 or 8, we switched to bunk-beds. the ladder up to the top is prety much the only place of privacy i have, other than the bathroom. my family isn't the richest in the world, but we're in a pretty good financial situation compared to others (my mom is a college professer, my dad is a newswriter). my question is, am i selfish for asking for my own room. we've been searching for about a year give or take, and have been outbid in 3 situations so far. currently we're in the midst of bidding.


sometimes i do feel selfish, because my parents are slightly older, and i feel that i'm taking away too much of their retirement funds. (this isn't exactly all for me, the neighborhood we're in now is pretty bad for them, for ex: my view from my room is at my neighbors dark green pool, 10 feet away, and theirs noise pollution from the other side from a stupid bird, which drives my parents nuts.) so am i asking for too much?

no your not aksing alot. i hate sharing a room and finally im getting my own this week. hope you get yours!

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i'm in love with a guy whose a hindu and i'm a christian i love him a lot he love me to but his saying his parents won't allow what should i do?i'm 20 his 22

his parents dont have control over him hes 22.

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Hello.
I have been having really bad luck with guys lately and im getting really tired of it. I dont know what to do because it always seems as if I either get to shy and dont know what to say or i say somthign really stupid. can someone please give me some adive.

same here. i havent had a bf in like 3 years and i hate it but i just try to be myself around them.

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What does it mean when your around a boy and he makes u feel like no one else is around?

it means you have strong feelings for him. and its awesome isnt it. theres 2 guys that are like that for me...

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Some of my friends tell me that I shop at expensive places. I pretty much shop at Abercrombie, American Eagle, and sometimes at Express. But there's more expensive stuff that I could get. And they say that I'm ubsessed with Abercrombie because I have lots of stuff from there. Is this true??

no i shop there too. i mean they can be expensive but like in my city there is nowhere else to shop. your not obsessed and yea there is alot of other expensive stuff.

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Ok im a 14 year old girl that needs help! i cant wear tampons. ever time i try to put one in it doesnt go in all the way or it hurts. I've tried many times and its just not happening. THis is the problem. Spring break is coming up and im going to florida with a bunch of ppl, Just my luck its the same week as my period. I mean i cant wear a pad with a bathing suit! nd plus there are gonna b tons of hot guys. I cant talk to my mom bout this kind of stuff bc i live with my dad and i never see my mom, and i dont have an older sister. pleaseeee help

try with plastic and light ones. there are directions in the box so try and follow those. dont owrry about it, you'll figure it out. good luck

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On Friday I will be going to a (non-formal) dance i want to know what to wear and how do do my hair and make-up. I need to look hot cuz my crush is going to be there and I'm trying to get him from another girl. I'm 4'6 and have sholder length brown hair and brown eyes. THANX IN ADVANCED!!!

wear jeans (its non formal) and a cute shirt. then just do your makeup natural but maybe like a shimmery eye shadow and cute lip gloss. good luck!

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i skate and have just gotten to the part where you are required to lift your legs high up to the side . ( you stick your arms out so you are in a T-shape , and you lift your leg up so that one of your hands are holding your feet , while keeping the leg you are lifting straight ) i can't lift my leg high enough . does anyone know any excercises that can help this ?

well i am a figure skater too and you must be talking about spirals. yea they suck major! i hate them but . just do splits and when you lift your leg on the ice and try and lift it higher make sure you dont lean too far forward or BOOM! you fall. keep your back arched and lift.

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I can't make up my mind as to what style I want to wear everyday..one day I will want to be all nice and dressed up...you know, stiletto shoes, a cute sweater, nice pants from Express..the next I'll want a grungey, hippiesh Urban Outfitters look...the next I'll want cute and preppy and so on...
How can I set my style, and if i don't want to set my style, how can I incorporate things from my wardrobe so that I'm not spending a fortune on tons of looks.

i dress exactly like that. just dress the way you are. its your style. it doesnt need a label.

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What does crunk mean... im afraid to ask someone who would know.. i know i sound lame.. but please.. im confused!! all the rap songs use that word.. and idk what it means!! HELP

being crazy and drunk...

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is it ok to curl ur hair with a curler when its still really wet?

noooo!!!!!!!!!!

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I have a problem with my clothes. I don't mind the way I dress or anything...I just feel I need to change something..add more style to me. I usually wear jeans, skateboarding shoes, hoodies and fitted tees/layeredtees, what can I ADD to this to make my clothes more......exciting? Lots of tips would be great, and I'll rate you a 5 no matter what.

bright colors, cute purses and stuff will make it more exciting

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I'm about to buy a new straightener and I wanna make sure I get a good one this time.. I need some advice on what kind of straightener to get (cereamic, glass, gold, etc). I want one that will NOT ONLY straighten my hair really well, but also make it STAY straight all day. What do u all recommend? (something cheap, not over $30) Thanks!! i'll rate HIGH!!

cheap like vidal sasson or w.e. at walmart are like $25

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On the flap outside of my vagina, i have this bump, and its been there for about a month, im still a virgin and ive NEVER done anything like fingering or blowjob or that stuff. I do shave, do you think its just a razor burn? Or what do you think it is, and what are ways to get rid of this? Thankyou

im sure its razor burn.

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Im going to Las Vegas in April..has anyone been there and seen some good magic shows or something entertaining for 13/14 yr olds?

in 14 and i love vegas. the pools at hotels are awesome, shopping, looking at the gynormous hotels, they all have like arcades..........

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Well, I am 13 going on 14, and I would like to have a party. My parents are strict..and for the past years my party has been just a sleepover with 2-3 girls. Wth, I know. That is certainly NOT a party. So, my problem is..I have so many friends, and I'm tired of narrowing down to 2-3 for a sleepover. I'm thinking of inviting around 10 people, maximum, because my parents will probably be pissssed. Ahaha. So, does anyone have an idea of what we can do? I don't want to go bowling..or golfing, OR see a movie, really. I wanna have a cool party, a fun one. My birthday's January 9th, but my party's not until later. (2 weeks maybe) So, does anyone have an idea what to do..something OTHER than a sleepover? Thanks.

burn a bunch of cds, rent movies, order pizza, and crank the music up real loud. get to dancing sista!

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Does anyone know a fast way to get rid of dandruff? I only have untill 1/7/04 and only going to Walmart before then! Help please!

Hair Scare

head and shoulders

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i have hair (not a lot but it's noticable it you look closley) on my stomach, arms (on my arms i have a lot and it's brown), knuckles, and back. I'm a girl, is this normal?

every living person has hair

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