you sound exaclty how i was.. and sitting here and telling you everything will be fine would make me into a liar. I felt exactly how you feel about losing your friends, there amazing and they hold a speical place inside of you that no one will replace, and its hard to see them walk outta your life, but it happens. Almost half the people you are entering highschool with feel the exact same i promise you this, and same with the way me and my friends felt. you will find at orientation when you recieve your schedueles that you wont me in a lot of classes with most of your close friends. first couple weeks of highschool you will find difficult finding ur way around dealing with others and getting use to your teachers and the new rules you never had. Along the way you will meet many others that you probably walked right past last year and you could become bestfriends with them. The ones you are close with now may change and you may not be best of friends anymore, but thats what happens when you grow up people change.. some of your friends will for the better and others for the worst. But you cant be scared your whole life of whats gona happen because other great aspects may come along. You can make highschool the time of you life.. or the worst 4 years , accept it for what it is, what your gonna get out of it and have fun, it will fly. * and if your really worried about losing your friends, hang out after school and on the weekends, if they care as much as you do the term friends forever will apply to you *

If one of your "closest" friends would judge you on who you go out with, then there not a very good friend. Friends are suppose to accept you for who you are and i`m not gonna lie but for sometimes what you do, cause friends care about you and what happens.. but in this situation its not up to them,who you go out with is based on the type of person you are, and if looks don't mean everything to you then good for you, your one of the lucky ones who cares more about the person inside than on the outside. Who cares what your friends will think if you like him and he likes you then nothing should matter what they think, although i know its hard when there your friends, just tell them that you feel differently, and that you really like this kid.. and if there the friends you thought they were then they`ll except him for what he is too. "Dont let anyone make you feel like you don't deserve what you want"

If you care about him as much as you say you do, he must care about you. If breaking things off seems to be the best follow your heart. If its really what you want then do it, don't listen to what "everyone says" keep your business between you and him, tell him that you guys need to do more, how you feel he is too busy for you, and that you don't want to break up cause you like him so much. Maybe then he`ll realize the same and try and make things change if after talking to him about it and nothing seems to change around then maybe taking a break and being friends for awhile is the best thing to do, just don't do anything you`ll regret, do what you feel is best.

this is a complicated situation you have going. If you really like him and u dont even know him than he might turn out to be someone different than you think he really is. To show that you really care and to show your the better person let him and his girlfriend have there time when there done and over with and you still have feelings for him than go for it let him know how you feel and that being friends first is fine with you. If you end up together thats great and if you don't its just not meant to be. Just follow your heart and see where it leads you..

Well it sounds like you got a crush on a person you have no clue about. If one of your friends talks to him tell her that you would really like if she would introduce you to him, at least then after meeting eachother it wouldn't be so awkward when you try and talk with him. Become friends and see if you like him, and if he really is nice funny and sweet, because in most cases looks dont mean anything. Good luck

Well life is all about taking chances. don't be one of those people who regret not doing what they want. Don't be afraid, theres nothing to be afraid of, if u went out with him before and now your really good friends.. chances are this will work out better this time. If you like being around him and you guys flirt alot then you both are crushing on eachother, if u wanna go out with him then go for it, if it doesn't work out, then being friends is always a backup plan, and since this has already happened once, it will make your friendship even stronger.

If she doesn't care about her, then why are you putting yourself through the trouble of caring about her, she obvisouly doesn't deserve you. Did you talk to her about the way you feel.. because if you haven't yet, i think the best thing would be is to talk to her. If she doesn't feel the same way, then try looking at her as a friend. Find someone who will care about you right back. and if u still continue to be tore apart when talking to her, then maybe you should just leave the situation alone, until your over her. Theres only so much you can do, without having to please everyone else.

well.. ethier way your going to hurt them and you should do it sooner than later, because the longer you wait the more its gonna hurt. If you broke up with ur x-boyfriend then i`m sure there was a reason for it, and sumtimes afterwords you do get mixed feelings.. but is this what u really want? If your "happy" with your boyfriend you wouldn't be going behind his back and talking to your ex and then start having feelings for him its not right. i`m not trying to sound mean but i`m trying to see this from your point of view, i think you should really figure out who it is you like and let the other person know your sorry but this isn't working/ or its not gonna happen.

i`m very sorry about your brother, losing someone who is close to you is one of the hardest things to deal with in your life, Because that is the last time you`ll ever talk to them for a long time. everything i`m sure is fine with your brother. Don't be negative and not believe in heaven. Think of it as a way that god needed him. Everyone makes there mistakes in life, but god forgives you, and i`m sure your brothers up there watching down and looking over you and the rest of your family, make him proud.

Girls take stuff way more personal than guys do to start this off, if you guys were that close and he has a girlfriend now, sumthings wrong. let him know that you miss what you guys use to have, and if you have moved on let him know you need to be friends with him. Explain to him that not talking to him is not for the best and that you need eachother.

okay well for starters did you let him know that you still wanna be bestfriends with him? letting him know your there for him is the best thing you can do, because it shows you care. Theres only so much you can do for someone. don't push yourself to hard if he cares about you, he won't push u away and he'll be there in return for u. Crying yourself to sleep at night is not going to help you hun, try and think positive and not depressed, talk to him alot, and tell him he's your bestfriend. Cutting yourself is not going to help you any, its just gonna leave scars on your arms, and tears on your face. Don't give up on life because of a breakup, if your really this depressed maybe theres still boyfriend feelings behind all this.

okayy well first put yourself in this persons place ( your ex ) if you really liked this kid and he broke up with you, and went out with someone else would you be upset? Its going to take some time for your ex to get over you and accept the fact that you have moved on and he has to do the same. Being really close with him is up to the both of u to make a friendly relationship to last. Its hard after breaking up with sumone to just be friends and act like everything is okay. Just re-assure him that you'll always be there for him, that you care. If he accepts and understands where your coming from he won't want to loose you ethier.

First off i`m very sorry about ur mother and brother`s death, and ur relationship at home with your dad. When you love someone so much, and there gone right before your eyes, your in such shock that its over and there not coming back. Sooner or later it will hit you wether your thinking about him, going through pictures, or feeling alone. Your not horrible, everyone has there moments, yours just hasn't arrived yet and thats fine. Try to think positive although its hard from the way you explain your lifestyle. Try and get involved with activies to keep your mind off things and keep you from drinking and doing drugs. And remember "what doesn't kill you only makes you stronger" don't show that your weak by wanting to commit suicide show your brother, your mom, your dad and yourself that your strong, and you'll get through this, and through life.

Typical guy thing.. to tell you the truth almost all guys will do that, He could possibly be doing this because he likes u and is trying to get you jealous, seems like thats working. If your scared to tell him, then drop sum hints on him that you like him, and when you feel confident enough to tell him, let him know how you feel, if he doesn't feel the same, friendship will always be there to back you up.

okay, in MOST cases no matter what you do after a girl knows u like her she is gonna feel different around you, even if she knows ur just friends. If she doesn't feel the same, give it sum time maybe she will in a littl while.. don't give up hope. Unless you certain all she wants to be with you is friends. Just treat her as much of a friend as possible, and sooner or later it will all feel the same again.

thats not very nice... i`d say lay off the looks buddy he could be a really good guy too her

Personally, you are not a bad friend, first offs this means you and this person have a lot in common ( you and your friend ) and that is a good thing until, things get out of hand. Before any talking with this guy, friendship comes first, unless u feel differently. Explain to her you like him, and the only reason you didnt tell her was because you thought about her feelings before your own. If she understands where your coming from and tells you its okay sincerly, and you believe it, and not just thinks she is saying it to be a good friend then go for it, if it turns out where she says she will never talk to you again type of situation, then just talk to this kid and let him know whats going on, and maybe when your friend is done crushing over him and has moved on to someone new, then it will be your chance to go for it.

This happens to alot of people, and at one time this has happened to me. Sumtimes a look, the way your dress, your hair, anything can make people shout stuff at you. And i know people like to say oh, it doesn't bother me, well maybe not rite away but after ahwile enough is enough. The reason this people talk about you is because 1. there insecure about themselves 2. They have nothing better to do and 3. they are inconsiderate of other peoples feelings. Sometimes no matter what you do, people will always look at you differently, but just know your not alone and everyday someone else is getting the same torture, for no rite reason. If they really begin to bother you, tell your conselour or sumone that can maybe help you out in sorting these problems with these people. And thats great that you care about other people, because not only does that make u feel better about yourself but the other people as well, but sumtimes kids just don't care about who u care for. Just try and think of the more positive aspects in your life like your friends and family, and try not to worry about the punks and there unreasonable outbursts.

well find out which of your friends like her and try to work sumthing out and if all goes well, Tell her you like her, everyone gets a fair chance at someone, and if she feels the same way about you then go for it, sumtimes friends won't always agree with everything your doing, but they can't control your life ethier, just reasure yourself that friendship comes before anything.. before you go and do anything

..........then tell her HAPPY BIRTHDAY!! =)* lol

Its okay to want someone you cant have. Its okay to keep friendships when you dont want them,or want something more. Its okay to cry when you're hurt, & its okay to stay mad at someone who hurt you. Believe it or not, its always going to be okay. Thats just how it works. Sometimes, things dont always work out the way you want them to, & a lot of times, it seems like they never will. But its okay, thats how lifes suppose to go. Its all about learning how to deal with the bumpy parts in the road & waiting till they're smooth again. Its all about forgiving & forgetting. Its all about waiting & wishing. Thats just how life is.

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