i`ve been really depressed since i broke up with my boyfriend, but im trying to be there for him and do all i can as a friend, he was like my bestfriend/boyfriend, and now i dont wanna loose the bestfriend part and he makes me feel soo bad with some of the stuff he says and i kno hes hurt but since im trying to be there i dont think he should and he does and now ive just been thinkin about nothing, crying every night and i tryed to cut myself, please help me before this gets outta hand
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? xOx_MissygrL answered Sunday May 1 2005, 12:00 am: okay well for starters did you let him know that you still wanna be bestfriends with him? letting him know your there for him is the best thing you can do, because it shows you care. Theres only so much you can do for someone. don't push yourself to hard if he cares about you, he won't push u away and he'll be there in return for u. Crying yourself to sleep at night is not going to help you hun, try and think positive and not depressed, talk to him alot, and tell him he's your bestfriend. Cutting yourself is not going to help you any, its just gonna leave scars on your arms, and tears on your face. Don't give up on life because of a breakup, if your really this depressed maybe theres still boyfriend feelings behind all this. [ xOx_MissygrL's advice column | Ask xOx_MissygrL A Question ]
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