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What do you do when you think that you are one of the nicest people, and others hate you because of looks, or another reason? I go to school everyday and talk to people that normally dont have friends, and am even nice to people that dont like me. I have stopped talking about people because it only makes things worse. When some people look at me , they think "bitch" or "whore" but i just wish everyone could see the real me. most people get pleasure by talking about others, but it makes me feel better when i brighten someones day. but most people dont realize that. Are they too busy making themselves look better?, or am i doing something wrong? What could i do to make people see that i really do care about people, not just the popular people, but the "overweight,super skinny, ugly, or not smart" people , because i see those people as soo much more than that.
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This happens to alot of people, and at one time this has happened to me. Sumtimes a look, the way your dress, your hair, anything can make people shout stuff at you. And i know people like to say oh, it doesn't bother me, well maybe not rite away but after ahwile enough is enough. The reason this people talk about you is because 1. there insecure about themselves 2. They have nothing better to do and 3. they are inconsiderate of other peoples feelings. Sometimes no matter what you do, people will always look at you differently, but just know your not alone and everyday someone else is getting the same torture, for no rite reason. If they really begin to bother you, tell your conselour or sumone that can maybe help you out in sorting these problems with these people. And thats great that you care about other people, because not only does that make u feel better about yourself but the other people as well, but sumtimes kids just don't care about who u care for. Just try and think of the more positive aspects in your life like your friends and family, and try not to worry about the punks and there unreasonable outbursts.
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