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The other day in school my best friend asked me who i liked i didnt really wanna tell her who it was so i jsut said no one n then i asked her who she liked....she told me the same person that i was about to tell her 2 sec. ago. i kinda had a feeling that she liked him so i didnt say ne thing cuz i didnt want her to get mad at me. i talked to him a few nights ago n he told me that he wanted to start talking to someone only i had to guess. i guessed her name n he said no n then when i was about to leave he told me it was me...ugh i felt so bad because i told him i wanted to start talking to him too. but if i did i know it would ruin our friendship completley and there wouldnt be any turning back. i cant do that to her but him n her are two totally different people n theres so many other guys that like her....please help me. what should i do? -- Bad Friend
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Personally, you are not a bad friend, first offs this means you and this person have a lot in common ( you and your friend ) and that is a good thing until, things get out of hand. Before any talking with this guy, friendship comes first, unless u feel differently. Explain to her you like him, and the only reason you didnt tell her was because you thought about her feelings before your own. If she understands where your coming from and tells you its okay sincerly, and you believe it, and not just thinks she is saying it to be a good friend then go for it, if it turns out where she says she will never talk to you again type of situation, then just talk to this kid and let him know whats going on, and maybe when your friend is done crushing over him and has moved on to someone new, then it will be your chance to go for it.
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