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Ok i ALWAYS brush my hair after i get out of the shower when i dont brush it its wavy/curly and tangled but then after i comb it its STRAIGHT!! and then i try and scrunch it and it never works i dunno why but anyways my hair is kinda long about down to my back and thick so can you tell me what to use and how to scrunch it? thanks! (link)
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my hair is exactally the same way. after i get out of the shower it's always wavy. what i do with my hair when i want it to be wavy... i just put jel in it and scrunch it up. it works for me! good luck![H][U][G][S] ~Summer
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i have this boyfriend. but hes black. i really really like him and we`ve been on and off for like a while now im just afraid my family wont approve..they arent racist they jus dont exactly approve of this kind of thing maybe because the only black man brought into out family happened to be involved with drugs and violence pleasee help me i dont want to listen to my family bcause i care for him so much isnt that what counts? (link)
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ohh my!! i can relate to this question sooo good. well i have a boyfriend, and he's also black. my dad had a problem with it. so i had my b/f and my dad meet... and my dad thought he was actually a pretty nice kid... don't let ur family get involved with who u date because it's how u feel that really matters... and yes, to a white family... sometimes a black man is treated bad... considering they think he's involved with drugs or just there to use u. but its not true! talk to your parents about how u feel. race shouldnt matter!! good luck!!!!! [H][U][G][S] ~Summer
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look theres this guy at my school and he goes to my church. well i like him a lot and no lie i think of him 24/7 i really like him he's one of my friends and hes really sweet but he doesnt like me. he likes his ex. i know yall cant help me with love well maybe not this question/ prblem. but i know he's the one and i dont know what to do. (link)
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If i was you... I'd talk to him and get to know him... It sux when you like a guy and they dont like you back... Talking to him will give u the chance to let him know how cool of a person you are!! Good luck! [H][U][G][S] ~Summer
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ok i just broke up with my boyfriend and i mean we havent been goin out too long wow like 10 days whoo hoo! well ne ways i got really annoyed cause he kept teling me he loves me but i know he doesnt (cause we r only 14 and dont know what love is... he also told all his ex's that he loved them... one of my best friends is his ex) ne ways... i always told him that i loved him so he didnt feel bad when i realli dont love him... he also kept bringing up some other hypethetical girl and it made em feel uncomfortable... well so i dumped him and i still wanna be friends with him but he wont talk to me... i feel realli bad he kinda made me feel reallyy bad... what should i do to not feel so bad? (check out my advice column im x27pixidust27x ) (link)
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Well obviously you guys are young and he was taking everything wayy too fast. the reason you are probably feeling bad is because he is trying to make you feel sorry for him. just dont think about him! find a new boyfriend! [H][U][G][S] ~Summer
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okay well theres this guy who has asked me out about 10 times and he wont stop asking me, and i keep saying no with excuses, how kan i tell him NO but in a nice way 2 get him2 go away? lol thanks. (link)
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lol. I HATE guys like that! They're sooo annoying. If I was you I'd just tell him that you already have a boyfriend and if he doesnt shut up u'll have him kick his a$$! lol... it's worked for meh before. =P [H][U][G][S] ~Summer
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Ok well my sister is a cosmotologist and she does my hair and stuff. Well I want to dye the bottom layer of my hair dark and I'm not sure what color 2 get. I am naturally a strawberry blonde, and my mom would freak out if I got black hair. so PLEASE HELP ME! if u could include pictures that's b great. Thanx. i rate. (link)
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ooohh! my sister got her hair done like christina agulera did awhile back. blonde with the bottom layer of her hair black. You're whole hair wouldnt be black... and i think it's really cute! If all else fails, just ask your sister on colors!
[H][U][G][S] ~Summer
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okee i was the one who asked about my b/f.. n kissing him n stuff.. n u said he obviously wasnt experienced.. but im PRETTY sure he is.. i mean.. hes had alotta girlfriends and hes gotten head from this big slut once.. n idk.. what if he expects the same from me? thats kinda gross.. but idk.. i guess i can just tell him i dont wanna.. but yeah.. (link)
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Yeah... but if he was experienced... Then he wouldnt need to ask your friend to ask you... He would just go with the flow... hmm... Maybe he is experienced... but if you dont want to kiss him yet he needs to respect that... If he expects u to give him head too then he's not a very good boyfriend... I'd dump him if he ever wanted that from me and I didnt want to!...
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everytime i close my hand into a fist, something pops in every finger. it never hurts but im scared its something that'll lead to something ill need surgery with later...is this normal? (link)
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I dont think it's a big problem. Maybe if u crack ur knuckles.. u should stop. It's okay for now.. If it continues... Show ur parents and see what they think! good luck! [H][U][G][S] ~Summer
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what r some ways to get rid of cramps (link)
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Midol is awesome. It always takes care of my cramps! Try not to walk around as much >>summer
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Me and My boyfriend have been going out for awhile but we haven't seen eachother sence we started going out because I had cheerleading and he had football..we talk on the phone all the time but I wanna do something together with him..should I just ask him one day on the phone to do something or wait till he asks me? (link)
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Ask Him!! If you miss him... Just ask him when he doesn't have football... Make sure it's a time u dont have cheerleading... And just hang out!! or go to the movies or something! Good luck! [H][U][G][S] ~Summer
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ok I think I'm fat but no1 else does..are they lying to make me feel better or am I just not fat? I'm 4'8 and I weigh 76 pounds (link)
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You're definately NOT fat for how tall you are.
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i'm on my sister's advice name, but im a guy and i have really hairy arm pits. is it weird to um...shampoo it? does anyone else do this? thnx (link)
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NoOo!! Dont "shampoo" ur armpits... It's normal for guys to have hairy armpits... Dont worry about it!!
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Has anybody heard of gender identity disorder? it's when you are born one gender but with the opposite gender's body? example, you can be a guy trapped in a girls body. I think I have a friend who has this. She's more than just a "tomboy." She dresses like a guy, acts like a guy, does manly things, talks manly, denies that she has or ever will get her period, and she duck tapes her boobs down. what do you think of this? (link)
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Hmm. Tuff one. I bet you anything that she's not really a she. It (lol sorry) could be a she-male... If you know what I'm saying... A female/male... If she has boobs.. and a dick... I wouldnt doubt it if ur friend is trans-sexual... Umm I dont know tho. Thats what it sounds like to me! [H][U][G][S] ~Summer
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hey yall. if i do 32 sit ups 32 squats eat fruit and veggies um..i dont eat lunch when i start school i hardly eat breakfast. but anyways and i use a bike thingie were u just sit and pedal haha and walk everynite after dinner and i excersize after every meal how long would it take to lose 100 pounds? also what else can i do to lose weight? thanks so much i love you guys lol. (link)
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First of all... Skipping meals can actually cause you to gain weight. Dont skip meals!! Just eat healthy, and excersize daily... And it shouldnt take too long! GivE up snack foods and soda and u'll be ok! Good luck. [H][U][G][S] ~Summer
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Hey I have to get braces in about a month and Im really scared cause I cant imagine having metal on my teeth lol. I just wanted to know from 1-10 how bad it hurts and how long about do people have them on? (link)
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LoL. Well... I had braces when I was about 13. It didnt really hurt. I had mine on for about 3 years but it really depends on how str8 ur teeth are. I actually liked havin braces... U get to pick the colors and stuff it's awesome. lol.. choose hott pink!! =P [H][U][G][S] ~Summer
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Alright well first of all.. I'm 16/female.. if you needed that info to help me out or whatever
Well.. last night I was over at my friend caitlin's house and we got bored so we walked around the corner and met up with some friends(rachel,chrus,anthony,katie) and we were hangin out talkin and what not.. and then we decided to walk back to rachels house.. so we're walkin and talkin and I'm a smart ass.. and someone said somethin stupid so i made a remark about it.. ya know? but chris stares at me and laughs.. like nto staring bad way.. just staring.. but yeah.. then we're back at rachels and chris wanted to swim so he strips down to his boxers and jumps in.. hah it was cute.. but anywhos.. the whole time when we're all sittin out there talkin I would look over and catch chris lookin at me.. I mean it feels like there's somethin there.. but I don't know.. I mean.. he's an awesome kid.. I'd like for there to be somethin there but I don't know.. I mean he's a grade younger than me.. but he's not immature and sldflk I don't know.. I wanna get to know him better to see if there is something there and everything.. but he's not one of the people that I hang out with all the time.. so what do i do?
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Well... Hang out with him more to make sure you really do like him... It shouldnt matter if he doesnt hang out with ur group... [H][U][G][S] ~Summer
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does drinking lots of water actually help you lose weight? and if yes, how much should u drink? (link)
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Water doesn't make you lose weight... It just helps. It's healthier to drink water than juice or soda. [H][U][G][S] ~Summer
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I don't know what to wear for the first day of school. I don't really have a great sence of style and i was wondering if you could help me. My hair is brown and eye brown and i am 5'2. Got any good styles for that??? (link)
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Don't get too nervious over the first day of school. Just wear a cute top and some pants!
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i have acne...more then most of my friends...but not ALOT of acne...i want to try proactive but im not sure if i have bad enough acne...is there any other tricks to ged rid of them fast and make your face look clear and smooth?
(i get it around my nose and on my chin every once in a while)
Thanks for the help!!! (link)
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Well... try washing your face more often.. like when you get up and before you go to bed... if that doesnt work... Just buy a less powerful acne medicine/cream. [H][U][G][S] ~Summer
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i windsurf a lot and i compete a lot to. so next friday i have this competition and i qualified to compete with older people. which means im going to be the youngest one windsurfing in the competition. and well im REALLY nervous..does n e one know what i should do to calm myself down for the race next friday?
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Well... I dont think you should stress on it. Dont think about it all the time and you'll be more relaxed and you wont be as nervous on friday. [H][U][G][S] ~Summer
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