Hey everyone,
My name is Kelsey and I am so glad you are reading my bio. This means you're interested in my advice. I am a straight A student and I enjoy reading, writing, playing soccer, excercising, hanging with my friends, and helping people with their problems, which is where you come in. I am on the newspaper committee and I plan to join it's academic. I hope to play tennis this spring. I am very friendly and fun to be with. I hope you enjoy my advice and ask me more questions dealing with your problems. I promise to respond ASAP. L8r
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Well, I adore singing.. to me.. it's a way of life. I do it 24-7.
I don't really know if I could ever do it infront of anyone other than myself! I'm so affraid that I will mess up, or people will hate my voice. Personally? I love my voice... but they always say, "Sometimes, you hear what you want to hear, not what is heard by others." I don't know what to do. In a few months.. I'll be moving to Tennessee to live with my Father. He says that Nashville is a land of opertunity for me. (he and my step-mother are the only ones I've ever sang infront of) Well, my Step-Mother, is persuing her singing career. And I'm SO happy for her. She has the prettiest voice.. EVER I'm not sure what to do..
Anyone have good advice for me?
Thanks..
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I can totally relate to what you're feeling, and so can any singer, ever who is starting out in front of the audience. Feeling nervous and fearing mistakes are totally normal behaviors for something so public. My opinion is that you should sing anyway, despite the fear. My friends who have been in your shoes say once you get going and you start feeling the music, your worries dissolve and you feel amazing. It's what keeps so many singing and what causes others to pursue the fame. So, just go for it, what's the worst that could happen? If you sang and were the worst one there, you could just laugh it off and be like "Yea, I know I suck, my step-mom made me do it" and then skip the public, or if you were awesome like I'm sure you will be, you will have made it over the first, and largest, obstacle in your music career. Have fun, go for it, and good luck! :)
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I want advice about a male friend of mine. He puts on a big front to most people but for some reason I've just, like, got him from the beginning. So anyway, we became pretty tight friends, hanging out together and all. I thin if we both werent seeing other people we would have done something more than friends. But yeah, a lot of the time we just act like normal friends, him a bit guarded (he's like that as a person) but there are times, moments, when something happens- lingering hug or look or saying something a bit too close to the line and I just want to know how to keep it under control. I mean I'd never do anything but, yeah, it makes me feel, i duno, helpless and out of control when he kisses me on the cheek or whatever.
So yeah, anyone know the kind of thing i mean? Mostly i guess i want to know that other people have been there and worked out how to cope with it! I'll rate high for sensible answers! xoxox (link)
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I can totally feel your vibes for I also have had many guy friends in the past that I felt these feelings you are having. I will honestly say they have all evolved into some kind of relationships and I believe, whether you want to hear it or not, time will lead to more than what you want. If you are trying to avoid anything more than friendship, you need to keep your distance because that's all that can undue the feelings that you are kindling. I firmly believe, despite what others say, no guy and girl can have a totally "friends only" relationship, unless of course one is homosexual. This is because, like it or not, guys and girls are attracted to each other and over time, the attraction will only become stronger. So, again, if you want to prevent it from evolving to something further, stray a bit, and if you think you and him need to take that next step, go for it! Hope this helps and good luck! :)
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Hey. Well if you live in Maryland, or have taken the Algebra HSA for people in middle school before, can you tell me if it's easy, what I need to know, what kind of questions are there, what to expect, etc? That would really help because it it coming up soon for us and it will be our final...so I'm very nervous. Thanks! (link)
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I happen to live in Maryland and I have taken the HSA so chill, it's not that tough. I have to give the teachers credit cuz it is just like what you've been learning all year. I thought it was easy, but I had an A in the class so it sort of depends. If you need a specific question, send me one. Good luck :)
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So I've been with this AMAZING guy for about a month, officially on Friday, the 14th. And Saturday its Sweetest Day, any ideas? I was thinking of something for both of the occasions. Please dont tell me to do a search. =) He is very creative and I'm not all that creative. Please just something creative/homeade or omehing that isnt pricey.(up to $30)Something that shows meaning. Thanks in advance, I rate! =D (link)
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I'm glad you realize the money isn't important, especially if you're already getting something after a month. I personally have always wanted to do this special suprise thing I read about in a magazine so I'll tell you and maybe you'll get some use out of it. First, find out his locker # and combination and decorate it. By decorate I mean something like red ribbons and maybe tape some candy and love shapes. Then, for the gift, grab a small box, cuz it's only been a month, and decorate the outside with pics of yall if you have any, and other things that yall can relate to. ie inside jokes, love pics like hearts, etc. Then, get any little gift, cheap, and place it inside. Hope you like it and hope it works. Tell me how it goes. Good luck :)
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okay heres my PROBLEM:
im 13/f. i am practically in love with this guy, hes 15. alot of people say 15 isnt too old for me, but i am now worrying that he wouldnt look at me in that way. i need to go out with this ked, or else my whole life will be miserable. what can i do to catch his attention?
BY THE WAY!!!!!! - i ONLY see him on fridays. its for a club thing [CAP.]
SO PLEASE HELP ME!♥
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I can understand where you are coming from with the whole you're thirteen he's fifteen thing cuz my friends do it all the time, but rarely will a guy that much older pay attention to you unless you are giving him the goods, lol. Seriously though, if you think he's not like that and he might be interested, you should try to hook up "as friends" and then plan your next move if you think there's a chance for more. I wouldn't plunge right into cold water though, I'd take it slow because of the age difference. Well, good luck, and hope this helps. :)
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I recently got back together with my ex boyfriend after being broken up for 2 months. I have a naturally clingy personality and I think that might have been something that caused problems in the past. It's not that I'm psychotic by any means, I just like a lot of attention. I don't want to screw this up again... so should I simply ignore my clingy disposition and play hard to get sometimes, even though I already have him back? If so, how should I go about playing hard to get, and how often? I think games in general are stupid but if this will help keep everything romantic and healthy I'm all for it. (link)
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I have soo much experience with your issue and I have experience from your boyfriend's side because all my x boyfriends have been "clingy". Please take no offense to any of this, because I want to help you so I'm gonna be totally honest. Clinginess is none other than annoying. This is probably why it ended your first relationship with this guy. Because of this, my first suggestion would be to do what I wished my clingy boyfriend had of done, that it talk to him. Tell him right out front, "Hey BF, I know I'm clingy, tell me your opinion and just tell me when it's getting annoying and when to back off". He may say you're just exagerating but if he does give you some feed back, then you know EXACTLY what he thinks is overboard. My other suggestion, in addition to the asking your BF, would be to keep a journal, or diary in which you write everything as if you were talking to him. This way, you get all your bottled up emotions that are leading to your clinginess of your chest and onto the paper. I'm very confident that this will work, and I wish you all the luck. Hope this all helps :)
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i like someone but i know they dont like me what do i do (link)
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Well, this is a very popular predicament. I would suggest you try to attract them to you by all means necessary, or find someone who's worth you're time and who you deserve. Don't waste you're time on someone who doesn't like you because if they don't realize what I'm sure they are missing out on, forget them. Hope it helps, good luck. :)
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ok...i really like this guy...abd he likes me too...he told me him self...but i think h is too shy t ask meout...what can i do so he will ask me out? or do i have to do it myself? lol thank you and i do rate...as long as you dont bull shit me! (link)
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I suggest you first give him some MAJOR hints and if he still doesn't ask you out, then since you say he said he likes you, go ahead and do the asking. Again, I suggest you making some extremely obvious hints first, however it's really up to you. Hope this helps. :)
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I was wondering about Planned Parenthood. I know that you can go there and get condoms, birth control, morning-after-pill, etc. but I had a few questions. Can you just go in there and get condoms or do you have to like sit down and talk with a few people there with them asking you questions and saying make sure you're safe and ready, etc? Also, if you go there to get birth control, do they have to give you an exam "down there" or what all do they do? Plus, they don't tell your parents about it.. do they? I heard they were completly confidental. I'm just curious!! I rate high. (link)
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When you ask for whatever it is you need from the Planned Parenthood, they may ask you a few questions depedning on who you speak with, however you can simply say you would rather not share this buisiness and that is only a matter if they even start questioning. As for the exam, no they don't automatically unless you ask for one. Then they'd be glad to. Also, you are right about the confidentiality. Where I live, they are not allowed to tell anything to your parents unless you ask for a HIV test and it comes back positive and again this only applies to you if you
A get the test and test positive
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B are under 18
Other than that test and having a positive result, the rest is totally off limits for mom and dad. Hope this helps. :)
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why is it that when you miss someone, you miss them, but one of the driving forces is just the fact that youre paranoid about some other a-hole getting his dirty hands on her? (link)
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This is simple although many people don't realize it, or just hate to admit it. You care about her, so you don't want any (a-hole) as you put it, to hurt her in any way. Also, people tend to view their partners as possesions so for you to miss her is simply a "Hey dude, she's mine" kinda thing. Also, you may feel worried that she may find someone new, someone better. Everyone feels this, don't worry. And the only thing for you to do is realize she's not all yours anymore, but a part of her always will be. Hope it helps. :)
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I have had a cat for 6 years and my sister recently got a new puppy, which is 7 months old. My sister lives in an apartment right above me and is always bringing the puppy down to play with us. The puppy is very active and loves to play and is extremely nice. However, my cat just seems to hate her...my cat puffs up immediately and hisses and scratches the dog continuously and this happens everytime they see eachother. The dog does not fight back and tries to get into play-mode, yet my cat is actually trying to fight. Any suggestions? (link)
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I would suggest you tell your sister about the issue and either she could refrain from bringing her dog over or you could make sure to keep them separated if she brings it anyway. Hope this helps. :)
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