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Trying to control infatuation
I want advice about a male friend of mine. He puts on a big front to most people but for some reason I've just, like, got him from the beginning. So anyway, we became pretty tight friends, hanging out together and all. I thin if we both werent seeing other people we would have done something more than friends. But yeah, a lot of the time we just act like normal friends, him a bit guarded (he's like that as a person) but there are times, moments, when something happens- lingering hug or look or saying something a bit too close to the line and I just want to know how to keep it under control. I mean I'd never do anything but, yeah, it makes me feel, i duno, helpless and out of control when he kisses me on the cheek or whatever.
So yeah, anyone know the kind of thing i mean? Mostly i guess i want to know that other people have been there and worked out how to cope with it! I'll rate high for sensible answers! xoxox
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I can totally feel your vibes for I also have had many guy friends in the past that I felt these feelings you are having. I will honestly say they have all evolved into some kind of relationships and I believe, whether you want to hear it or not, time will lead to more than what you want. If you are trying to avoid anything more than friendship, you need to keep your distance because that's all that can undue the feelings that you are kindling. I firmly believe, despite what others say, no guy and girl can have a totally "friends only" relationship, unless of course one is homosexual. This is because, like it or not, guys and girls are attracted to each other and over time, the attraction will only become stronger. So, again, if you want to prevent it from evolving to something further, stray a bit, and if you think you and him need to take that next step, go for it! Hope this helps and good luck! :)
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