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Question Posted Wednesday October 5 2005, 1:20 pm

why is it that when you miss someone, you miss them, but one of the driving forces is just the fact that youre paranoid about some other a-hole getting his dirty hands on her?

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wrongnstillwrite answered Wednesday October 5 2005, 2:55 pm:
This is simple although many people don't realize it, or just hate to admit it. You care about her, so you don't want any (a-hole) as you put it, to hurt her in any way. Also, people tend to view their partners as possesions so for you to miss her is simply a "Hey dude, she's mine" kinda thing. Also, you may feel worried that she may find someone new, someone better. Everyone feels this, don't worry. And the only thing for you to do is realize she's not all yours anymore, but a part of her always will be. Hope it helps. :)

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twizzler2 answered Wednesday October 5 2005, 2:52 pm:
well if you really like someone that much, you don't really want them to be with anyone else and so probably the thought of someone else with their hands on her, makes you upset. Therefore you obviously very truly care for this person; its nature of being a human being as long as you dont let it get out of control...
hope this all made sense
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Eva answered Wednesday October 5 2005, 2:52 pm:
If the only driving force behind your missing this person is about someone else having them instead of you, then you have to ask yourself if you are only being selfish. Do you really care about this person or is it that you only want what someone else might take from you? I hate to say it but some people are simply like that child who isn't interested in a toy anymore, until their friend comes over and wants to play with it.

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