Member Since: April 9, 2005
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Last Update: June 15, 2005
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is it wrong to love a baseball player thats a year younger than me?
*honest oppinion needed*
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of course not!
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ok this is a stupid thing to say but yeah, i've been under alot of stress here lately for the past year or so now.I've been starting to think about cutting I have once before but dont know if I want to again last time I did my parents found out and said they were going to put me in a hospital if i ever did it again.But I can't think of any other ways to relieve my feelings in a way only I can control. (link)
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Cutting doesn't work and that should be pretty obvious to you. The only way it could work is by causing you much pain which would probably drown out the other pain you're feeling for a few minutes until u stop bleeding and probably by also attracting the attension you are probably looking for by doing it. Maybe from your parents or just anybody to notice you. Just don't cut yourself would be a good answer.
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When i wash my hair the day after it gets really greesy! any ideas what i can do to make it not ask greesy or not at all?
thanks a bunch
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You may have dandruff which might be causing your hair to become greesy. If so try dandruff controlling shampoos. Otherwise lay off using too much conditioner and wash your hair twice.
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i think my sister is anorexic or bulimic....idk what to do tho bc every time i ask her about it, she just denys it, but all of her friends tell me she is, what should i do?! (link)
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if you can't deal with her on your own get someone of higher power who can like one of her teachers or your parents.
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i want to act as a career but everyone doupts me my confidence is low what should i do (link)
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because show business is a hard business to be accepted into you should always have something to fall back on, so think about something to study or have as a career just incase things don't turn out so well in the end. Boost up your confidence by ignoring others and just going for it keeping in mind what i said before about something to fall back on.
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well for the past couple months i have been really sad and drepressed! i dont know whats wronge with me....i like havent been feeling like doing anything but sitting around and i've been crying alot for no reason....i have also cut my self...i dont know if is drepression or what? please help!!! (link)
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cutting yourself doesn't help. It's actually a really immature way of dealing with your problems so instead of that ask yourself why you feel that way and why cutting would help. Also seeing a counsellor would help because they deal with this sort of thing quite a lot and would know how to help you deal with it.
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This is the second time i have posted this.. maybe someone will remember me from the first time. I am not 16 years old and i would say that i have felt insecure for as long as i can remember but it has worsened over the past year. I dont feel im a "normal" teenager, my mother has even said so a couple times. I dont like to go out, i actually dont like to do anything. I hate the way i look and im very insecure about my body. (actually im insecure about everything about myself) I no that its "normal" for a girl to be insecure about her looks but theres more. I have so much doubt and regret that im drowning in it. For the past couple of months ive been thinking that its possible im depressed, like clinically. Im not suicidal but i feel so sad all the time and spend alot of the time crying and begging God to take away all this pain. So far my prayers have not been answered. I havent told my parents for a number of reasons. I know that i can tell them anything but im scared. Im afraid they wont take me seriously and im embarrased. I also dont want them to feel like its their fault or anything because i do have a pretty good life, which actually causes me to feel really guilty. Im just really scared and its been sooo long that i have felt this way and havent told them i dont want them to be mad and i just dont know what it will be like afterwards. Im also scared to see a doctor but i also really want to stop feeling like this way. Tonight, after having a good cry i thought about telling them again but i dont think i can get through it without crying like a baby. So i decided to write a letter and give it to them but im afraid im not brave enough. I did start the letter though. Please someone tell me what i should do. I mean.. what if im just being dramtic and looking for attention and i tell them and they take me to a doctor and its nothing, i will feel so embarrassed. I dont want people to feel bad for meand if i tell my parents i wont be able to take it back. But i just dont no and im sick of wishing i could run away and start over with a new life. I sick of wanting more. Everyday is just like the one before it and i cant handle it. I feel like im going to fall apart. Ok i think this is long enough.. what im asking of you is that u tell me if u think this is depression or am i just being overly dramatic and also do i tell my parents and if so how.. was the letter a good idea?? PLEASE HELP!!! (link)
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i think what is causing you to feel this way mostly comes down to your self consciousness. This is the reason why you don't feel like going out and also makes you feel like you don't fit in and therefore leads you to stay closed and become unsociable. Also you need to realise that there really isn't any real reason you are feeling like this and that it's pretty much all in your head and you need to help yourself snap out of it.
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I went to a dance last night and had a BLAST! My friends went up to the kid (Ive admired from a distance lets say for like 2 years! lol) and they asked him (Logan) if he would dance with me and I guess he said yes (I wasnt there though.) So, the next slow song came on and he asked me to dance. =) Yay! And we both seemed to really like it and I could tell he was nervous which happens when you like someone right? But, then I kept trying to get his attention on the FAST dances. He would be right next to me and not even look over @ me! I mean, all these other guys told me I looked hot nd stuff byt Logan didnt even care! I was so mad. I was dancing with all my friends and we were dancing really dirty ..lol but obviously it didnt get his attention. ANyways, he didnt ask me to dance at all again the whole dance! So I danced with other people but he didnt dance with any other girls so thats a good sign?? At the end of the dance, my friends dad picked me and my friend up because I was sleeping over her house. And, we were stuck in traffic for like 3 seconds, and i saw mike with a few friends and he looked at me and i looked at him from the car and i smiled and he smiled back! We used to flirt all last year, but then he got really popular and wasnt in any of my classes. DO you think he likes me?! i hate boys ..what would you do NEXT if you were me? I dont know what the next step is for logan and me ..or if there is one at all . SOrry its long! (link)
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he's shy and is probably intimidated by you.
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