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Q: Hey. I'm thirteen/female and my friend Jill invited me to go to her birthday party. I moved away from the town she lives in when I was in fourth grade, but I go to these parties every year. See, this year, I want to go, and see all my old friends, but I'm nervous about meeting the new people Jill has become friends with. What should I do? And it's a sleepover party, and calling to go home at a sleepover would be kinda, idk, just like, not our age type thing to do. Should I go and see if I have a good time [ I usually do], or not go and save myself possible nervousness?
Go to the party. If you feel nervous just talk to your friend Jill. Im sure she'll understand, but still go.Have a good time, life's to short to layback. In the end, if you don't go, you might end up feeling really guilty for letting Jill down.

Q: i have this mental disorder that makes me say ahh like every 10 seconds. people make fun of me and they ask me why i do it and i dont want to tell them that its because i have mental problems. what should i do?
If I were you I would pray about it. And when people make fun of you, just ignore them. I know it might not help much but tell them just because you're different that doesn't give them the right to tease you. If you haven't already done this, talk to a doctor and see if there is any medication you can take. Every one is different for a reason. God made you like this for a reason. Just ignore the kids at school.

Hope this helped.

Q: okay well to make a long story short me and my boyfriend broke up and got back together when we broke up i told my mom and she was happy she hates him. but the thing is we got back together and im scared to tell her she'll like go crazy if i tell her we got back together. :( she said she didnt care if we were just friends he didnt do anything wrong though sooo uhh what do i do how do i tell her? should i even tell her? Shes so negitive about our relationship i dont even feel like telling her. Ehhh help pleaseee
Be honest with your mom. Somehow, someway, shes gonna end up finding out. Moms' just have a way of knowing everything. Just sit her down and tell her the truth. You would get in more trouble if you didn't tell her and she found out rather than being honest with her. She's your mom, she'll understand.

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Q: how do i potty train my two guinea pigs? (they live in separate cages)
ok, i dont know how i know this but my cousin had a rabbit and she said buy a little kitty litter box and stick it in there. eventually they will learn. i tried it with my rabbit and it worked, but some animals may be different, they may just seem to go wherever. =]

Q: ok, well, i hate the way i look
my face is too chubby, my eyes are too small, and im pretty much just ugly
i dont thik any guy would ever go out with me, becuase i am not exactly skinny, but im not fat
i dont know what i could do to make me more attractive
like, i parted my hair different one day, and i guess it helped, but i still dont know
what should i do?
OK. Well the first thing to do is build yourself up. Don't tear yourself down. I know how you feel, I never feel pretty. Just be yourself and who you are. Eventually things will work out. There is a guy out there for everyone. Also, your probably young, you're gonna grow into your face. It will mature, it may take some time, but in the mean time try to build yourself up. =]

Q: so i have this friend and she follows me everywhere. shes not really my friend but i try to be nice to her. no one likes her and i think that she doesnt have any friends. what should i do?
If I were you I would continue to be nice to her. Everyone needs a friend, and you could be hers. I know exactly how you feel. Some people at my school have no friends and I feel like I have to be. From now on in class, try to include her more in the group conversations, make her feel loved. Sometimes I feel like I have no friends. Just by saying hi to her in the halls, or being her buddy instead of the regular people you hang out with. Be nice to her, maybe ask her to sit with you at lunch. Maybe get to know her better. The reason she might not have friends may be because no one every feels the need to get to know her. Try it out.

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Q: hey well im a 13/f and i have a boyfriend and he's the most awsome guy ever he like always talks to me on the phone and tells me he loves me and hugs me. But there is this kid noah who really likes me and has liked me since 3rd grade and he keeps making me stuff and its really cute and he is really nice and i like him but i love my boyfriend. but my boyfriend dosen't treat me ,like noah does . noah is real sweet!! SO can you help i dont know who i should take or let go :( .. so can you HELP>>??>>??>>??
ok, well if i were you i would think about it for a long time. in my opinion i want a guy that is sweet and will make me his top priority. noah seems like a nice guy. think about this
-which one is more nice
-which one do you miss the most when your away from them
-which one do you think about the most
-which one will treat you with respect and will like you for who you are

also, you may want to pray about it, idk what your religion is but pray

hope this helped =]

Q: where can i find a shirt someone like this???

http://www.haydenpanettierepictures.com/gallery/1/hayden-panettiere-148
idk, but i LOVE that shirt. do a search for it, some companies may do custom designs. it may cost more but that shirt is HOTT!!!

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Im new at this whole advice giving thing but i seem to like it. I'm pretty good at giving advice. I love to help people out and am good at it. My best buds come to me for advice. Im mostly good at giving advice on relationship problems but I can help with anything. If you ask me a question about relationships I have probably been through something the same. I love helping people. Also if you ask me a question I will give you a straight answer, Im not going to sugarcoat everything I say. I am a honest person so take the advice I give you and dont be upset if its not what you wanted to hear. P.S hayybayy IS THE BEST COLUMNIST........BESIDES ME, SO ASK HER QUESTIONS!!!! :]

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