Member Since: March 30, 2007
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Last Update: April 21, 2007
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Well, this may be somewhat long..
On Tuesday, my friend Megan and I have had plans for about a week to go shopping. I asked her seventh hour to call and make sure with her mom, and she said that she did and that her mom said she was grounded. I said, okay, that's fine.
Now, when the bell rings to go home from school, I see her, samantha, and heather trying to rush out before I saw them leave with her...didn't work. I was walking with my sister, and she saw it and she calls her name then asks her what happened to her and my plans, and megan just looks at her and said something better came up.
So, I was ditched for the first time and it hurt like hell.
So the next day, she comes into school so bright and cheery to me, and I just didn't talk to her at all...and I felt very bad about this all week because I didn't talk to her.
Well, after I got ditched, I went to one of my teachers and I told her and I was bawling when I told her...and she looked at me and said...now something like this with those girls happens to you every year, and you make up with them, and you apologize for nothing, and when you all make up, you put yourself in the same predicament to get hurt over and over again. Now, these girls are not your friends if they keep doing this to you and it seems as if they don't deserve your friendship because you don't deserve to be treated like that. I agreed, and even it was something what I wanted to hear, but not someting I wanted to hear. And another friend told me this too. So, right now I'm hanging out with Meredith..the girl that has always been there for me, but I never took advantage of the friendship I had with her.
And another thing that pissed me off kind of was that the fact that this girl samantha is a liar. She came to school Monday with little tiny nail marks on her neck that were barely visible and like you would give to yourself. So she tells heather and megan that her grandma chocked her so she can stay a few nights over heather's house. Now, what pissed me off was about three months ago, my parents kicked me out of my house for two weeks, and I stayed two nights in the car, and when I asked heather for a place to stay, she said she'd ask her mom and she came back the next day and she said that her mom said no..which I didn't believe, so I called and explained to her mom what was going on and she ended up saying that heather said nothing to her and that I am welcome to stay as long as I needed..and I told her not to bother because heather doesn't seem to want me over there, so Meredith saw that I was wearing the same clothes for three days in a row, and she gave me a place to stay.
And since I haven't really talked to them at all this week, on Friday a few people came up to me and said that they were talking about me saying that I'm a bitch and that I'm fat and hope the diet pills kills me. This hurt me too because first of all, I'm not on diet pills, and second, since Tuesday happened, I've not been immature and talked shit about them.
So, just after this week and all what happened, I've not said anything to them, even though it feels as if I'm guilty and I was to apologize for what I did, which I don't know what I did.
I just don't know what I did to deserve this at all. And I feel like I'm guilty about it, but I don't want to be used by them again just to get hurt again.
How do I get rid of this guilt? (link)
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First of all dont feel bad its not your fault you did nothing wrong.Dont be friends with the others girls becasue their just trouble with a capital T.So heres what i do............... go to school and be nice to them just by like saying hi and stuff and act like theres nothing wrong because then they'll stop bugging you because they can tell thats it not affecting you at all.Try not to become friends with these girls again because they will keep on doing this to you again and again.So just hang out with the friend you got and be proud that your not in all the drama!!!
Hope this advice helps
Pandabumm :}
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ok....im 13 and pregnant i dont want to tell my family because i think they will be ashamed.I dont want to get an abortion because i think its wrong.I also dont want to give "it" up for adoption, because my friend was adopted and he doesent like it.I just really need some help.What should i do? (link)
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well your family is gong to notice that your getting "big".so it might just help to tell them now so they can help you with it will your going through it. Ask what you can do with the child and i bet you'll find a way.
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ok, there is this guy who definitly likes me ad i think i like him too. i have a feeling he might ask me out and i want to say yes but i know that people are going to wonder what i see in him and probably laugh and make fun of me. he's a great kid and really nice and he listens to me but he's not very attractive. what can i say to make people not bother me if we go out? (link)
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Just be like hey well you arent going out with him so why should they care.Be like im the one who likes the guy sodont worry i know what im doing and i like this guy so ever deal with it or dont habg out with us. Just remember your the one that likes him not the other people.
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I use to love to read. I haven't read in long time. I try least read anybook. problem is I cna't focus maybe interess of book or maybe I don't get it. thing is I am kind in lower grade level. I read different leveal of books, ok I am 4th grade level but I can read high school level to. but thing is that I can't seem get intress in and focus. can ya give me reasons I should stop and read? or ther any books that would draw you in no matter what? (link)
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Just like you i hated to read but then a found a book or series that i really like.So what are you what are you interested in? What kind of novels do you like to read? Romantic? Comedy? Adventure?
Just ask your teacher if she knows any good books or just ask your friends what books they like to read and maybe you should try to read one the your interested in.
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the top of my hair where my scalp is it starting to feel real gross, like gressy or like i have gel in it and i dont! after i take a shower i blow dry and straighten it and then it feels all gross at the top while the bottom is soft and silky, its been doing this for 3 days and its pissing me off! what do i do? (link)
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well maybe you should rinse your hair with shampoo twice and see if that helps. Also has your mom or gaurdian change the shampoo and condition you have.Also my friend washes her hair every day and it gets greasey way faster, so maybe try to wash your hair every other day.
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