My name's Vicious, after my idol Sid Vicious. I have been told I give good advice, and I greatly enjoy doing so, so ask me for help.
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Age: 14
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Okay so i have 2 friends who i love so much. Well one is a guy the other a girl. I have known this guy for a very long time and this girl i have known for quite a while. Him and her dont like eachother and they fight whenever they are together. i love both of them and people say i need to drop him as a friend, but i cant do that, i also like him more than a friend, and he knowss and we are still friends. I just dont know what to do. like none of my friends like him. they tell me to let it go because he's not worth it as a friend and i dont want to.
I guess my question is what do i do knowing that 2 of my greastest friends hate eachother, and my other friends hate him as well? i dont know anymore. I dont want to give up, but people are telling me i should.
16/f. if that helps any. (link)
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if you like him that is all that matters. it doesnt sound like he is a bad friend, it simply sounds like your friends dont like him. which is normal. not all of your friends are going to like each other, but if they liek you they should respect your friend choice. i think that if you want to stay friends with him you should.
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when ever i argue with some one or get too upset r anything like that my stomach starts hurting REALLY really badly... It feels horrible i feel like im going to get sick or something... Is there something wrong with me??
thanks in advance (link)
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no, there isnt something wrong with you, your body is probably reacting to the stress of the fight, which is making your body feel uncomfortable. try to avoid situations where you could get in fights. besides that there isnt much you can do.
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ok, so i got my braces off this summer, would this somehow make me more capable of getting a better boyfriend? can anyone tell me how getting them off changes there experiences with people and such?
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it depends. some guys dont care whether you have braces or not, however, im sure a lot of people will notice your new straight teeth, so expect a lot of compliments. guys may find you more attractive, and your smile will be a lot nicer withouth the braces. however, if people dont notice that you got them off, its not because they dont care or arent paying attention, its probably because they never noticed them before, because they like you for you, not what you look like.
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are guys turned off by braces?
15/f (link)
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it varies from guy to guy. some guys like them, some guys dislike them, and some guys dont care either way, however, some get turned off by them because they can get in the way of kissing sometimes.
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Are there any other ways of getting music for your iPOD besides buying it from iTUNES and stuff? Is there a website I can get music from? Anything? PleaSE? (link)
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you can always get it from cds, napster has music but it costs the same, wal-mart online has downloads for 88 cents, limewire or bearshare is good, but they are illegal, and you can get free downloads of the week from mtv's site and such, but thats about it.
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its long, but keep on reading its interesting, and if you have any heart, or are really good at giving advice, read the whole thing, and respond. PLEASE!
Ok, I like this guy, I'll call him Brian. We have known each other for almost a year, and three months of those, we were involved. We were each other's first relationships, but he ended it, because we were just acting like friends, so we might as well stay that way. Well, its about six months since we broke up, and I still like him, and I think he likes me too. We talk on the phone basically every day for no less than an hour and a half up to three hours. Well, we are just friends, but last week we had this long conversation where we were just asking each other questions. And we took it too far, to the point where i asked him if he would ever rekindle old relationships, referring very well to his only one: with me. He doesnt kno that I officially still like him. Well anyway, it came out that some other girl has caught his attention. hearing this I froze up...even though my guy best friend talked to Brian, and brian told him, that he would rekindle old relationships, and that he does like me...the only thing is that he doesnt want to make the same mistakes again and hurt each other in another relationship (brian doenst take chances), so he didnt want to go there with me again. So, I called him up , trying to be the mature person and told him, that iwas sorry for taking the question game too far, and that I just wanted to be his good friend and that I hope him and the other girl work out. So, he got the idea that I didnt like him and that i basically put the seal on what could have been us by being just 'friends. the only reason why i did that is becuase i didnt want to get hurt, so i backed off when i heard he was interested in another girl. Turns out, he doesnt officialy really like her yet, he just wants to get to know her, so basically i had a chance, if i would have fought for him; but like him, i dont really take chances, and i gave up,because i wanst sure if he would reject me by telling me he just wanted to be freinds, which is why i beat him to it. So in like three days, i went from the girl who could potentially be with brian to the girl that happens to be his really good friend and is helping him get the other girl. KNowing very well that should be me. I should also mention the fact that when my best freind was talking to brian, he asked brian if he was just talking to the other girl to get over me, and he said 'no comment'. And we still talk the same amount of time, because he says he really likes talking to me, but last night, i basically helped him plan a date with the other girl; i would rather be the friend that he can talk to about the other girl, then be the girl who doesnt know the details on his love life. I put his potential happiness in front of mine, instead of fighting and trying to succeed with him. And i dont want to officially become that 'buddy old pal'. cuz it sounds immature, but i know we are meant to be together, we just click, and i hope u know what that feels like. Brian took the safe way out, by not going there with me again, and i accommadated him. And i dont know if I should try fighting for him again, or what? I need advice and major opinions on the situation. iwant to know what i could have done better, and what i should do now. I am going over his house tomorrow, so i wanted to tell him whats really good then, but that would mean i would have to eat all of those fluffy just friends words i gave him a few days ago. sometimes i feel that he has to explore other girls to really know if we are meant to be, so he wouldnt have any 'what ifs' or regrets. HELP PLEASE!!! (link)
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you obviously REALLY like him, since you were putting his happiness before yours. its sounds as if he still likes you, and i think that you should be totally open and honest with him, and tell him how you feel about him. i think that he will understand, and i dont think he will be upset about you saying you just wanted to be friends when you didnt, because you were doing what you thought was best for him. i think you two should have a talk about this and see what he thinks, and i believe that things will work out the way they are supposed to for you.
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I know this may sound really weird but I can't have sex because it hurts too much! I've tried with two guys over the past yr && a half and it hurts way to much! What do i do?! (link)
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the first time is always going to hurt a little bit. thats just the way it is. there will be bleeding as well. i dont think there is anything you can do to make it hurt less, but you could try using lubricant. besides that you just have to wait until you are ready to deal with the pain. it may hurt a few times after, but eventually it will stop.
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Is my acne terrible or is it okay, (not something I should worry about), because I use foundation to cover it up. (in the picture I'm wearing foundation). I took out the flash so that you could see the pimples more clearly. I have a few more bumps, but they blend in my easily with my skin. Will I stop getting pimples when I get older? Is it just like your hormones or whatever that you eventually grow out of?
I'm starting to take care of my skin more and I use a foaming cleanser type of thing and it helps clear my pores, if that helps. (link)
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the picture is very hard to see, but i would say it isnt too bad. as long as youre cleaning your face the acne should be kept down to a minimum, and foundation is fine to cover it up with, as long as you are washing it off every night. eventually you will stop getting acne, or you'll only get it occasionally, but not until you are nearing the end of puberty.
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in those one bathroom bathrooms, what do you say when youre in there and someone knocks on the door? (link)
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you dont have to say anything if the door is locked. they will try to open the door and wont be able to. if you want to say something you could say "somebody's in here" or, "this bathroom's not available right now."
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I am getting older, but i still want to have a birthday party.
I dont wan't it to be something childish and i wouldn't try to make it childish either.
So what i planned to do was have a few friends sleepover and we'd go in the pool, have pizza, watch a movie, and make smores and stuff but i dont want my friends to be bored. If there is any ideas you have.. or anything you have done at one of your parties please let me know. Because all i have is a pool i dont have a trampoline.. thigns to do on a RAINY day would also be nice =]
Thanks for ANY advice given.. even if its bad! (link)
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pool parties are always fun, there are a lot of games you can play in the pool. movies are good too. if you have a yard as well and its a nice day out, you could have a water balloon fight, a water gun fight, or a slip and slide, and if its raining but not thundering you could play all the water games in the rain still, its a lot of fun. smores are a great idea, and if you do have a yard you could have a bonfire. truth or dare is always a good game, as is would you rather. if you have a lot of space in your house you could play a lot of music and have a dance party, which is always fun, or if you have a playstation you could play ddr. karaoke is always fun too, and if you have a video camera, its great to dress up and sing songs and make a music video type thing, record it, and then watch it later that night at the party. good luck.
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Ok so Me and my friend have been bestest friends for 7 years almost 8 and yeah were tight and stuff. She moved like 3 years ago to her house wich is like 2 hours away from me and so now we dont see eachother alot only like once every 2 months. Anywayz when she moved up there then she became friends with alot of ppl and I was happy for her. Well her friends became my friends and so like this chick Amber that were both friends with Has a brother Jesse. Well my bestest friend is like in love with him and he's in love with her. But like a year ago we both liked him and he knew it cause we both told him and he said that he liked both of us 2. So yeah we flirted with him and stuff but then like a couple months after that then he said that he only liked her and I asked him why and he said just cause I live so far away and he hardly see's me. So it took me a while but I finally stoped liking him but I was still like heart broken cause I liked this dude ALOT. Well just like a couple of months ago I started liking him agian and Jesse and my bestest friend are like going out. And I really really dont want to like him but I do and now he is coming in between our frindship and we argue alot and I know that one boy shouldn't ruin a friendship of 7 years. But it is starting to I cant talk to her about anything anymore because she is alwayz talking about what her and Jesse did of something sweet Jesse said to her and like all she wants to do is talk about Jesse or nothing at all. I dont know what to do and I really need some help on how to get our friendship back to how it used to be before Jesse came in.
Kaleigh (15/f) (link)
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you need to talk to your friend about this. you cant control who you like, but you need to try and focus on something other than him. you need to let your friend know that you are going to try not to think about him, and that you would really appreciate it if she didnt talk to you about him. tell her that you are sorry, and that you know she wants to talk to you bout him because she trusts you and values your conversations, but let her know that its hard for you to hear about him, and it will be easier for you to get over him if you dont hear about him too much. and if in the end you two cant settle this, you have to move on. some friendships arent meant to last forever.
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When you view someone's pictures on myspace, do the profile views go up? or does it only count when you go the the person's main page? (link)
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only the main page counts as a profile view. and it only counts one time for each log in, so even if someone looks at your page twenty times, if its all at one time it will only show up as one.
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okay so i really like this guy n he likes me too, but ive never had a bf so its really wierd and like now im afraid to....also i like dont know what to do like when his arms around me, n i dont know how to makeout, someones pleaseeeee helpp
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when you like someone you are naturally going to be a little bit nervous around them. thats a given. when his arm is around you, put your arm around him. just be yourself and act natural around him. remember, he likes you for you, so stay that way. as for a first kiss, a light touch on the lips is all that is necessary, just make sure you tilt your head a bit so your noses dont bump. :) and as making out goes, its pretty simple. try taking just his bottom lip or top lip in yours, and pull just a little bit. gently. keep doing that and you are making out. simple as that.
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this guy that i like went to mexico and is coming back tomorrow..
and before he left we were getting really close. and he kissed me
before he left. but hes not the hook up type or whatever. so i was
just wondering what you think.. do u think we will be the same when
he gets back? or no?? and he promised was gonna tell me this one
"secret" which my friend told him to ask me out. .and he promised he
would tell me when he got back...so i hope he does *knock on wood*
but idkk i just want to know what a lot of other people think?? (link)
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i dont think that things have changed, if he liked you before he left, im sure he still does. and if he said he had a secret to tell you, it is probably that he likes you. or at least thats what it sounds like.
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everytime i give my guy a hand job we get cutt off cause someone walks in or i gotta leavee.. how uncomfortable is it for him for me to just leave him like that?
also.. what do guys really preferr when eating a girl out, if shes completely shaved down there, or trimmed and shaved a little.
thanks:) (link)
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it does hurt guys a lot when you start something and then dont finish it, its very uncomfortable. as for being shaved, definitely be at least trimmed, but fully shaved is best.
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hey, alright so im getting my nose pierced in martch after cheering season is over. my question isnt "does it hurt" or whatever, its what side did you get your nose pierced on? the left or the right?
thanks =] (link)
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you can get it pierced on either side, i dont think its like with earring studs, where one side means youre straight, and one side means you arent. however, the most common side to have it on seems to be the right.
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So we have to run a mile (4 times around a big track) for a time (meaning it's a race!!!) I am not that good a runner...what can i do to get me a good time and not get cramps or out of breath?! help asap! i need it by tomorrow (link)
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i am on the volleyball team and i only have to run a quarter mile, because my coach says we are running for short term stamina, not long distance. (which makes sense since there isnt any long distance running in volleyball) there isnt much you can do to prevent cramps, just dont drink a whole lot of water before you run or you will definitely get them. there isnt anything you can do to make the running easier for you, since you are running it tommorow, but i would suggest starting off at a steady even pace, and then pushing yourself for the last bit and getting as much speed as possible. if you start off really fast and push yoursel too hard, it will be difficult to make it all the way through. good luck.
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My mom and I are visiting my Aunt as well as my cousins.Any way today after I had breakfast with just my mom and my aunt I went shopping on my own and then my aunt and my mom went back to my Aunts Apartment at her Assisted Living Place. About a half hour into my shopping my zipper to my purse broke. I went to a store and purchased a new purse (a bigger one to hold everything). This one does not have a zipper but a magnetic snap. Anyway I transferred all my stuff from my old purse into the new one, checked the old one to see if I missed anything and then threw the old one out at the mall when I saw I transferred everything into the new purse.When I came back to the apartment my mom saw my new purse and I told her what happened. When I told her I did not keep the old purse (that I threw it out after transferring everything from the old purse to the new purse) she asked me was I sure I took everything out of the old purse. I told her I did and she asked me three more times was I sure that I did take everything out of the old purse. I then told her that I needed to buy the new one and I asked her what she would have done and she said you know me I would have brought the old purse back to the apartment and checked the old purse a few more times. However, when she said the above to me what went through my mind is that she was implying I should have still used the old one.MY QUESTION: Am I thinking stupidly and how would you have interpreted what my mom said if she said it to you? (link)
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i think she was just concerned that you may have overlooked something that was still in the purse. if you had brought it home with you, you could have double checked for anything you mightve missed, and if you found that you were missing something later on, the purse may have still been near by for you to see if it was there. i do not think she expected you to use the broken one, however she may have also that it couldve been fixed up somehow so it could still be used.
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I'm turning 15 in a month and a half.. and I'm starting to think about ideas for a party.
I want it to be suitable for under 10 girls (15 max). I live near D.C., so something there's a possibility.
I also don't want to spend a lot of money (like renting a place to have a frickin house party). But I can spend some money i guess...
Any idea is appreciated!
thanks!
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well since you are having such a small amount of girls, you can do something without spending a whole lot of money. you could go to the aquarium or the zoo, or the spy museum, which is actually really cool, considering it is a museum. or if you dont want to spend much money at all, you could have a movie marathon at your house, and have each girl bring her favorite movie, you could have a dance party depending on how much room there is in your house, or you could go to a pool (indoor if its when its cold out), roller skating, bowling, if you all have a sport you really like you could go to the basketball or tennis courts, a place with volleyball nets, or a soccer field. you could go to a park and play a lot of outdoor games, and its tons of fun to take a lot of goofy pictures on swingsets and slides and such. good luck.
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is it true that zac efron is homosexual? i heard it from this advice columinist but i think hes lying cuz zac is pretty hot
second question: what do you do to get discovered... acting singing [maybe modeling?]
i really wannt to be a celebrity someday
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just because zac is hot, doesnt mean he isnt homosexual. the way you look doesnt have much to do with it. i dont believe he is, but its possible. you can never trust magazines, unless it has an actual interview, from him. as for getting discovered, you have to look for talent scouts. often you will hear commercials on the radio advertising a talent scout who is looking for people, then you call and get info, and go and audition. in the meantime, whatever you want to do you have to practice. if its singing, try to get vocal lessons. if its acting, enroll in the schools drama program.
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