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so theres this boy, and he means the world to me. hes my best friend.

he has a girlfriend, but says hes in love with me. and he doesnt know what to do. im sitting here wondering if i should stay here wating for him to break up with his girlfriend. or move on.


except when i get a new crush my best friend gets mad and jealous and makes me feel bad.

what do i do? help. (link)
since you waited for him for a while and he never came, then i would move on if i was you. if he really liked you enough then he would have came to you sooner. And if he gets mad and jealous then thats his fault for not getting you in the first place. so just move on and see what he thinks about it and what he does about it.


i started my period yesterday
and i wore a pad
but i wasnt happy with that
since a few of my underwears are totally stained
so i got a tampon
and i slept in it
and 1st thing this morning i took it out
and got a pad
and then about 2:30 ish
i got a tampon and put it in
and its sooo much more comfortable than that other tampon [the one im wearing now is a sports one]
and i was wondering what do i do when i have to pee
do i take it out
or pee while im wearing it !?!?! (link)
you pee with it in.
it does no damage or anything its perfectaly fine.


Does ayone know any goodwebsites that have good quoptes for teenagers or life quotes pleas e?? (link)
http://www.lovepoemsandquotes.com/
http://www.best-love-poems.com/love_quotes.htm

hope those help! the bottom one is really good. send anything else to my inbox!


Does anyone know any good sites that can teach you or help you learn how to draw anime. I don't want ones that like advertise books to teach you im just wondering if there was such a site.
i just wanna learn how to draw anime so badly. though i really stink at drawing (probably i do it too fast and rash) but still i wanna draw anime. anyways i like have no life,i made a long chain out of soda can tops,did origami,write poems, and play my computer, and i wanna occupy myself with anime now ^_^. (link)
http://www.howtodrawmanga.com/tutorial.html

they have good ideas. i hope this helps!
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i just shaved my legs today. for passover break (which is at the end of this month)
if i dont shave all month do you think the hair would be long enough for me to wax by the 20th?
if not, how can i make it grow faster?
thanx! (link)
they should be long enough to wax. but if you dont want to, i use nair and it works just the same for me.

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I want to improve my writing but I don't know what to write about.

Is there any website that has questions for writing in journals?
Like.. creative writing prompts? (link)
http://www.creativewritingprompts.com/

they have a TON of ideas!
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i know another boy question! two weeks ago i invited aboy to come with me to a party. he came and we danced all night and he gave me a kiss on the chee before he left. for the past tw weeks we have been texting eachother non-stop. he ggoes to my old school so i dont see him a lot. but i cant stop thinking abbout him. i love him. but im scared to tell him this because im aafraid im going to freak him out. but i dont want to keep this texting back and forth thing going on if i dont really know how he feels. what do you think i should do? tell him or not?
xo (link)
tell him. if he feels the same about you then he will tell you. if he doesnt tell you, then i would suggest moving on.

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How exactly do you give a blow job? (link)
Get comfortable. A blow job is much more fun without a sore neck. Find a position that works best for both of you, depending on where you are (you can't really lounge comfortably in an elevator, you know) and the angle of the cock you're dealing with (work with the natural downward angle of your throat). Kneel before your man with him standing if you're in a confined area, or when you want to strike a pose that is really hot. Other positions: seat your partner and crouch between their legs (slide a pillow under your knees if you're not on a soft surface), or lay down and let your partner thrust into your mouth, (harder to control the depth, but good for you lazy types). If you're in a car, your partner can lay down lengthwise in the back.

If you're using a condom, put it on NOW! Try a Trustex flavored condom or Kiss O' Mint condom if you don't like the taste of latex. A sexy way to set the scene is to use your mouth to put the condom on before you get busy.

Give us a kiss.If you're dealing with a soft penis, you don't have to wait until it's hard to start the show. Put it in your mouth when it's soft (or semi-hard) to get acquainted. Kiss it. Lick it. Explore the different textures, especially the roughish tender head and the soft skin of the shaft. Feel it growing in your mouth. Cool, huh?

Mouth off. Slide your lips gently over your teeth for smooth sailing. Most fellatio recipients like lots of spit, but others prefer a drier job, so check in with your partner. Asking quick yes or no questions like "want it dryer?" or "more spit?" can be helpful and hot. Despite your amazing technique, you aren't a mind-reader, so watch your partner for body language cues. Heavy breathing and moans of pleasure are signs that you're on the right track.

Experiment. You can do more wonderful stuff with your mouth than just suck (and remember--the harder you suck doesn't necessarily mean the better it feels). Mix it up by licking the sensitive underside of the shaft, the nerve-ending-loaded head of the penis, and the testicles. Softly blow on the moistened areas. The combination of sensations will feel incredible.

Hands-on. Give your blow job a hand. Grip the cock around the base and slide it up and down, hand-job style, in tandem with your mouth. (Some folks like a tight squeeze, others may not, so check in.) This is great because you can cover a lot of the shaft this way without worrying about taking the whole cock in your mouth. You can concentrate on the super-sensitive head and suck as hard or softly as you'and your partner'like. Use lube for extra slipperiness. A silicone lube like Eros Bodyglide is great for blow jobs: it's concentrated so you only need a tiny bit, it's long-lasting so you won't need to keep stopping to reload, and it doesn't have a distracting taste or smell.

Deep throat. Deep-throating the act of taking the entire shaft into your mouth and throat can be cool, but you can give a perfectly stellar blow job without doing so. The key to deep-throat is to relax your jaw and throat muscles as much as you can. Otherwise, you trigger the gag reflex.

Accessorize. Bring some toys into your routine. Experiment with cockrings, buttplugs, or little vibrators (like the Finger Fun vibe) for some attention on the testicles and perineum. Hold a vibrator against your cheek to add vibrations to your mouth play. Or try sucking on ice or a breath mint to transmit a tingly sensation to your favorite penis. Again, check in with your partner to see how experimental you should be.

Get into it. Look at your partner and the ecstacy you have caused! Make eye contact. Show your partner how much you love being down there. Moan, make appreciative noises (a well-placed MMMM! can make for some nice vibration, too), let your partner know how turned on you are. Don't neglect the rest of the body, either stroke, tickle, scratch the thighs, stomach, butt, and everywhere else you can reach.

Sucking Silicone. This applies to every cock, silicone, rubber, glass, vegetable and flesh alike. When you're dealing with a dildo, treat it like your partner can feel everything you're doing to it because they can. Be careful if the toy is made of a non-flexible material position yourself accordingly to accommodate it.

Finish the Job. It is ultimately your choice whether or not to swallow. Your partner's diet, health, habits and frequency of ejaculation will determine the quantity and taste of the ejaculate. The ejaculate of someone who ingests lots of red meat, caffeine, alcohol or cigarettes, may taste more intense than that of a non-smoking vegetarian. The most ejaculate you might encounter is a teaspoonful or so. You have several choices if you aren't crazy about ejaculate, but don't want to hurt anyone's feelings:


Well my name is alex
I love illini
Basketball
Im a German freak
&& i love the number 23
I have brown hair and brown eyes
and im a shortie
&& im 14 years old
I live in chicago

Can you help me think of some ideas for a new SN??

THANKS

O by the way this is actully is bestest friend :D
Not really him. (link)
german.basketball_23


I read the advice you gave to a girl about straddling her boyfriends kawk, well can you tell me How you do that? (link)
when he is laying on the ground on his back just straddle him on his cock. then start wiggling around, like you're humping him or something lol. and thats basically all you do.


anyone know where you can get clear straps? If you buy it alone and need to put it on your dress, how do you do it without damaging it? (link)
you can buy clear straps in walmart, in the bra section. as for putting them on, just have your mom or someone sew them on.






what is some fun stuff that I can do to my boyfriend to make him feel good (link)
straddle him on his cock when he is laying down and kindof wiggle around. not too hard, or it will hurt him. this makes him feel good.

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ok so like im the kind of person where i dont always care what i look like just as long as im comfy. i mean sometimes i dress up a little. other wise its jeans and a tshirt or tank top and jacket or sweat shirt. like my hairs either in a pony tail or down with a clip. and i wear eye make up. so i honestly dont really care what i look like. but i know guys do. and i mean im pretty. a little. im not ugly but im not gawgeous. so like i dont know is this bad or? and is it a major turn off for guys? (link)
guys are dorks. most of them go for the girls that wear alot of makeup and that are basically fake. I dont wear all that much makeup, and my style is sortof like yours. When a guy actually likes you then he wont care if you wear makeup or not, and he wont care what your style is. he will just like you for you. so i would say that its a turn off for preppy popular jocks, but perfectly fine for the people that are normal and dont think they are better than everyone else.


os so i have blonde hair. i have had it ever since i was like about 1. other wise i was a red head. but i turned blonde. lol. well the thing is is that in the winter it looks darker but its not. its just i guess because of the way the sun chines or something but when im inside or something its liek it normally is. is htere anyway i can get my hair to be more blonde without using dye? (link)
lemon juice. mix some with your shampoo, not a whole lot but some, and it will lighten up your hair.

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Ok well how many days is your period supposed to last?
Cause my sister said hers lasted about 5 days.. and mine only lasts 3. She said there was somthing wrong with me....do you think its true????
Or is that normal? (link)
a normal period lasts about a week. if you havnt been started for too long then your periods will be irregular like that for a while until your body gets on its own schedule. i think you will be just fine.

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Mine's really wavy and wild and there seems like there's nothing I can do with it,but I'm trying to grow it out.I've always kept it short (guy,by the way)so I'm thinking that maybe if I just let it go it'll even out.I just don't want to let it grow and just end up with a huge puffball on my head.Anyone know what I could do? (link)
when you wash it and towel dry it just rub something like 2 golfball sizes of moose in your hair and let it dry some. then if you want you can put some gel through your hair to hold it down a little more.

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OK, so I get this REALLY weird gurgling noise in my throat. I have no idea what it is. My grandma says it's because I may have acid reflex disease, but I don't really beleive that. I'm 13/f. I was also reading this magazine and it said Hilary Duff does the same thing!!! What in the world is it? Here's another desription of it, it's a gurgling noise, deep in my throat and it usually happens after I eat. But not all the time. Is not like a burp or anything, it's way softer and feels a lot different. It doesn't come up all the way out my mouth. It's inside. I need help fast cuz whenever it happens my friends are like, What the heck is that? (link)
i used to do that! and the docter said i had acid reflux. he gave me some medicine and i took it for a couple weeks and that fixed my problem because i didnt have much of it. maybe you should see a docter and have them see if you have acid reflux.


i really wanna sing this song for my talent competition called "fly like a bird" by mariah carey. but i cant get the really high notes that she does. would it be okay to like make them like kinda less high? without totally screwing the song. thanks. (link)
i think that would be just fine.
just choose a way that makes it sound the best.


Oh dear, I have a lil' prob right now..... Prom's already on the day after tomorrow and a ZIT is forming on my cheek! and it's sooo damn obvious! It's not like make up can cover it.... cuz it's really huge.... how do I get rid of it, or at least, make it less visible?!?!?! PLEASE, help me out!!!!!

thanks in advance! ;) (link)
go to walmart and buy acne pads. the kind that i like are in a red jar. rub them over your whole face at night (especially where the zit is comming up) and it should dry it up. just be sure you buy some strong acne pads!


this morning i got my period. for the first time ever. i noticed i was bleeding in the shower, and then i put a tampon in and only two hours later it was completely covered in blood. but the second tampon had only a tiny bit, and i kept it in there for 4 hours. now its 9 and i did not get any blood. is this normal period behavior? are they usually heavy in the morning, or are they supposed to be even throughout the day? (link)
thats perfectly fine! since you just started there was some backed up inside you so it all came out in the morning so it was heavy. then it all got out and became lighter. you will start to bleed throughout the day more when your period gets more regular. youre just fine.

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