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ok so like im the kind of person where i dont always care what i look like just as long as im comfy. i mean sometimes i dress up a little. other wise its jeans and a tshirt or tank top and jacket or sweat shirt. like my hairs either in a pony tail or down with a clip. and i wear eye make up. so i honestly dont really care what i look like. but i know guys do. and i mean im pretty. a little. im not ugly but im not gawgeous. so like i dont know is this bad or? and is it a major turn off for guys?
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Guys in high school are usually just experiementing. They're nervous and scared so they try to date girls that they deem as "easy". Not easy as in a total slut, but a girl that is unlikely to reject him. The way you dress doesn't make you seem very easy. There are lots of guys out there that think you're attractive, but many of them won't try anything because they figure you're not interested. This can be positive or negative. You won't get guys all over you that just want to get in your pants. Any guys that show interest in you will likely be genuinely interested. The downfall to all of this is what happened to me. I was much like you in school minus the makeup. In high school, guys want to play around and try things out. When they get older, they want to find longer lasting relationships with girls like you. No guys ever showed any interest until I was 18. I had no idea what to do, I was so behind. I am happy with where I ended up relationshipwise, but sometimes I wish that I had experiemented a little when I was younger instead of being so smart. I got lucky and the guy I ended up with was very patient with me. I knew nothing about relationships and he put up with it. A lot of guys, no matter how much they like you won't do that for you. So, yeah, it's perfectly okay to dress comfortably if that's who you are. If you do choose to do that though, you're going to have to be a little more outgoing when it comes to guys, something I didn't do. You're different from other girls so you have to go about this differently too. If you're interested in someone you're going to have to let them know. If you don't, you could have a difficult time with relationships in the future. Good luck. :)
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Ok well first your style sounds exactly like mine. Me: put on jeans t shirt ponytail and running shoes and im all set for the day. Im not ugly or gorgeous either but lets just say that im usually friends with guys ALOT more then girls and they dont care what i wear and after a while of us getting to know eachother alot of the times they end up liking me for me.
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guys are dorks. most of them go for the girls that wear alot of makeup and that are basically fake. I dont wear all that much makeup, and my style is sortof like yours. When a guy actually likes you then he wont care if you wear makeup or not, and he wont care what your style is. he will just like you for you. so i would say that its a turn off for preppy popular jocks, but perfectly fine for the people that are normal and dont think they are better than everyone else.
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Dress how you want. Wear makeup when you want to, how you want to, in colors you like that compliment your eye color. Style your hair however you want. Basically, be yourself, and not who teenvogue tells you to be this month. Guys, no matter now naive they can be, can usually tell when a girl is being fake. If you're confident in how you look, it shows. And who doesn't like confidence? Besides, if you change yourself to get a guy's attention, you
A) won't be comfortable, and
b) they won't like YOU. They'll like the girl you're pretending to be.
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