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My name is Catherine, I'll be 15 soon. I have been a member of this site for about 2 and a half years. I love giving advice, and love helping people. My answers are honest, and I try my best not to give harsh answers. I know other columnists can be rude sometimes, I'm not like that. My friends are my life, and I do everything I can to help them when they ask for my advice or help. I'm not close to my mom or dad. I have been through almost everything, so I know how it feels, and I usually know what to do.
I dont have one kind of question I answer, I answer all topics, about everything.
Ask me anything and I will give you the best advice that I could possibly think of.
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Okay, Well there is this guy let's bane him Billy I went out witih him 3 times already. And He has a girlfriend let's name her Mary. Well I hung out with Billy and I am best friends with him, he is also my ex-boyfriend of numerous times (3 or 4) We started to hangout out of school agian. I never truely got over him. Well He recently told me, that he is starting to have feelings for me agian. And He is going to break up with his girlfriend. I feel really bad But I love him. What should I do? Should I go with him? Should we tell her?
dont be selfish . if you know hell be better off with her leave them alone. but if you think hes better of with u than ask him out again.
ps: i.m me at guardskluv@aol.com
Wow okay. well these 3 friends made me cry today. im in 7th grade and i dont cry normally and they were yelling and making fun of me today and yesterday. one girl said i ditched her when i was waiting for my other friends and then we went to go swim with them and then they left us and it kept happening. my best best friends now hates me and called me a fake today beacuse she thought i was saying alot of chit about her, and i wasnt i spend almost everyday with her in the summer i went to basketball team with her i dont hate her or anytihng! and then the oither ones i dont know, but i dont know what to do now, and they made me cry today and i dont wanna lose them as friends but i also dont wanna continue being best friends with them, but they can get the whole school turned against me. and i dont want that. they arent as popular as they seem but they have a way to get everyone else mad at me. i just dont know what to do, i ask my other friends but they dont know either. it seems as if everything is always blamed on me and now i dont know what to do beacuse they wont believe me on anything. i really need some help, if you could please give me some advice.
i hope u can im me at guardskluv@aol.com and ill personally answer your ?
My mind wonders during school. Mostly about my current bf and how I want to like talk to him or w/e. I used to be an A student now I'm a C student. It's not like I can avoid guys completley. What should I do about?
if you want him back then u can get him back. if not find another guy that makes u feel teh same way
ps: im me at guardskluv@aol.com
omg i was so surprised when my bf said it was okay that i wanna take it slow and we can go at my pace..but i dont have a pace..so wut exactly is to slow to go with a guy without them getting annoyed or thinking ur not ready for the relationship or ur too immature?
if he thinks that you guys are ready, and your not, tell him that its not worth taking a risk. if your not ready and he is have a talk. but if he WANTS u to be ready THEN you should leave him.
ps: im me at guardskluv@aol.com
ok i went to this dance with my guy friend. first off when we were dancing he started grinding wiht me and then with slow dancing we were dancing really my face was right against his. also when we were grinding there was a point where he kind of backed off. why was that do you think?? and do you think he likes me?? Should i tell him i like him??
if you really think he likes you. If you never ask then you will regret it later on because you found out that he really likes you and wants to ask you out. I wouls ask him when i have the chance. but if he really thinks you are hot than go for it
ps: im me at guardskluv@aol.com
i have a friend named Catherine she's as close as it gets but my relatives live in India and another lives in California
my name is catherine
i swear. i live in ct though
if u want to talk you can with me
Dear advicenators,
Age:13
grade:7th going into 8th
I have a father that abuses me but i really don't know what to do i've tried being sucidal but it didn't help at all i also know if i consult the police he will deny it and he will abuse me even more so what should i do?
if you have a father that abuses you talk to an adult. Or a good friend tht you can trust and you know will be there for you. By hurting yourself its like putting pain on yourself, only not by your dad. if you want to talk to me more you can im me at: guardskluv@aol.com. if you dont feel comfortable in your home then you cant call it a home at all. dont be afraid. violence is not the answer for yourself. its not your fault and never will be .its your choice, live with it with your dad or live without it with someone that is willing to care for you. I have the same situation with a friend of mine. dont be afraid and do what you think is right. GOOD LUCK.
alright my friend is yelling at me to ask this..
well she thinks that this kid on my bus that i like likes me, because he said he never smiles on the bus and i got him to smile 6 times, well, i know this is stupid but she wants to know if you think he likes me.
it doesnt matter really what ur friend thinx. if you like him and you know he likes you back then you should go for it .if only you made him smile that means that he likes you and feels that only you make him feel something that no one else does
ps im me at guardskluv
how long does a hickey last??? is there a way to get rid of it faster?????
idk maybe as deep as it is
hey my boyfriend is graduating this thursday and his party is in a week...any ideas on what to get him?
get him something expensive(to show you care),something he is interested in(to show you knowhim well), or something that shows you want to be there for him always.
Do crunches help you lose weight? I normally do anywhere from 1000-3000 crunches a day. I eat healthy and i don't eat a lot because i want to lose 30lbs. thanks in advanced. i rate 5's for good answers
doing crunches helps build muscle and muscle weighs more than fat. dancing is better because that burns fat. Crunches=muscle, dancing=loosing weight/burning calories
ps send me an im at guardskluv
THANX
I was wondering if you could help me I have not been feeling well since jan-05 it all started with a cold that turned into a sinus infection, I went to the doctor and he gave me a antibiotic which seemed to clear it up but I now seem to have a internal shaking in my body that will not go away, I have been for all kinds of tests bloodwork, mri on my head halter monitor chest x-ray and all are normal, I stopped drinking caffiene products thinking that this may be the problem it seemed to work a little but the shaking came back, then I got another sinus infection and the shaking got worse, I was given avelox and that seemed to help but after 2 and half weeks of taking that the shaking came back, all the doctors have said that it may be anxiety but I have never felt this way before. the shaking is not visible but I can feel it all the time, I seem to sleep ok but after a hour or so after waking up it all starts again, I hope that you could help me with this it is driving me crazy, I generally feel good except for the constant feeling. of shaking... PLEASE HELP
a lot of rest is good, because it relaxes the body and calms teh muscles. it could also be an allergic reaction to the medicine or something flowing in your blood
Hello there.
Okay, well firstly I'm very annoyed that I didn't use a comma after my "Hello", but I don't think it looks right, so I'm not putting one in... Secondly, this is what my problem is. I have a hella lot of inner conflicts with myself, and I often speak to myself.
I don't consider speaking to yourself an actual problem, because it's rather normal, just most people deny it as it makes them look "weird", I personally don't care. But I am annoyed at the fact that I argue with myself a hella lot, I get annoyed at the slightest things and I try to purposely contradict myself when I'm bored to make my life seem more amusing and cause problems.
I'm turning my life into a soap opera for the fun of it, and when a real problem does arise, I flip it over, turn it inside out and make it all the more worse.
I *could* figure this one out myself, but I'd probably give myself the wrong solution just so I have another problem that I can make a larger problem out of, then I'll contradict the whole thing by denying ever having *any* problems AT ALL...
Okay, I made this longer and more complicated/confusing than I could've imagined, but again, help would be rather nice. And don't give me a lame ass answer like "seek help from your GP" because I'm not gonna and I want a REAL answer.
Apologies and I appreciate you wasting your time. Merci beaucoup.
because you talk to yourself, you probably only think to yourself. By being with a friend, you might resolve and become more addicted to talking to your friends
Okay, I'm 14/f and i love boys to death, but lately i've been very attractive to my best friend and she's 13/f.My friend and i have experimented 3 times and we've both liked it. When we get intimate with each other we never think of guys either it's strange. I'm not attracted to any other girls. I feel that if she doesn't like me back when i tell her how i feel about her i will get over it and go back to guys again. I've never had a liking for woman just my best friend. Does this mean i'm bisexual or i'm confusing my feelings with "FRIENDSHIP LOVE." Help a girl out!!
if you think taht you are bisexual,then deal. experiment a couple more times and see which sex you mre feel comfortable
So im talking to this person from another country.. I ask him what his country thinks about 9/11. The attack we had. So He said i dont want to tell you im really sorry for that but i should better not tell u prob u must have already understood but still wont teel u. What is it that they possibly think? They think what we are doing is wrong?
it probably depends on what country he/ she is from. Then you could infer what you think they would say about 9/11
I'm in a high school production of the musical Damn Yankees, and we open in May. I'm playing Gloria Thorpe, and I'm having trouble getting a concept of my character's role in the story.
Damn Yankees is a classic Faustian piece, set in the 50s-60s. In it, Joe, a huge fan of the Washington Senators, makes a deal with the devil to become a baseball player and help the team win the World Series (and beat the Yankees). However, he tricks the devil into giving him an escape clause, so he can return to his wife. The Devil tries to use one of his seductresses to foil Joe, but ultimately Joe's soul is lost because of the Devils' machinations toward the upstanding, moral reporter, Gloria.
Gloria is a sports writer and baseball fan, and is very hung up about the honor and integrity of the game. She initially likes Joe for his sincerity, but changes her mind when she discovers that he's lying about his background. The devil uses her to spread a rumor that ultimately leads to Joe missing his opportunity to enact the escape clause. The devil used a good woman to bring a good, if stupid, man down.
This bothers me, for a lot of reasons. For one, Gloria loses virtually everything in her pursuit of honor in the game (at the expense of her favorite team)--her reputation, her bond with the Senators, her credibility, and probably a great deal of self-respect. For this, what does she get? The liar going back and helping the team win, unfairly. And in the process, she helped to damn Joe, who was ultimately a good man, even if he made few very stupid mistakes. The only thing she seems to have gotten out of it all is some measure of respect from the Devil himself.
What I'm trying to figure out is, how should I play Gloria, in light of all this? Is there some piece of her that I'm missing in trying to understand how it works? Is there any sin she's committed that I can't seem to see? How should I treat her dealings with the devil? Am I missing or misinterpreting the very theme of the story?
i just saw my highschool production of damn yankees. And gloria always showed her best in front of joe. as he always did for everyone. your attitude should be stern, eligant and sexy . all at once
I reallllllllly like this guy.. and he and I went out before.. and yeah we hooked up in eveyrthing.. but i regret it tootally!!!! and thenw e broke up after about a week :( and then he and I kept talkign and stuff and were realllly tight.. but now we like never talk.. and he acts as if he hates me or something.. but deep inside of ME I really want him back!! is there anything I can do to make him want me again?
if you want him back you should just make yourself improve a little bit a nd dont show him that you are trying. when he sees that you would go out of your way to get him back , then he will think you're totally worth it
Kay... well there is this guy and he and I started talking about 3 weeks ago at a track meet and now we flirt a bunch at the track meets.. he is in some of my classes and like yeah I always catch him looking at me and then he always like brags about how good he is at trfack and how much i suck in a JOKEING way... but Iono if he lieks me or what.. and I am really confused plese HELP!
if u think he lieks u then go for it . Remember life is a journey, not a destination. Liking someone is part of that journey