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i really want a hair crimper sooo is there any specific brand that is better than others? if so, where can i get it? if not, do you know any good store to get them at? thanks. i rate high.

there are a lot of different brands with different effects out there but i have a piece of advice that is very very useful.

step #1. take a shower in the early evening or dampen most of your hair.
#2. let your hair almost completely dry, but not all the way.
#3. make two french braids, tight with hair ties and clips.
#4. gently put a SMALL amount of hair spray on the french braids.
#5. sleep with the braids in.
#6. in the morning, blow dry whatever wetness is left, making the braid completely dry.
#7. take them out and scrunch the crimps with your hands.
#8. spray gently.

and vwah laa, you have perfect curls


trust me, i've done this easy process a million times and it always turns out better than an iron crimper.

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if i wanted to buy something from ebay .. what are some things i would need to know. like whats the difference between 'buy it now' and bidding? also if i 'buy it now' would that mean theres no bidding involved and that if i purchase it then its mine? please include other info please ..ihave no idea

ok, if you bid on something on ebay, you automatically get that item. you also have to pay the exact price they're asking for.

if you want to bid, theres a possibility that you will get that item for a lower price, but then theres a chance that someone else can bid higher than you and get it. you can beat them to it and bid higher then them but be aware that they have the choice to fight back.

i usually 'buy it now' because then there are no later difficulties.

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How come whenever I run, I get a cramp like on my side.. usually on my right side.. I know they're not menstrual cramps, because they feel way different.. but idk, I've had them for a while, and I think it's a common problem among people.. but does ANYBODY know what they're caused by? And how to prevent them? I also get them when I walk alot sometimes.. but especially when I run on bumpy ground, at softball for example. Any input would be greatly appreciated, thanks! Oh websites are great too =] Thanks again! ♥

i agree with the other people who posted a comment about what they are. i have some advice on how you can treat them when you're walking or running (my moms a doctor).

if you get a side stitch clasp both of your hands on your head and try stretching. if it still hurts, you have to get some water or sit down.

hope this helps you out =]

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Being in my twenties, its very fustrating not being able to where shorts in the summer or when ever due to the unpleasant sight of buldging veins, spider veins in my legs. What can i do or take to have these veins disappear. I dont want to have them surgically removed. Any advice??????

ok, my mother is a doctor and she has a laser machine in her office. she also has spider veins from giving birth. i know you dont want them surgically removed, but laser machines completely illiminate vericose veins. the results are amazing too because my mom got it done on herself. trust me, its no more than a pinch she said.

you will not be happy with taking pills and my advice is laser removal because thats the best way to go.

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ok so yesterday i asked a question about what i should do to ask this girl out. anyway, today i got up the courage to ask her, and she just completely shunned me for the rest of the day. i kinda wanted to know what that meant, seeing as i'm a guy that really doesn't get it.


thnx

girls have a very abnormal way dealing with some things. if she didnt answer you at all, maybe she just wants time to think about it because shunning doesnt always mean no. if she doesnt say yes, act cool and say "hey, that's fine, i just thought maybe it would be nice if we got together some time" because if you mope around for the rest of the week, she wont feel guilty (and you probably dont want her to go out with you out of pity).

sometimes when girls avoid guys who asked them out, they dont want you coming up to them again and putting them on the spot if they're not sure yet. i bet she was embarrassed that she made you feel bad when she didnt answer because shes a nice person. she'll come to you when she's ready to talk for real.

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14 5'4 110 pounds

I want to lose about 10 pounds without becoming anorexic or bullemic... any suggestions for healthy ways to lose the 10 pounds?

*what to eat
*excercises
*anything else

ok, my mom is a doctor so you know ... i kind of have to be healthy whether i like it or not.

-orange juice is one of the best ever. it is an extremely good beverage (and tasty too!!). my gramma used to say 'one glass of orange juice everyday will keep you alive forever'. but dont get your hopes up, im just saying =)
-bananas = barely any sugars, one of the healthiest fruits out there also.
-mcdonalds (mostly fries) is now loaded with more TRANSFAT

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Does anyone know a website where I can find a better picture of this hairstyle:http://psc.disney.go.com/disneychannel/originalmovies/highschoolmusical/

scroll down with the black arrowws on the screen until you hit the caption with "Gabriella and Taylor sitting in class"

you can go to google then click images and type in what you're looking for. that place is like a miracle for project pictures and etc. im 100 percent sure you'll find something on that.

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Okey this is the deal, in short my father is really mad at me, lik not teenage-mad but mad as in hasn't-spoken-to-me-in-3-months mad. Won't even look at me. Talk to me or even about me. And don't tell me to communicate with him because in my culture things don't work that way,trust me..you have no idea. Now the thing is, his birthay is coming up..and what do I do? I don't even know if he'll accept a gift from me, and if he does - what do I even give him? And when I give it to him, what do I say? "Happy birthday dad, love you, *hug*, hope you dont feel like killing me anymore" (?) Any advice - PLEASE??
so basically:
question #1) What do I get him?
question #2) How do I act?

By the way, I'm 15 and female. And I have no other family member that I can talk to or that can help me (again, its my culture!) so thank you for advice on how to deal - because I REALLY can not "communicate" so don't suggest that one. And I can't appolgize either. So just "what do I buy?" and "what do I do when I give it to him?"

Thaank you ♥

i deffinitely understand this thing with your dad, and about how you dont want to apologize or communicate. in a way, i dont think you should.

this is a hard question to give advice to but here's what i got in mind:

i think you SHOULD still get him a present. try giving him something small like a framed photograph/symbol/picture/object that will remind him of a good memory between you guys (like an inside joke). afterall, you ARE his daughter.

then if you want, you can write something in a small card like "i hope we can work things out".

it might be hard to give him his gift up front and personal so if i were you, i would leave it somewhere where he can find it. im not sure if wrapping it completely up is a good idea because he could possibly ignore the offer. maybe set it in an opened cardboard box or if you want, keep it out in the open. if he know's that you're really concerned about this on the inside, he might loosen up.



i really hope everything turns out okay.

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Besides crunches .. what are some good Ab workouts? Crunches dont seem to show any results

i agree, crunches take a long time for a good outcome. then again, theres no easy way to get abs. if you get bored of crunches try some of these things i learned from my sports:

sit on the ground when you're watching tv or something and put your legs about 8-10 inches off the ground. spread them apart and with your arms, reach out in front of you. its kind of hard to explain over a message but its a good workout!

this next thing is kind of like crunches but you feel more pain (a good thing, faster results). first you come up as you would doing a normal crunch, but this time bring your knees to your chest and when you unfold, straighten your legs out but keep them off the ground. thats a good workout without using equipment.

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I am a very self concious person and I was wondering if Anyone has tips on how to make a plan outfit look cuter, or more "gangsta lol" Or just better put together and not so plain..?

well i agree with the people who have already posted and their ideas are good.

you can find a lot of great and possibly cheap clothes at the mall. whatever you do, don't bounce from prep to skater to who knows what. some people in my school do that and most look at them as posers. try not to make such a drastic difference in your style until you're comfortable with it.

a personal fashion tip of mine that MANY have followed is wearing cami's. once or twice a week i get 2 diff. colored cami's and put them over-top each other (make sure the bottom color is not RIGHT beneath the first one so people can see it). i like them because they wrap about your bod nicely, without making you look like a slut. then if you want, you can throw on a belt to make it look expensive =]. i hope that advice helps because it has helped a handful of my plain days.

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Okay, my name is Saylor I am thirteen and I'm starting to have boy trouble. Okay I know a bunch of boys that like me and I can have anyone of them that I want I know this because they have all asked me out... except for one that I am really crushing on. Okay here is how it goes... Okay tonight was the big baseball game against Owsley County and Lee County. (two counties that are enemies) Me... being from Owsley. Okay the boy I like plays baseball for Owsley. I was watching the game and my bff Whitley came over there and told me to come in the dugout. Well this boy (Nate) was sittin out cause he sprang his hand. I sat with him the whole time I think he was flirting with me but Im really not sure. He sat with me on the bus on the way home and everything. He was tickling me and laying down against me trying to go to sleep and I really like him. He is way sweet. The question is what can I do to get him to like me more, and how can I find out if he likes me. Thanks... I heard your alot of help... dont let me down.


Well Saylor, if you want him to like you, you have to be yourself. I know everybody hears that a lot but trust me, I learned from experience.

All that flirting and stuff is always a good sign =]. Maybe if you really want to know if he likes you, then have like a friend slowly bring up a conversation about you (DON'T MAKE THEM ASK STRAIGHT OUT IF HE LIKES YOU). Then when they get talking about you're good traits, see what he has to say like "Yeah, she does have great hair" or whatever haha. Then if you got the green light, go talk to him yourself and be like "Hey babe, let's go out?"

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