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E-mail: crazylilbrat@hotmail.com
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Age: 14
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this guy n i are really close n we both like each other, although were not together, and were ready to take the next step. *sex* is what were wanting from each other and im nervous and scared. im nervous because i dont want it to ruin our realtionship and im scared because im a virgin n hes not. what should i do? (link)
well i would wait.. you should tell him to wait till you are ready.. and if he loves you he will understand that.. and do not let him pressure you into doing it


I know a lot of people can relate to this. My first time was wit my "First Love". We broke up like 4-5 months after my first time. I mean now I regret it or whateva but can I actually get my mind back to thinking like he's not really my first because my cherry didn't bust. He didn't put it all the way in. I mean I really dislike him. Is that bad? Can someone help me to get my mind off of it. Please no DUMB, Smart answers, if you have a smart comment then keep it to yourself because I am already hurting in the inside and to come on here and get jugded by ppl I don't know is even more devastating. THank you (link)
well if you dont love him and move on and do some thing to keep you busy you dont think of it


okay i shave my private right! well how do i shave to wear i dont have razor burns or red marks? i rate 5's (link)
you can shave it all and you can use soap and shaving cream both of them work...and dont dry shave


ok well, i'm only 13 right, and i've been thinkin about sex,...alot, i'm still a virgin and everything but it's like a random thought that clouds my mind! it's so weird, and i dont even know what this means or anything,.... (link)
you going through a stage that teens go through. like getting horny and like to think about sex


I have a ten-year old sister and she has a bf. One day i caught them making out. I didn't make much of it. When I came back she was sucking his penis. I don't want my sister to be a sex addict but how do i confront her about this? (link)
tell her not to be pressured by her bf's actions and tell wat to do that makes her feel right


when i get my period there are dark red goey blobs in my pad is that normal?

ill rate (link)
yea its like blood like glogged together but is normal


how do you know for sure you are ready to have sex? (link)
well wen you love your partner and you are ready to have sex and you need to think about cuase their are consequences if you aint using protection like a condom well i hope i helped


Ok so I recently got prescribed the patch, and I was wondering... Is it necessary for my partner to pull out before ejaculation?

I'm not sure how/if I need to elaborate on this... I'll just add to it if the question isn't clear.

Thanks,

x (link)
well i would let him pull out before he ejaculats and wear a condom to be safe


I need some 1 2 help me out on this one when ever im with my girlfriend and i hold her hand i get a boner how can i cantrol that cause its really embarassing and i need help fast plz (link)
just relaxe and try to control it


how can you tell if a guy is interested in you for more than sex? And what are signs that a guy really cares about you? (link)
well one thing is that that they respect you and dont pressure you to do something that they want you to do . and they always think of you and dont cheat and they say they love you and flirting with you


Ok, the homecoming dance is coming up next saturday and for my friend, it's her first dance since 8th grade. She's afraid she can't dance and asked another friend and i to help her 'learn how to dance'. Well, it's more like I'm bringing music and my other friend is teaching her. My friend and i are planning to burn a CD with songs that a high school dance might play [not slow dance songs though] and i was wondering if anyone could give me any suggestions on what 'fast' songs their school dances play. :) If you could tell me what state your school is in too, that will be great ^__^ thanks! Really helpful songs get automatic 5's. (link)
ok here are some... d4l-laffy taffy .. fat joe- lean back..ludacris, lil kim and trick daddy- sugar.. trick daddy- take it to the house.. a 6 mafia..i gotta stay flyy..thats all i can think of well i hope i helped


I was wondering if any of you knew where a good website is to load music from CD's onto to make a URL so I can put it as background music for xanga or myspace.

PLZNTHANKS.

I'll rate. (link)
well i go to like napstar and yahoo music and msn music but you have to bye the songs on msn music and its a dollar a song


Hey everyone im starting to get into country.. and i really like anything by keith urban.. im not sure what other country songs to download, i dont want any really hardcore haha country stuff but simmilar to keith urban so if you guys could give me some songs thatd be great! (link)
well im sorry i only no one and that is days go bye


Okay, so my boyfriend and I were hanging out tonight and he kept tryin to like get into my pants, i don't mind because we've been doin that a few times and it doesn't bother me..but now i have my period and i don't want him doing that right now..what should i say to him to get him stop with out him being offended. i dont want him to think i don't want him to do anything any more..thanks (link)
well i would tell him nicely and say i cant let you right now cuase im on my period right now and if he loves you he wil understand


When my boyfriend and I start to get intimate and he starts rubbing me, would it be so wrong if I took his hand and well, guided him to where he should be rubbing? Or would that offend him? (link)
no it want cuase men like to be giuded atleas mine does .


i had a question. besides the risk of stds and pregnancy why are adults so against teen sex? like parents make a huge deal out of it and i dont see why if you use male/ female condoms and are on birth control. i mean there is always still of risk of those things but they arent the end of the world. (link)
well thier probley maing sure that you don't get pregnant and so you can be care ful with std's and not get pregnant cause you probley dont wanna spend the rest of your life taking care if a baby


Okay, last night I was with my boyfriend and he was fingering me..butbefore he fingered me he had handeled his dick and idk if there was cum on it or not..but when i felt it there wasn't really any there.. is there a possibility that i could be pregant? (link)
well i think you cant cuase did he jack off and did you watch him


Well iv been with this girl 4 2 years and she says she wants to wait till she gets married to have sex,but i cant wait that long i think i waited long enough what the fuck do i do (link)
well wait or find another girl cause wen you gotta fuck you gotta fuck(lol)


can you have sex during your period? (link)
yea but it is nast cause blood will be every were and if you wanna no its called red wingen


can you get pregnant if a guy is wearing a condum and pulls out before he cums? (link)
no olny if the condum tares or rips




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