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Thank you for taking the time to look over this, I was wondering I'm not a person who is a member of the church but I do believe there is something waitin for us on the other side, but I want to know, awhile back I attempted killing myself , because I did this did it send me to hell once I die?

not necessarily.
If you had actually done it, then yeah you would be, because they is no way to ask for forgiveness, but now that you didn't do it, if you truly ask for forgiveness and God looks at your heart and see that you mean it, then yeah he will forgive.

once he forgives you, he forgets about it and you should too. Live your live happily and follow in his footsteps and you will be fine

Hope i Helped

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So me and my bf are insane about eachother and we've been this way for a bit i guess... anyways, we always hook up behind the stage at our school and we make out only, because i myself have a purity necklace.. well i always wanted to get felt up idk why i just never saw it as bad because dr's touch boobs, i touch my own boobs, my friends joke around and grab my boobs, how would it be any different if my boyfriend did? anyways, as we were making out today he slid his hand up my shirt and under my bra, and he kept squeezing them. it felt amazing, but like, i feel soooo guilty. he's a senior in highschool and i am a sophomore. we get along great and he's like my best guy friend too not just a bf, so i can tell him anything, ya know? So, yeah i never thought i'd feel this guilty. Do you think getting felt up is a sin if it's the only limit i have until i'm married?? anyways.... one time when i was on the phone with him i told him if i was ready and we were dating for a long time, i'd do everything else EXCEPT sex... and now i really take back telling him that......... after being this guilty from just being felt i'd never want to do more-ever.. so yeahhhh, i think i'm gonna telll him. anyways, is being felt up against my purity necklace? i blessed it myself and when i put it on i made sure i promised that it'd only protect me from having SEX til i'm married. nothing else..... just sex..... i made sure with God that we were clear. if youw ere me, what would you do? is being felt up a sin? is everything but making out against my purity necklace? How am i supposed to feel? someone helpp me ): btw, i'm 15 years old, gonna be 16 this may. Easy five points

I am fifteen too and I am going to be sixteen this may as well...
But yeah it is a sin, you made a promise to God not to have sex until marriage and i guess you found a loophole.
You body is the holy spirits temple and you are suppose to protect it no matter what..so protect it.

hope i helped

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If I have sex before marriage, even if it's with the man I love and no I will marry and spend the rest of my life with.. where would that leave me with god?
Hell?

no it wouldn't lead you to Hell like that, it would be a sin though and would God might turn his back for a second or so..but i wouldn't advice you to do that unless you are married and if you truly fear God

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I want to commit suicide. I want someone to help me do this. Please let me do it.

I can't let you do it..DO you truly want to harm those who care about you, you may think they don't care..but they do...You don't even know me, but i know that is you commit suicide there is going to be a sadness somewhere in my heart because another child of God died for nothing when he could have come to him and allowed him to help

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I am 42 and i want to commit suicide. Im down and at rock bottom. Advise me how i can do this

Wow it seems that the devil has truly gotten into your head.
My advice is don't commit suicide, God put you on this earth and he is the only one that can take you off it. If you are at rock bottom turn to him because that is what he wants..he wants to know that you are capable of coming to him in your time of need. He won't let you down, all you have to do is ask and Pray and read your bible..Ge closer to him and tell the devil "you are a liar" "I belong to God and no one else"

write me if you want advice or have anymore questions

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I work at a fast food place called Captain D's. The females work up front, and the males work in the back. Im 17/F. Ive been working there for about a month now, and I've known my head manager since I was 14, which is how I kind of got the job.

I was talking to my manager tonight, and I told her I felt as if some of the employees didn't like me, and she said that, "If anyone, and Im sure I know who specifically, acts funny to you, its probably because she feels threatened by you."

WHAT DOES THAT MEAN?

it means that that you intimidate that person and basically that they are jealous of you. you probably do outstanding work and they fill like they are in the shadow.

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I'm shaky and feeling sick. I've been a little perv and I watched porn. A year ago I used to watch a lot of it. I went on a site and had cyber sex a few times.
I feel like a worthless skank and I take back everything I did.
What I did was ridiculously wrong. I'm 14!!
The question is, are my parents going to find out about my mistakes? I erased the history on everything I've ever done on the computer, but is that enough? What else can I do to erase it? I want these awful teenage mistakes behind me so I can move on and never do anything like this again.
Please be honest, but don't be too harsh. I'm already being terribly hard on myself for getting into porn. I'm not a bad person, I'm just being a curious teenager. But I think I got too curious, and I watched a lot.
Trust me, I won't be doing anything like this ever again. I can see how wrong and gross it is.
I'm making myself sick. Please help settle my nerves so I can move on from my terrible mistake!!!!!!!!! I beg you!!!!!

wow..just ask for forgiveness from God and move on and never look back...but if this turns to a big problem, then tell your parents...

Okay...and visit allaboutgospel.wordpress.com if yout need more help..

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i am so use to sleeping when im high (off marijuana)
i usually smoke then watch my tv shows then fall asleep mid show.
i love it and look foward to it every night.

a) is that bad to begin with? is it bad that i love to smoke before i sleep

and im away for the weekend and just finished my stash and have no way of getting more.
i have to fall asleep sober and besides the fact that its scary for me, its als really hard.
i just keep watching tv and idk its just so different.

what u think?
do i have a problem? how do i sleep without weed! id it even bad that i liek to sleep with weed?

yes it is bad....it does turn into a habit and affect you health a lot..

I know it is not easy to quit, but ask your family or friends to help you because you can't do this on your own..

hope that helped

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I haven't been drinking enough water lately and I feel like I'm really dehydrated and my skin feels dry even. I was wondering if there was anything I could drink or do that would get me hydrated fast? When I asked my mom she looked at me like I was crazy so maybe water is the only thing but I wanted to ask you guys first. Thankyou

Water is the only thing that can truly hydrate you..other things like soda or drinks just add calories to you..but water not only washes your inside, but it also give you your energy back..

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When I drink cold things like take a big gulp or drink of cold water my head feels really weird. Like I just took a big drink of cold lemonade and I got a weird feeling in my head. It's kind of like when I drink a milkshake too fast too. Why does my head hurt when I do that? Should I see a doctor about it? It's only with cold drinks.

it is a brain freeze.. slow down when you drink and you should be fine.. when you drink especially cold things, it is important to slow down because your body needs time to handle it and when it comes in to much it affects you brain..

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any good anmie recommedtions? ive watched in order from favorite to least fav Jigoku shoujo higurashi no naku koro ni elfen lied the melacholy of haurhi suzumiya lucky star and amaendiyo. any good animes that seem right for me?

fruit basket
sand chronicles
ashitzura baby
vampire knights
and more..

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I'm looking for a motivation football slogan to paint on a sign to hang in our football team's locker room! Our mascot is the Bulldogs and our colors are Purple and Gold! Got any idea? Thanks!

"stronger than cows, we aim to be the best"

"Bulldogs always play like hard gold"

This is kin doff hard..haha

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ok so i am f/17 and i want to become closer to God i mean ive been baptizted before bt i really want to become closer to the lord i guess i just got baptized because i felt i had to at the moment i was close to the lord before i got baptized though.bt after that everything went down hill =[ i just want to be closer to the lord because he is my confort bt im scared to talk to him for some odd reason
soo how can i become closer to the lord like i was before?
what can i do ?
and will god be angry at me because ive changed?

First off, God is not fake
Second off, it is not a mind thing..so don't even bother
Third off..God would not be angry with you because you have changed..He looks at the heart and see your desire.
HE is probably waiting for you to come and talk to him, but you are scared. HE has a plan for everyone and he wants you to come closer to him.
What you need to do is pray continuously and read your bible. the Devil would try to attack you, but be strong in the lord and keep him close.

P.S...I got baptized too early too..but you know what, i changed my ways and got closer to him..and you can too

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Is there anything that the principle can actually DO if I report racism? I don't want to waste my time tlaking to the principle (who I don't even like) and tell him about one of my biggest issues if there's no way he can do anything ot help.

definitely should talk to him..it is his job to make sure the students are protected when in school..that includes physically or emotionally

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My BFF is dating this boy for the past 2 or like 3 weeks. We're both 14 but she's ALMOST 15. She told me today that the boy that is her boyfriend is in 7th grade. I'm think she's robbing the cradle, as they say, but who knows. She said he's so mature for a seventh grader. IDK. How old are 7th graders usually? I can't remember how old I was then for sure LOL

7th grader's are usually 12-14..some are even 11 if they are really smart...

If it bothers you...talk to her..talking always helps instead of avoiding the situation

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im 17 male and i broke up with my girlfriend she kept pushing me to have sex she talked about it a lot and im sort of felt pressured it might sound weird but i have beliefs and i really dont want to have sex until im married she thinks im a prude we had an argument so i ended it i want it to be with the right girl and wait until im married i feel sad about ending it but i think i made the right decision what do you think?

Yeah you did make the right decisions. Usually the guy pressures the girl and the fact that she pressured you and you didn't give in makes you a real gentleman. you will find the right Girl one day and then and only then can you have sex..

Good Job!

bye

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I am a 23 year old female and I was raised Christian in a very religious family. As I grew up and started to form my own opinion I decided to not refer to myself as a Christian. I have not been to church since I turned 18 and moved out. I believe in God 100% but I do not believe in Christianity. I feel as if apart of me doesn't believe in religion. I'm trying to decide if maybe I just haven't been exposed to the right religion. Or maybe I shouldn't classify myself as one religion. Maybe I should just love God, live right, and treat people good and not study one religion. What should I do?

HI, I respect your decision,

But how can you say you Believe 100% and then ignore his religion, which is Christianity. His son was Christian and HE is too. You said you were raised in a very religious family right? then you should be a Christian. Not going to church is one of the way you start doubting your religion, whereas if you went, then you would be 100% sure of what you should be. Love God, live right, and treat people good is one part of being a Christian. but going to church is the other part because it's where there truly teach you on how to be closer to God and being a true Christian.

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im 16 male im a virgin and my family is christian and have strong beliefs and i believe in not having sex before marriage i havent had a girlfriend im waiting finding the right girl to come along and get amrried but some my guy friends talk about having sex and i try not to listen to it too much but sometimes i get urges i get horny sometimes i dont like having these feelings because of my belief in waiting for marriage i do feel a bit weird about this i know there natural urges so how do i stop having these sort of feelings?

everyone gets tempted once in a while...but you have to think at the big picture, do You really want to lose your virginity to a girl and then end up losing the girl? Do you want to sin? temptation is one of the biggest weakness for humans, and that is why the Devil uses it a lot against us... If you are a Christian, you have to try and think of different things...remind yourself that something bigger is waiting for you.... keep your virginity.. You can have a girlfriend, but a date is all it is..don't go too deep, like sex and stuff...but you will find the right girl one day..

I hope i helped..

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what does it mean when you have pains in your stomach and you poop has blood in it?

maybe you have digestion problems or maybe you have diarrhea or something like that

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I worry all the time. About everything. For a period of time, I went without sleep because i worried about
all these bad things happening. What should I do? How can I stop worryig all the time?

What exactly are you scared off?

you shouldn't be scared of anything....Prayer..constantly walk with God...they fact that you worry about everything, would eventually turn in paranoia..

You have to remind yourself that they is nothing to worry about, that they is someone walking with you and that you are safe

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