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I Am A 17 Year Old Senior At Beach Channel High School!!!! I'm Back After 3 Years Gone.
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i want to know how old i will be when i die. i dont want to die at a young age. here lately i have been so worried about it. can you help me out? (link)
I agree with MaxwellsSilverHammer (sorry if I spelled it wrong) there is NO way of knowing when you will die. No one wants to die at a young age but it happens. Imagine the little babies, not getting a month, not even a DAY to live because they had problems with their organs, premature, or died of SIDS!?!?! If you are so scared of dying at a young age, keep yourself healthy and happy, you will live longer.


It seems like every one is starting to dislike me. One minute people want to talk next minute they want fight but to be honest stuff like DONT BOTHER ME? My question what should I do if a boy once said he loved me but now walking around school with another person. Should i curse her out or should i just leave both of them alone. (link)
What you should do is curse HIM out! It isn't her fault that he lied to you. After you cuss him out, THEN LEAVE THEM ALONE because there's nothing you can do . . .


what kinds of foods would make my butt bigger ? (link)
Any food with CARBS. But that could go to your OTHER BODY PARTS so exercise. Do lunges and squats with weights.


how long after you're pregnant until you become noticable bigger?
and also, if you buy a pregnancy test, can that test only be used once? (link)
I would say about 3-5 months (that's when everyone noticed my aunt's late baby) and you can only use a pregnancy test once. It depends if you are big or skinny...


ok so the holidays are coming up and i need an idea on what to get my very best friend in the whole wide world ! help? by the way you probably know me i go to your school (link)
What does this girl like?

-makeup kit
- I-pod
- clothes
- cds or dvds
- new nail polish
- gift card to BEST BUY, CIRCUIT CITY OR OTHER ELECTRONIC STORES
- stuffed animals
-new cell phone
Something from your heart, something that money cannot buy, something that shows, you really care. A HOMEMADE CARD AND SCRAPBOOK WITH PICTURES AND EVENTS THAT YOU BOTH HAD TOGETHER
- new sneakers
- gift certificate for a free hair cut, clothes, a lovely dinner
- an hour or so at a spa
- VIDEO GAMES!!!!!!! I'm a girl but I really love video games
- spongebob t-shirt
- a t-shirt that says I LOVE YOU, *HER NAME* OR YOU ARE MY BEST FRIEND *HER NAME* (PERSONILIZED T-SHIRTS) (SP?)
-MONEY!!!!!!


me and my boyfriend are trying to get pregnant. he problem is, he did drugs like marijuana, ecstacy, cocaine, and even crystal meth once. that and he smokes cigarettes (as do i). im pretty sure this has a lot to do with why its so difficult for him to get me pregnant, but does anyone know what the odds are that he's going to get me pregnant? and is there anything we can do to make it more likely? also, when is the most fertile time for a girl to get pregnant? (link)
When you ovulate, that's most fertile time to get pregnant. Depending on how long he has been doing those drugs, that can make it more difficult for him to stay hard. I'm sorry, I don't know the odds of him getting you pregnantm but I know that it isn't high.



am 25 yr old guy, virgin....off late feel like have sex...but masturbate at least thrice a week...would that cause problems in future? i have been doing this for quite a few yrs now. (link)
YES IT CAN!!! if you masturbate in the FACE DOWN POSITION or thrust on cushions and pillows. it can cause you to have PE and another thing but i forgot what it is. as long as you use your HANDS and DONT masturbate (facing downward) then your fine. 2 times a week isnt bad :)



this a serious question, might be weird....jus wanna know if there is any kinda of penis diet...i mean to say...is there any diet which helps it to keep healthy coz i havent had sex? will rate high..help me (link)
i heard that if you eat RAW EGGS,it boosts your stamina and makes you last longer while having sex. KEEPING IT HEALTHY IS MAKING SURE ITS CLEAN AND WELL TAKEN CARE OF (LOL) OTHER THAN THAT, NO PENIS DIET


i just turned 21. i would like to get pregnant with my bf of 2 years but b4 i do so i need some advice into easier ways to get pregnant faster. is there a time in which we could try wich would make it easier? is there any hints into what we should do for example i heard if you both have an orgasm at the same time would that make it easier to concieve? Well please help i rate 5s for people with lots of advice! (link)
find out when you OVULATE. the time when you ovulate is the best time to have sex so you can get pregnant. other than that, just have sex with your BF without a condom. (having an orgasm at the same time WONT make it easier to concieve).


how do tea bags help get rid of under-eye circles? (link)
The ingredents in the tea bag gets rid of the under eye circles. Here's a website for it http://forums.ultimate-cosmetics.com there are homemade remedies for skin, hair and body problems! I love this site!!


i like this guy and he likes me back and i dont know what to do
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*you are the first one to post in my in-box* FEELING SO SPECIAL lol.

You both like each other! What most people want but cannot have. Are you going to wait for him to step up and ask you out or are you going to ask him out? If you are going to ask him out then just go up to him and ask him WANA GO TO THE MOVIES WITH ME ON SATURDAY? And if he doesn't have plans, he should say YES. If he's more of a SHY person, then invite a friend so he doesn't feel so shy. IF YOU NEED MORE ADVICE, POST SOME MORE!!!

If you don't know him that well, then just say that it isn't a date, but a way for both of you to get to know each other.


Okay my friends I have 2 friends and they are mexican and soooo today I told one of the mexicans that my other friend smokes witch she dose and so then my other friend says SO DO I and i am like holy sh*t and I am only in 8th grade should I still be there friend? See I love them and I am WORRIED theat they are going to die my 1st friend said she had 5 and then my 2nd friends said she had 17 or 18 should I be there friend??????? (link)
Yes you should still be friends with them. Just convince them to stop smoking by teling them

THAT THEY WILL GET LUNG CANCER

THEIR LUNGS WILL TURN BLACK

EMPYMICIA (LUNG DISEASE) (SP?)

YOUR LIPS WILL TURN BLACK

LIP CANCER

GUM CANCER

TEETH WILL ROT AND FALL OUT

BREATH WILL SMELL

HAIR AND NAILS WILL LOOK AND SMELL BAD

CANCER CANCER CANCER

And, they will lose YOU as a friend.


My boyfriend had some acne problems at the beginning of the year, like most 16 year old guys do, but then he started to take some medicine for it. It's starting to look 100% better already! Is it wrong for me to comment that it's looking better? would it offend him? (link)
I don't think it would offend him because he was obviously embarrassed about his skin, thats why he got some medicine for it and now his face looks good!! So saying HEY HUNNY, YOUR SKIN LOOKS BETTER THAN MINE (LOL J/P) OR YOUR SKIN IS SO BEAUTIFUL and then giving him a kiss, I don't think it would make him feel bad. BUT GOOD :o)


Does anyone know where I can buy scarves? Rate 5's. (link)
Old navy, I think baby phat... You can get scarves wherever coats are sold. Any clothing store in the winter-time


do you think im a nerd b/c im on the middle school orchestra? be honest...i wont get mad if you say yes...im just curious (link)
I am a 14 year old freshman and I want be in my school's band. There's nothing wrong with that. I don't consider you to be a nerd. MUSICIANS GET PAID THOUSANDS OF DOLLARS TO PLAY AN INSTRUMENT SO IF THAT MAKES THEM NERDS THEN SO BE IT. I would *love* to be one. I'M OFF THE SUBJECT!! No, it doesn't make you a nerd. If anyone calls you a nerd because you are in the orchestra, they are just mad because they cannot play an instrument. Its hard!!


Yesterday i killed the person i loved. And i dont know what to do... SHould i go to the police, should i run, should i kill myself? SOMEONE PLEASE HELP ME (link)
If you are serious, I think you should turn yourself in. If you don't, you WILL be caught and arrested. Save the police a few dollars and turn yourself in. If you kill yourself, that's two people gone. I don't think you should kill yourself, just turn yourself in.


Has anyone ever had sex with a blind girl?? Can you describe it as in depth as you feel comfortable depicting your encounter? (link)
ImAHustla, you are ignorant. Why wouldnt she know where you are if you are on top of her or penetrating her? You have 5 senses, when one is not in use, the other 4 are more powerful!!!! She can smell the smells of love-making, she can taste your juices, she can feel you penetrating her, the friction, the pleasure. She can hear your moans and groans of pleasure. WHAT THE HELL. I THINK A BLIND GIRL WOULD LOVE TO HAVE SEX. MORE PLEASURE FOR HER AND YOU. I have blind and deaf people in my family. I KNOW THIS


There is this boy I have been going with for two months and his mom found a new house and is moving. When they move he will be tranferring to a new school. They keep setting these dates of when it's going to happen. Every time that date comes they don't move. When I found out he was moving I cried for two whole days. I really love him and don't want him to leave. Then he asked me if he actually does leave will we still be together. I really need some advice on if I should stay with him. (link)
If you love him (which from what I know, you really do love him) then the answer is yes, you should still stay with him. There is nothing wrong with a long-distance-relationship. As long as there is trust in your relationship, you shouldn't worry about it. When he moves, you can still talk to him on the phone and computer (if he has one) . I don't think that you should leave him just because he's moving!! Stay with him. This test will make your relationship stronger!


I'm going to participate in a Speak Out program at my school, where I have to give a speech. We have to pick a topic - any - of our choice to talk about, three minutes or so tops. Well I need to give in a topic by tomorrow or after tomorrow maximum, and so far my teacher has advised me to talk about something I know from personal experience. So far, I could only think of depression: why do kids fall in to it, and how can it be stopped, the abuse of drugs, and thats it, but thats not personal experience. I was depressed for around a year, but I was in seventh grade and its unpleasnt to think of it. im a sophmore now, but ANYWAY, does anyone have any ideas for important topics, something that would get me picked? regardless of personal experience and such. This is really urgent and I really appreiciate good, well thought out answers.

Thank you. I'm fifteen and a sophomore, by the way, for those who didnt catch that the first time. (link)
YOU ARE WELCOME. And ANYTIME!! THIS IS WHAT I LOVE TO DO. Number 1 2 and 3 is something from my life :( my mother is dead now but she was a drug user. My father was a dead-beat. And I had to live with my grandmother until she got sick. I got awards for writing about my life. I love talking to others about this. Like an avocator (sp) lol


Being children of drug users, mother selling child for drugs.

Children living with their grandparent because their parents are either drug users or dead-beats

Grand-parents busting their ASSES taking care of other people's children.

Children having sex and getting pregnant in their teen years

Kids eating theirselves to sleep because of problems at school

Cutting, how kids fall into it

Peer pressure, how it influences our generation

School uniforms, the reasons for it

How celebrites influence the young generation to do things.

How rappers are fake and influence kids to do drugs

How the media convinces young girls to come to school dressed as brittany spears LOL

Bullies and how they influence the good kids to do bad things

Rape, murder.

I HAVE MORE IF YOU WOULD LIKE TO KNOW. Just go to my advice column


If you dont like hearing about sexual things i suggest you stop reading at this point :-)

I asked a question about the pill (birth control) and found out it was 99.9% effective. Does that mean the guy could cum inside the girl and even then there would only be a .1% chance? or is the 99.9% chance with using a condom and pulling out? (link)
PULLING OUT WON'T DO ANYTHING BECAUSE OF PRE-CUM. PRE-CUM HAS SEMEN IN IT AND IT CAN GET A GIRL PREGNANT. The bad thing about it is that a guy can't even feel it!! Even with birth control and condoms, there isn't a 100% chance that you won't get pregnant. Condoms are faulty but they are better than nothing. CONDOMS AND BIRTH-CONTROL, great protection!!




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