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My name is christine and whoever wants to write to me please don't hesitate. I really appreciate you trusting me with your problems. I hope everything works out. I will try my best to not let you down. Let me know if you have any other problems or if I helped cause that's what im here for. xoxoxo princessita!!!!!!!
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Hi.

14/m

I've been going out with this girl. Its been almost a week. We've each gone out before but it was like 4th grade with other people and it wasnt "real". Now we're 14, its the real deal lol.
So weve talked alot and hung out alot (not sure whether to consider them dates or not) and I'm wondering, should I kiss her on the cheek in the near future? I HAVE HUGGED HER BEFORE.

Any advice on cheek kissing/making out is very appreciated.

Thank you. (link)
kiss time is whenever you feel it's time. You have to really want to do it cause if you feel pressured or something then don't do it. You do it when you and her are ready.Follow your heart and your feelings for her and just relax and trust yourself. Do what feels right to you. GOOD LUCK!!!! let me know how it goes and if i helped. Hope I did.
xoxoxoxo
princessita


ok, so i was born with curly hair and i get my hair relaxed. i wash my hair 2 times a week because i have to use a blow dryer first, and then a flat iron. i wanna wash my hair more often but i dont wanna have to use heat all the time. But if i dont use hear, than my hair will frizz out (badly. more than you know its not even funny)

so what i wanted to know is do you know any cream that i can just put in my hair after i wash and condition so my hair is scrunched or wavy but not frizzy?
and do you also know anything that protects hair from humidity? because thats a BIG one for me. thanks (link)
You can ask a pharamasist cause i know that there is a cream for frizzy and humid hair I just don't remember what it's called. There's also a special oil that you put on your hair before blow drying it and it protects against heat. Hope that helped!!!Let me know
xoxoxoxo
princessita


please help, my cat hit my keets cage over then killed one of them then he attacked my other, he has a gash and we cant afford the vet but should we get some money for him or is there somthing we can do???
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I really don't know if there's anything you can do cause that can be very dangerous.I had a bunny and my cat bit him and he died a few hours later so I think it's better if you take him to the doctor. I hope everything turns out okay. Please let me know and im sorry about your keets. :-(
xoxoxoxo
princessita


ok so me and my ex boyfriend, we had been split up for just about 3 weeks. And we still had somewhat of a friendship. Well i stay after for cheerleadin conditioning, and he stays after for basketball conditioning. So when we were all just about to leave. Somebody comes up to me and tells me, supposedly he has this "picture" (naked picture) claiming
its me. So at first i just brush it off. Cause i know its not true. My thing is, you wanna see me with my clothes off, you gunna see it in person, i dont send pictures like that. So i immediatly knew it was a rumor, and i wasnt worried about it. But just about six more people come up to me and tell me that he is saying this girl is me. So this is when i became pissed off. You trynna play me?
and we had been dating for four years on and off, and im thinking you gunna do me like this? So i went home.and i approached him at school the next day. He got mad, and went off. So i yelled right back him. He claims he never said any of it. But i can never beleive him, he never tells me the truth about ANYTHING, so when its him against six other people, who am i gunna beleive? not him, right? so he thinks i was wrong, for coming at him the way i did. I think i had every right to do that. When people are coming up to me, saying your starting shit, of corse imma be mad, and of corse imma confront you about it. How do you feel about it? Was i wrong? (link)
Of course you were'nt wrong. I mean who wouln't be mad if people were saying that your ex is saying that he has a naked picture of you. I think everybody would. You know maybe he got a picture of you and then he could of changed on the internet and put a body of somebody naked. Or he could just be saying that cause he's mad that you guys broke up. Talk to him. Hope i helped. Let me know please!!!!!
xoxoxox
princessita


hi can you suggest other themes besides the theatre theme for my 18th birhtday? pls pls? (link)
You could do like a costume party. Not like for little kids but like a ball with just masks or something. You could even do a paris theme. Also like a red carpet theme. Those are just some suggestions. I hope they helped. Please let me know if you need anymore.
xoxoxox
princessita


i haven't eaten in 3 weeks...what should i eat? (link)
That is really dangerous. You should never do that. Yuo could get anorexic or something. If you don't want to get fat than eat vegetables,soups,salads,and fruits. If you want to you can take a walk after you finish eating or something. Please never stop eating like that. Hope i helped. Let me know how your doing
xoxoxoxo
princessita


do you have any bday ideas that can pump up my party? im planning to have a band and a host. what else? can u suggest themes and besides the boring 18 Roses and Candles, are there any other cute names to call the group?

i want it to be UNIQUE. how about the tokens?
can u suggest unique tokens that they can bring home after the party? and also how about party games for adults?

pls. pls. help! (link)
I think you should have a theme. If your already graduated you could do like a prom sort or theme. Or you could do like a theater theme.Yuo can give out invitatins in form or movie tickets and then at the party you could dress up like a theatre person and recieve the tickets. I hope it works out and that it wasn't so lame. Let me know if you decided to chose one!!!!!!!!
xoxoxoxo
princessita


ok i have a little problem, well at least my friends think so im obsessed with balls big little and of all colors there just so bouncy and squishy and hard at the same time there so bueatiful. You can probably guess why i like them. should i give up my favorite hobby or should i stay my bally self? (link)
It doesn't matter if your obsessed with something. That's the point of having a collection cause you like stuff. I think you should stick to what you love.I personally think it's cool.
xoxoxoxo
princessita :-)


im very good about keeping my room clean, except when i have friends over. we make a big mess and i know im suppose to clean up whatever im done with, but i dont want to when friends are over.

i dont mind cleaning it myself, but i was just wondering if anyone had any ideas on making cleaning my room more fun. or go faster.

i usually listen to music or something. and i get done after a few songs. and i sometimes watch t.v. and on commercials clean as much as i can.

so, if you have any more ideas, let me know please!

and sorry for such a dumb question. (link)
no question is dumd. it's actually dumb not to ask a question or advice cause that's what we're here for. You could probably time yourself and see how fast you can get it done. sorry for such a dumd answer but I usually listen to music or watch tv. also while cleaning my room. Please let me know how it works out.
xoxoxoxo
princessita


Dear Prunella;

this might be random, but...

do you think it would be bad to wash my ficus?? i am a germaphobe, and i want my ficus to be as healthy as me, but i don't know if like clorox or whatever will hurt it. should i chance it??

Love, Candace (link)
You should never ever expierment like that. don't try it. it is very dangerous. You can get a serious infection. Leave a comment to let me know if I helped


so, my sister is about to have a baby, and she cant think of ANYTHING to name the baby if its a girl! she already has two boy names picked out, Chandler Brady, and Noah Luke( so cute!:]). so, could anyone suggest any names that they like for a girl? anything will do. thanks so much! (link)
You could probably look up baby names in the internet at babynames.com or here are a few suggestions.
cloe
chelsea
lexi
angelica
angel
christine
milagros(thats miracle in spanish)
Let me know if she liked one


I am wondering how to tell the guests invited to my shower not bring their children. I am having it at a very nice tea room that is not child proof. There are no acomodations for young children either. What should I say and where should I say it? (link)
I think you should say that it's gonna be very boring for the children and that they would get tired or something. write back. GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!!


Here is a txt conversation tween me and my crush... just to warn you... we kinda hate each other... but i love him.

Me: Hi hoe, Hi hoe, it's off to work you go

Him: You are the beaver Bitch

Me: That made no since hoe

Him: You are the hoe beaver Bitch

Me: You're a white whale, BALOOGA

Him: What kind of comeback is that?

Me: Your kind of comeback. Your legs are open and you're loose.

Him: Do you know what that means?

Me: Yes I no what both of them means. You are loose in the ass hole.

Him: No you don't know what that means cuz if you did you would not have said that

Me: Ya I do I no you dont have a vagina but you are gay so you are loose in the butt

Him: You have a penis and you are a man hoe

Me: You know what?

Him: What, did you fart?

Me: No you did but that's not the point. And tell Blake he stinks

Him: You're rigt. I did fart.

Me: Did you fart on Blake?

He didn't say anything after that. I know that it seems like we hate each other, but we txt each other that stuff all the time. So do you think there's hope, or should I just let go? (link)
I really think that is not okay cause think about it someday you could say something that could hurt his feeling or he could hurt yours. I know your just playing but trust me that leads to no good. It's really your decision. Hope you make the right one. Let me know how it turns out!!!!!!!!!! :-)


I've had a parakeet for a couple years and right now he's not doing to well. A couple days ago I noticed he's having a hard time flying to his pirch in his cage and now he just lays at the bottom of the cage. I went out to get him bird vitamins and put them in his food and water ich he hass been eating and drinking. I really can't afford to take him to the vet, I just had to take my two dogs there and paid an arm and a leg. And I don't want to take him there to pay four hundred dollars and have them say they can't do anything for me. Does anyone know what i should do or what a vet would do? A answer from past experience would be most appreciated instead of an " I think they'd do this" answer. If your a vet it would be very helpful if you could give me a fe tips.

much appreciated

:) (link)
i think he/she probably feels lonely. Have you thought about getting him a partner? Maybe you could search the internet on parakeet sickness or you could even call petco customer service and ask them about it. Hope i helped. Let me know how he/she is doing!!!!!xoxoxo


so i just got a cell phone. my mom said she got me unlimited texting. is unlimited texting to everyone? or just at&t customers?
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well I think it's for the people that buy it. It can be any company. I hope I helped!!!!!!!!!!


so i have this friend, and i like him, and we talk so much.
But ya know he is popular and alot of girls like him! I get a little mad and annoyed when he talks to them, like when they call him and stuff. And i do tell him . One time this girl who was like in love with him , and now is again always called him. BUT SHE IS SO FAKE! and he liked her but never admitted it to me..
It bugs me alot how they do this! But i dont want to be controlling.
Im not sure if im jelous or what, but whats going on here?

xoxo Jessicaa[F, 14] (link)
Of course your jelous. Maybe you have feelings for him. Why don't you tell him how you feel. Let me know how it turns out. Maybe he likes you to but since you don't show any feelings of more than a friend he doesn't approach you so go with the flow and do what feels right to you. Good Luck


so, im growing my hair out right now, and my hair right now, is short, kinda a little below my shoulders, and i have thin layers, and whenevver its windy, the wind makes them kinda curl a little bit. i naturally have thick hair. i dont know if you would say its really really thick, but, its pretty thick, and if i grow it out, and then just put alot of long layers in it, will it still curl in the wind, and if i put it up in a pony tail, will the wind not let it curl? and i was thinking, wouldnt hairspray help them not curl? i straighten my hair every day. i love it being straight, and im definatelly going to keep it long and with alot of long, pretty layers. i just really want them to stay straight. I NEED TIPS! thanks so much!! (link)
If you put it up in a ponytail it helps. Thats pretty much all you can do until it grows out.


I'm 5'7", 135 lbs, and have way too much muscle on my thighs. When I wear dresses, I don't look cute anymore because my thighs and hips seem to look pretty fat. How do I decrease or lengthen the amount of muscle in my thighs? And is there any way to downsize my hips? Thanks. (link)
You should probably try to do extercise that helps your thighs get strong or to lose them. You can also try dancing.Hope I helped


i'm going to get my tongue pierced soon. does it hurt a lot? and is it really hard to eat after? and say if i got high and THEN i went, how would that affect it? thanks! (link)
Getting high will probably affect you really bad and say that u did get high it probably wouldn't hurt but after it passes it hurts even worse. I recomend you don't do it cause you can't eat or drink for like 4 days and it's dangerous cause it can get infected. So make a decision!!!!!!! GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!!!!!


ok this guy used to be my best friend then we fell in love and then it fell apart. i grew up with him. but im just love sick but then i find myself flirting with my other guy friends, and he notices it to. but i just dont know how to talk to him anymore. we hated eachother now were fine. he gives me high fives when we pass. but we cant talk exept the stupid hi. i just am lost i cant talk to my best friend! any advice i dont know whats wrong with us. (link)
Talk to him like you used to talk to him before. Ask him how he's been or his favorite sports or anything.




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