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PiCTURE RUMOR!
ok so me and my ex boyfriend, we had been split up for just about 3 weeks. And we still had somewhat of a friendship. Well i stay after for cheerleadin conditioning, and he stays after for basketball conditioning. So when we were all just about to leave. Somebody comes up to me and tells me, supposedly he has this "picture" (naked picture) claiming
its me. So at first i just brush it off. Cause i know its not true. My thing is, you wanna see me with my clothes off, you gunna see it in person, i dont send pictures like that. So i immediatly knew it was a rumor, and i wasnt worried about it. But just about six more people come up to me and tell me that he is saying this girl is me. So this is when i became pissed off. You trynna play me?
and we had been dating for four years on and off, and im thinking you gunna do me like this? So i went home.and i approached him at school the next day. He got mad, and went off. So i yelled right back him. He claims he never said any of it. But i can never beleive him, he never tells me the truth about ANYTHING, so when its him against six other people, who am i gunna beleive? not him, right? so he thinks i was wrong, for coming at him the way i did. I think i had every right to do that. When people are coming up to me, saying your starting shit, of corse imma be mad, and of corse imma confront you about it. How do you feel about it? Was i wrong?
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Of course you were'nt wrong. I mean who wouln't be mad if people were saying that your ex is saying that he has a naked picture of you. I think everybody would. You know maybe he got a picture of you and then he could of changed on the internet and put a body of somebody naked. Or he could just be saying that cause he's mad that you guys broke up. Talk to him. Hope i helped. Let me know please!!!!!
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princessita
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Well yes, you were wrong to get into a screaming match with him.
Although it IS embaressing and it is a nasty rumor, without solid proof that he went around saying it, you should have simply let him know that you would appercaite him setting the record straight with these people who seem to be misinformed, rather then fighting with him.
If he DIDN'T say it, and it is possible that he didn't, then these people are confused, and it's completely right of you to expect him to clear things up with them.
It would have been better for you to have told him something like "Look, people are talking shit. We both know it's a lie. I want you to tell the truth about this too." He might have kept on lying about it anyways, but at least then you would have given him the chance to be respectful, rather then just blowing up at him.
I'm not saying he didn't desereve your anger or your approach. I am just that is was not the best way to get what you want from him.
Perhaps now, the best thing to do is to apologize for yelling at him and tell him that even if he didn't do anything wrong, it's obvious that these six people are confused about there being a naked picture of you out there. As this is very hurtful and embaressing you are sure that he will want to do the right thing and tell them that they made a mistake.
If he refuses... then he is an asshole.
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