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Age: 14
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Hey well theres this boy Ryan, hes kind of popular and stuff and im not really popular but im friends with some of the people so im kidna of "cool" stupid but whatever.. so some of the popular jocks just are dicks and dont like me, im sure everyone knows what i mean. well Ryans in my spanish class so i left him a comment on his picture on myspace, and he IMed me on aim and said hey thanks for the comment and i said yup no problem. later on he IMed me and didnt say anything he just said I LOVE YOU and i was like who doesntt ( thinkin it was his assholefriend) and he was like yep haha and i was liek this isnt ryan! and he said yeah it is then put an away message on a couple minutes later. he smiled at me during class the next day and i talked to him online that night and we talked then he ahd to go and said bye see you tmra and then he sed "luv yah" so i was like what the hell?.. i talked to him today and i said maybe we can hangout sometime and he saidd
ryans sn: yeah sure i dont care
ryans sn: just calll me
ryans sn: *** *** **** ( his number)
and i said i dont wanna make you if you dont wanna ! and i gave him my number and he was like ok cool are you goin to the football game tomorrow?
then i had to go and i said byee ttyl and he said bye luv ya.. so what do u think? what should i do because i can be shy expecially when i might think they might be mean or a dick cuz theyre like popular.. if hes at the game tmra what should i do? help pleasee thanks (link)
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If you see him at the game just you know smile and walk over an talk too him and stuff. Try not too be shy, even though it might be hard. Maybe bring a friend with you that's a little more outgoing so she/he can help you out if you get tongue=tied or your not sure of what too say. I think that he probabaly wants to get too know you and saying "I love you" well, alot of people say it as a friendly way, so don't get your hopes up but don't let that crush your confidence, for all I know, he could be totally in too you. Just find out what he likes too do, what kinda music he's into, all that happy stuff, and maybe you can ask him too chill sometime outside of a game or school. Don't let popularity scare you or intimidate you because I don't think their really is such thing as being "popular", but that's besides the point. so just try too be confident, and too be yourself.
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I am 14/f (freshmen in high school) and going out with a 16 year old guy (also a freshmen). He has had his first kiss before and made out with girls. I have never had my first kiss so i am afraid that i will do something wrong or not know how to do it. Any tips i should know? (link)
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I thought I would be like that too. But it kind of just comes naturally, with kissing at least. Making out, well, sometimes it's a different story, it depends on what the guy does. Just go with the flow and don't pressure yourself into doing anything you don't feel comfortable with. =]
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my mom gets pissed when i leave stuff at school. we have an email program at our school, where our teachers can email us homework. Well my teacher sent m e somethign and i dont have the book, because i didnt know what the homework would be, untill i checked my email onc ei got home, so what should i do? (link)
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Try and get the problems/questions or information from someone else in the same class if you can. =]
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I hear a lot of people say that applying toothpaste on pimples helps to clear it. I asked my dermatologist if that was a good remedy, but she said that there's no known ingredient in toothpaste that would aid to get rid of pimples. Does it really work? I would try it out myself, but I'm a little skeptical of putting toothpaste on my face. (link)
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It really does work, I do it all the time. Just apply it before you go too bed && wash it off the next morning. It works for me, really well actually.
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well theirs this REALLY hot guy who me and him both wanna make*out, im scared im not good enough for him =/ i need some tips on making out and exactly what to do to make my kiss MEMORABLE =) i rate really high!! ((top ratings for everyone)) (link)
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hey im a 14 year old guy..ok theres this girl who lives in a different city who i met thru some friends who i LOVE! she is so aweosme! and she loves me too, which is great. but theres a girl at my school who really likes me and i kinda like her..and i might want to ask her out in the summer, but i wouldnt be able to flirt with the girl i love and she'd never forgive me or trust me again. but its hard cuz the long distance, even tho i visit her a few times a year. should i ask the girl at my school out or stick with the girl i love? i rate high for good advice (link)
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My advice.
Don't leave someone you love for someone you like, because they'll eventually leave you for the person they love.
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Okay so i have this friend. She always falls asleep during math class. What should i do to wake her up???
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DON'T WAKE HER UP YOU LOSER!!! LET ME SLEEP!!!!
haha tara i love uuuuuuuuuu!
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Do you ever find yourself scared or maybe a little nervous to have sex or other things like that? Sometimes I feel like I could do it but then others, I dont feel like I'm ready. And the boy I like likes me back (but he just hasnt't asked me out yet) and I know that he's into all that and especially rushes. What should I do if/when the time(s) come up? It's okay if you can't answer this question like if you dont feel the same way as me but thanks for reading it. i appreciate it. (link)
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Well, it does kinda depend on how old you are.blablabla, that's what eveyrone says..so NEXt
It also should be something you absolutely know your ready for, so if your on anf off on it, don't do it. If it comes up, if your not ready tell him so, or if you wnat to then, do whateve you think or feel is right.
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this guys keeps calling me prude. i just dont want to waste my first kiss on someone i dont care about. do you think i should just kiss someone and get it over with or just keep waiting for the perfect moment and the perfect guy. i am 14 years old. please help. (link)
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A kiss is just a kiss, unless it's with someone you really like. If you wnat to wait for the perfect first kiss, then wait. It's your decision not his, and what he thinks of you shouldn't matter, just tell him to shut up and to leave you alone. If you wana wait for the perfect kiss, you may be waiting a long time, plenty of people come and go before you find the *perfect* guy.
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I have an adorable new baby puppy and he's a golden retreiver mixed with a boarder collie!! He's SO adorable! But I have no name for him.. any ideas? (link)
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I like Java or Oliver
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Sometimes my dog will be looking at me and i swear he speaks!! sometimes i hear "hey it's 5:00 now FEED ME!" and when i look up, he's growling, so then i jump up and get his food right away. His name is Max, he scares me, and then other times ill be doing my homework and he'll come in and burp and then say hey get me a beer! So i give him some beer in his water dish. He usually goes out for awhile after that, but do you know any way i can get him to stop talkin to me? its really weird! n scary 2!
Sincerly
Kim (link)
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Kim and Marie...you guys are insane. Lay off the crack.
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I guess this could go under this subject? but my class (8th grade) is graduating this year.. so we need to find a graduation song.. if you could list as many as you can think of with the artist's name that would be great!
please do not say graduation- vitamin c shes obvious.. (link)
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I hope you Dance- Leaan Womack is perfect
Gradutaion- Vitamin C (maybe that's better suited for High School graduation though)
Good Riddance (Time of your Life) -Green Day
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Im always sooo tired all the time. during and after school. it really sucks because i have a job and im always even more tired after working. also, my friends are always wicked hyper and have lots of energy 24/7. i always fall asleep when i watch tv and i get too tired and groggy, and in a bad mood and often skip my hw or working out bc i feel like i dont have enough energy to even move. any advice to gain some energy quick? thanks. (link)
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you may wana take some time to take naps, you need your energy. you can also try energy drinks, but there a lil expensive, some are Moxie (which ithink is gross) and Monster, or Red Bull because apparently it gives you wings!, you may also make sure your eating enough, and pasta is a great energy source, for like dinners
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ok i really like this guy, he makes me happy smile, and just feel good about myself and all that junk. but i'm fourteen almost 15 in less then 5 months and he's 18. My parents wouldn't want me to even date him, or even be friends. But ontop of all that, there's my ex. He still likes me, and we just had a relationship a month ago, and he knows i like him, but he doesn't want me to go out with him. Everyone says i should go out witht he 18 year old, just beacuse he makes me happy and we like eachother. But im not sure, any advice?
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There is always that whole thing about him being 18, if your parent's don't aprove they can press charges and you have to make sure you both don't get into trouble with the law and all that.
And with your ex, it's not his place to make you decide who to go out with or date.
If you think that you both won't get into any trouble with the law, then go for it, if he makes you happy. But your parent's will have a problem with it...so maybe tell them that he makes you happy and feel good and stuff. Parent's may not understnad it though..so I don't know about that part. sorry.
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hey ashley
i was jus wonderin exactly how do i get in the groove to do the cha cha slide?
i`ll be needing this advice as soon as u can get it too me thank you soo much!
lova ya
Ashley heheheheheh
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WELL~
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First you must be an Ashley..which you are so good.
Second, you must be in a gym locker room.
Third, YOu must say "Go ashley go ashley GO"
Fourth- CHA CHA REAL SLOW NOW!!!!!!! CRISS CROSS CRISS CROSS!!!! HANDS ON YA KNEESS!!!! SLIDE TO THE LEFFFFFFFFT!!!!! SLIDE TO THE RIGGGHTT!!
And that's what I do!!!
haha love you girl, funny-ass times!!
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im not good at doing crunchs.. so someone please help me and tell me what other kinds of stomach exercises i can do to help me get the fat off my stomach and how long it will take to see results ! thanks soooo much ! (link)
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Pilates works the whole body, and focuses on the "core", which is the stomach area, it also does a killer job on theighs too.
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My family is extremely well off money wise. And so are the kids that go to my high school but my family kind of has more money then most of the people in our neighborhood.
Well, I've been talking to a few girls at school about our prom dresses and theirs are around 200-500 dollars. Well, I found the perfect dress but it's 1,500 dollars. I'm supposed to go buy it this weekend but there's a problem. It's not that we can't afford the dress, because we can and my parents think that it's a good amount to pay for it. It's that I don't want to be the only girl there that paid over a thousand dollars for a Prom dress. I don't want people to talk about it or anything.
Should I get the dress even though it's 3 or 4 times more than what everyone else is going to pay for theirs?
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If its THE *DRESS* than go for it if you can. It's not anyone's business how much your dress cost. What's it too them?? But remember this dress is going to be for one night.
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hey,
I have this problem with a guy named Matthew. We have been best friends for over 4 years. Recently we both fell in love with each other. I least I love him. He always wants to mess around and he says it means something. To me it really does. He claims he wants to loose his virginity to me and claims that that would bring us together. Would that actually bring u apart? Help! (link)
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If you truely love eachother than you'll do it when your BOTH comfortable, and he'lll respect you if you don't want to do it yet. Sometimes it can bring you closer, or tear you apart,sorry if that didn't help too much.
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can you get high off accutane? i don't know much about it, but im scared about my friend.
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I haven't heard that you can get high off of it, but I did a report on suicide and people said that Accutane affected the brain and had caused depression. So I might talk to the parent's of the friend about this. And see if they'll go on a different medication.
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I have a friend (lets call her gina) and she'll be my friend for one minute and egt mad at me for nothing the next. and im really getting tired of it. its getting old and she's kinda popular and hangs out with a lot of my friends but if i get mad at her, she gets other people involved in hating me and if shes mad at me, so are they. what should i do. P.S, I rate 5's
-Brittany (link)
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I had a similar problem like that, and I ended up gettin so fed up with their bull shit I started hanging out with other people, and I haven't been good friends with them since. The girl used to be my best friend in 6th grade and she always suddenly hated me for nothing. I dropped her as a friend because I didn't need that. And I'm sure you don't either, you can try to tell your friends what's happening or just tell the other girl to knock of the crap and b!tch her out. It worked for me.
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