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I don`t know why but every time I see a guy that I`m interested in I flirt but nothing seems to happen. I also think I dont want to like let them know I like them because it seems silly because almost every boy that i like I barely talk to or theres always some reason. I really want to be able to have them like me in return and show them that I like them but how without saying it?

What do you thinks my problem?
what should i do? (link)
Try and find something you both like, then build on that. Instead of flirting maybe smile then look away- look interested but don't flirt. Guys hate it when a girl comes on too strong.








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Can you be forgiven for being gay? Is it really a sin? What if you just want to try it and see what happens are you going to be penalized for that? Can someone help me asap.. these questions are for a friend who really needs it (link)
It depends how into their religion they are. If they are true believers then it may be to the parents. Tell them whatever they think- it depends on how far into the religion they're into.




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Lately, Ive realy wanted ot become balimic or anterexic.. the thing is i cant. i love my boyfriend to death and he would flip if he found out.. also i would loose all trust in my parents.... soo what do i do?? is cutting back food a badd thing???


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No, if you think you're too fat- go on a diet. You can't be that fat b/c you have a boyfriend. Even if you didn't- try and make a goal of excersize and diet.






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okay you know how you get your period every 28 days?? do you start counting from the day you get it, er the day you end??

i gotten my period the first of march & it lasted till around the 5th er 6th. i didn't get it yet soo should i expect it around the same time??

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Your period is never exactly a certain amout of days. It depends what climate you're in and who you're around. If you're around a bunch of girls your hormones are slower and your period comes a lot later.









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okay, im 15/f and ive never had a boyfriend and ive never even made out or done anything with a guy. and its not that im a loser or anything im actually pretty popular in school but all my friends are out like hooking up with guys all the time and ive never done anything. and people laugh at me too for it. its just like all the guys i know see me as a friend but not a girfriend so i never get any guys. help. how do i meet more guys? and how can i get this guy ive been crushing on a for a while to like me? (link)
You should start feeling more confident about yourself and start talking to the guy. Don't always talk to him, just make casual conversation.







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Ok, so this is really gross but I've had diarreah (sp?) for a week and about 2 days now. And also, on Friday I've had really bad nausea (sp?) and I don't know. Bad nausea and diarreah.. what is this? I'm really worried about it though. Please answer. (link)
I wouldn't worry about it. If it keeps going on like this then you should see a doctor. Drink tons of fluid... you might be dehydrated.





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does anyone here has some good tips how to get over a guy you really really love but just cant take this anymore???????? i really dont know what to do how can i get over him??? PLEASE HELP!!! i'll rate high for good advice (link)
First of all get sad. Cry a little. Then sulk. Sit in front of the TV and eat a lot of junk food.
It helps- o ya don't try and get his attention and be sad try and act like you're having fun w. out him.





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My boyfriend and I are in a rut about this summer. We live about 30 min away from each other but my parents work and neither of us drive. We are desperately in need of ideas on how to see each other and what we can do to make it last. Any good idea will get a 5. Please respond (link)
Depends how old you are. If you're like 13 go to a camp together. If you're older go to camp say you'll pay for it and meet up somewhere and stay in a hotel.





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Yesarday my ex bf went to a basketball game at my school.
And everyone was was saying,that i was talking shit about him.
The preps and stuff.
But i dont talk to them!
So now he wont talk to me at all,and he got a new gf.
I started to cry,because i never did that and i never would.
I like him to much.
So yesarday i told his friend,his friend likes me.
And i was kinda starting to like him.
And then last night,he started to hold me and touch me.
And now he wants to screw me.
But now,im like confused.
Whats wrong with me?
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NOTHING is wrong with you! Move on, it will make your ex sooo jealous and if you talk to your ex tell him the truth.




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I have a heart shaped face which is a wide forehead. I read in a magazine about what hair is best for all faces and it said to try side swept bangs so my head looks smaller. I am actually thinking about doing it but what do you all think? like if I dont like it then my bangs will grow out eventually but i dont know. also is there like any way to see what i'll look like with side bangs? like is it possible to put one of my pictures on like a paint on the computer and draw bangs? i no it sounds weird but does anyone no how i could see what it looks like before i do it? please help me and thanks! i will rate u all 5's if ur helpful!!! (link)
My friend had the same problem. Do the bangs, if you don't like it pin it and it will grow back in no time.




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Okay well, I did something really bad. I was just on a cruise for two weeks, and before I went, my boyfriend broke up with me. But then, I was in florida for a week before I went on the cruise, and he came all the way down from PA to tell me that he was sorry and didn't want me to hook up with any other guys because he loved me and would always love me. But then, when I got on the cruise, I met this realllly cute guy, and we started making out and stuff by the time the two weeks were up. And he started to really like me, but I'm not too sure if I like him, because I love my boyfriend with all my heart. The boy on the cruises name is Tom, and my boyfriends name is Matt, by the way. And I'm a 17 year old. (link)
Maybe Tom was like your rebound. I think you were just in paradise and you felt bad, but maybe Matt is special to you. I would go with Matt. Hope everythingg works out.





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I'm a 7th grader and i'm pretty good at ball i play for the highschool jv team and i'm atleast in the top 6. I don't have a lot of confidents so i tend to not to play as hard. How could I get my confident up? (link)
Try making friends with people on the team. That might make you feel more comfortable and energeticm- it always works for me. Hope everything works out.





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does anyone know what the japanese word for *peace* is? ive tried google...it didnt work. thanks! (link)
Try some other search engines. Like askjeeeves or dogpile or yahoo.




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ok theres this guy Tim that i've been so inlove with. we planed on dateing when he got back into town. well i just found out a few min ago that he has moved back. i'm so excited but yet i'm ready to start crying cuz i have a strong feeling that he doesn't wanna be with me anymore. i have no clue what i'm suppose to do. i know his still inlove with his girlfriend. but i also know he cares about me. it's like his stuck in the middle between both of us. but now that he is back here. i have no clue what i'm suppose to say to him or anything. i don't know if i'm suppose to tell him i still have feelings for him and just have him turn his back on me or just wait for him to call and sufur me self till he does even if i does take a few months/days.

i just need some words of advice. please! (link)
Well if he JUST moved back I wouldn't call, you would sound desperate. Call him in a month and say I heard you moved back... say some boring stuff, then ask if he wants to hang out. Hope everything works out!





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There is this new boy he from a spanish country and i really like him but then there is my friend i like were really close and im afraid if i ask him out and he says no that he won't trust me or he'll act all weird please help i really don't know what to do. (link)
Start hinting that you like him and maybe he will ask you out=) Hope everything works out!





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I was recently asked to attend a party a friend of mine is hosting. I would love to go hang out with my friend and meet new people. But there are a couple problems with this. I wont know anyone at all and Im not exactly a social butterfuly, my friend lives really far away, the party will be at night and Im not the best driver at night, and Im afraid since no one knows me I will be left out of conversations.

How can I politely say no? I want my friend to keep inviting me to do other things, but not this particular event.

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Say that you really wanted to but you have to babysit your brother or your boss asked you to work late that day. Say thank you so much for still inviting me, I wanna hang out with you... I'll call you. Hope everything works out!



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Okay ...I had have 2 blood infusion before.
my question is does my DNA change by getting blood from someone else ?

It may be a stupid question but I have be wondering?? (link)
Your DNA could never change. It's your DNA, so don't worry.




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are there any good colleges in australia , like the equilent of yale. what would an american student need to get in. (link)
I think the colleges are O.k. but not as well known. People won't be as surprised when you say like UOM. Hope everything works out.





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i gave a guy my number a couple days ago, and he called that night, and the next two days. we have had a really good time talking. he said we should hang out today, and said he'd call around noon. he didnt call until 5'o clock and i didnt pick it up because i was kinda mad that he didnt call when he said he would. but really, i do want to talk to him. should i call him back or wait for him to call again? (link)
Give him a call back and say you were just getting out of the shower and you couldn't get the phone. I wouldn't wait for him because he might take you not calling him back as a bad sign- and might think you don't like him.




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My boyfriend of about 4 months, now ignores me on a regular basis. I ask him if something is going on, and he claims that he "is in love" with me and doesn't ignore me on purpose.

I'm thinking that he wants to break up, but everytime I try to talk to him about it, he assures me that nothing is wrong, and that he would never ever want to break up with me.

But, I'm getting different vibes. Should I just break up with him than deal with this? Because I'm about to. (link)
He prob. still likes you just wants to hang out with his friends. Try hanging out with your friends and see what happens. If he still ignores you then break up, but if he starts calling you and talking to you then you should definetly stay together.



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