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I'm Megan, but you can call me megz. Go ahead and ask me anything and I'll try to help you out.
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Member Since: July 18, 2005
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Last Update: November 16, 2005
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i need help because for the last like 4 years i haven noticed something growing..."down there" and now that im older, it gets annoying, esp. when guys talk about fingering me, or having sex. i'm so confused, i dont want to go to the doctors because i'm scared for the results. do you know if it's normal and if it will go away or not? (link)
is it like pubic hair?? if it is you can alwayz just shave. itz prob just pubic hair everyone getz it..but some girlz shave down there soo itz not hairy..sorrii itz soundz gross but itz betta

If I didnt answer your question please ask it again Ill think of anotha thing.

Megz


I go to a day camp, and there is this really nice boy there. His name is Josh, and I like him alot! I dont know what to say though. Im not sure if like he has ever had a girlfriend before and maybe he wont like me back and will never talk to me again. Please tell me what I should do!


-Britt (link)
just tell him how you feel..or play truth or dare and find out wat hez done wit people..

well i hope everythin is ok.hope i helped
megz


i have this boyfriend.. and we've been goin out for a while i guess.. and we've liked each other for a long time.. he tells me he loves me n stuff.. but like i dont know i feel like he doesnt sometimes and that im wasting my time.. i always have to call him and when we're online talking it's like what ever.. and when he had other g/f's it seemed like he liked them more than me and showed that he cared more..but like i really really think hes the one for me.. its just im sorta confused on him.. hes quiet about a lot of stuff when i spill my heart out to him .. i dont wanna dump him or anythingg.. but do u think he really likes me.. or hes using me??


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aww sweetii..a lot of guyz dont show how they feel about you..it dependz.does he talk to you about his probz? does he come to you when he needz you? some guyz just lay off on girlz but he should be callin you. most guyz dont like the phone but if he was a bf he would call at least a couple timez im not sayin 24/f but i mean come on a couple timez would be nice.and mabey hez just scared to show you how he feelz? and not all guyz mean they love you,you have to tell if you reallii thinkz he meanz it or not.and i can reallii tell you like this guy but if he doesnt do anythin for you why waste your time..find a guy who will do stuff for you.and if he was usin you he would be talkin to otha girlz 24/f and he would dump you for them.

well good luck..i hope i helped you!
megz


im sure you probally have heard this question many times before but what do people usally use when they shave down "there"? like razor or wax? i would really appreciate any helpful answer, thanks (link)
razor..they would hurt if they wax..i havent heard of people waxin

hope i helped
megz


hey, so me and this guy want to be kind of like friends with benefits and do stuff but not sex you know so if i gave him head would i have to use a condom? he has gotten head from 2 other girls and for both of them it was their first time and i have never given it before and yeah anyt tips? can he really have any stds? i hear guys dont like it with condoms so what should i do (link)
well if he has gotten head from 2 otha girlz i bet he doesnt have std.and you dont have to use a condom..i have given head before ill be honest and itz not that good tastin..soo ya

i hoped it helped..if you need more info ask me a question

megz


whats the dif. between givin head and a bj??!



thx for any answeres! i rate high =)

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itz the same..bj is blow job,blow job is givin head..soo everythin the same


hoped i helped
megz


Well my boyfriend wants to have sex with me...but im like i dont know how to explain it but i dont like showing my lower part of my body and no matter what i try to do it still kinda uhm smells a little bit..i shower 2 times a day and it still doesnt help...i dont want to ask my mom either because that's jsut too embarrassing and im aafriad he might hate me after he does it and sees it and you know....

-stuckNconfused (link)
ya that is kinda hard to tell your mom.yea i didnt like showin my bottem part to my bf too.i thought he was like goin to make fun of me.if he is a good bf he wont say anythin about it.Just remember to think before you do it.

good luck and i hope i helped
megz


well all of my friends wear special underwear, thongs, and i dont like them ,but i dont wanna tell them that, they'll call me granny, but im also not allowed to wear them, and when i do i feel uncomfortable and guilty thinking wut would my parents think if they know im wearing them, HELP ME! (link)
then wear wat you would like.no one can make you wear somethin you dont want.just be comfy in wat you wear and dont let them change you.

have fun.i hope i helped
megz


this is probably not under the right catagory, but latley like this clear stuff has been comming out of me and it makes my underwear went and sometimes is so much it feels like i peed my pants.i am 13/f and have been on my period for like 2 years.i am scared to tell anyone.do you kno what it is? (link)
sweetii itz ok..itz just discharge.dont worrii about it.and no you wont get hurt from it.itz fine a lot of people get it.

i hope i helped
megz


..alright so this has been bugging me forever, and i cant really ask my friends this question because they are going to support me of course but here it goes. In the past, i've had really cruddy relationships with guys. I've been in relationship where i've been used & gotten really hurt from it. But recently i meet this new boy. The one thing that completely seperates him from the rest of the boys i've had interest in is that he's not all bout getting in the pants. I meet him thru a friend at the movies, and there was sparks.. so the next night he came over. && meet my family. They all adored him. And like we didnt even do nething. He didnt like have the urge to leave the family and be alone, which i totally liked because no parents were home & we could have easily gotten away with "gettin with eachother" the next night.. he came over and we layed on my couch and cuddled. And nothing happened. And we were alone. No one was home. He didnt even try anything. The next day he came over. We just made out and i called him a tease because he always tickled me by my pants line and never went down. && thats just what im used to.. boy just goin straight in. Soo when he didnt i was like wow, even tho i wanted him to. So the next day he came over again, and we were all aloneeee for about 4 hours. We didnt do anything til the last hour, and he asked me why i called him a tease, and i explained. And then he ended up fingering me. Because i wanted it. And i was all happy with it or wateva. Then lator i realized, wow maybe i relaly fucked this up. because he wasnt like that, and i provoked him to be. I told him how i felt and he felt bad and said that he wudnt do it ever again and thought i didnt mind. Not to mention while he was doing it he kept asking if i was okay with it. And i said yeha, cuz i was. And hes been over every night after that.. for the past 3 nights and he hasnt tried it again. Do you think he likes me, or just wants to "get iwht me" HELPPP please..sorry sooo longg.. but i will rate 5's for sure! (link)
aww this one touched me..this is a reallii sweet guy.most guyz just wanna get head and stuff soo keep him! just talk to him about it and see how he feelz and tell him if he wantz to tell you before and see if both of you are ok wit it.soundz like you guyz got reallii somethin special goin on.keep him:)

good luck wit him.and i hope i helped
megz


okay well I like this guy alot but he's so confussing.I mean he will tell me he like's me and flirt's with me then the next day he will act like he dosn't like me and start talking about another girl.It's like he can't decied if he actualy likes me or not.I've liked him since like December and I've had boyfriends since then, but always have wanted him.Im so confussed and don't know if he really like's me or is just pulling this along.I've tried to just get over him but it didn't work.I don't know really what to do.please help.

--Confussed love (link)
Aww I know how this feelz.Itz reallii hurtz.soo tryy your hardest to get ova him.he will just keep gettin you when he needz someone.i have got it done to me soo many timez.it reallii hurtz sometimez if he does hurt you itz betta and you can get ova him and not get hurt anymore.if you wanna talk about it ask me more questionz or IM me.Im alwayz here to talk

i hope i helped and good luck wit him
megz


ok i have this g/f and i really care for her and i even love her but i dont think she understands exactly how much i care she is always flirtin with other boys and she gots mad at me all the time and i dont kno wat to do she says she really cares for me too and at times she shows it but at other times i fill like im not even datin her i have tried to tell her and talk to her but then she gits mad at me...please help me (link)
Aww sweetii..You need to tell her it hurtz when she flirtz wit otha guyz.if she does care about you she wouldnt be flirtin wit otha guyz.if she does get mad at you mabey itz cuz mabey shez trin to play you.if she cared she wouldnt get mad for your opion..tell me how it goes

good luck i hope i helped
megz


my friends and i were talking and, i know it sounds dumb but i was raised kinda "good girlish" and they were raised kinda not. Well they always talk about things that i don't understand. i just wanted to ask what is sandwiching? and well theres other stuff but i'm too embarressed to ask so this is just fine. thanx..and don't make me feel anymore stupid than i already do. Please? (link)
itz fine...not everyone knowz wat everythin is.but sandwichin is when 2 guyz are on the outside of a girl.or 2 girlz are on the outside of a guy.itz dancin wit the opposite sex basically.and if you wanna let me know the otha one you can IM me and ask me.I will answer anythin if I know

i hope i helped you
megz


Okay, here's the deal. My one guy-friend told me he liked me and that he wanted to go to the movies with me.. and I said yes ; because I did/didn't like him ( cause I haven't seen him in for like ever ) but I didn't want there being awkwardness so I had my one friend kinda invite herself ( lol yeah I know.. ). So she was coming to the movies. But then he didn't have money for it, so he couldn't go, so he suggested just hanging at his house. Well all day nothing happened, and it was getting latish kinda around 7 or something so I didn't even think I was going...but then he suddenly said he could come and get me. So I was allowed and stuff which was awseome! But then we stopped to rent movies, and his mom went shopping and stuff, so we didn't get to his house till like 7:30 and I had to go by 9 ( so we had to leave before then ) so then we were holding hands and enjoying ourselves and stuff and then I went home. And then my mom tells me she got a call from my friend who said she was upset because we ditched her or something ( and I didn't mean to like intentionally, I just thought that I was only there for like.. an hour or so, so I thought by the time she got there, we'd all have to leave anyway so I thought next time.. ) but she's not talking to me now and stuff and it's become this huge thing and stuff... and I don't know what to do, I mean I feel really really bad and stuff...
=( PLEASE HELP ME! (link)
Heyy herez my advice..I know how it feelz..but you just have to talk to her about everythin that happened.If she doesnt answer then get her one way or anotha to listen to you.if she is reallii mad give her time to calm down then explain.if she doesnt seem that mad tell her now.

i hope i helped
megz


My sister and I planned a one week vacation in Paris. She lives in Colorado and I live in California so we do not get to see each other often. I made all the arrangements and was very much looking forward to going. Recently, she got back together with her boyfriend and has canceled her trip with me because she would rather do something with her boyfriend. I feel hurt about my sister's choice and resentful towards her boyfriend (although my sister says it was solely her decision). I say she can see her boyfriend every weekend and during the week too and that she can go on vacation with him next year. She says this is her only opportunity to go on a vacation this year with him and she doesn't want to miss it. I know my relationship with my sister is more important than any vacation, but I'm having trouble feeling ok about this. Should my sister have honored her commitment to me? Should I just get over it and wish them well on their vacation? (link)
umm wat she did is reallii rude..that is her fault for not wantin to go.family alwayz comez before men so she should of went wit you.you are gonna have to get ova it though and wish them a good time because she prob wont change her mind on that.

i hope i helped you:)
megz


I'm having a party soon. Dose any one know any good truth and dare questions. I need more truth questions cause thats the one ppl pick more, and if we play dubble dare i need 2 part dares ThAnKs were 13 so ya know but some ppl will get naked!
I rate high!
(please nothing sexual!) (link)
ok ask them thingz you guyz would wanna know.ask them if they had to pick someone or somethin.then for darez tell them to call someone and ask em out or somethin.and then tell them to do stuff around the house like pick somethin random and tell them to do somethin to it

hope that helped
megz


Okay.. what if i have a friend who is acting like a slut and wearing clothes that are too small and look bad.. and its not attractive.. and i dont wanna hurt her feelings.. what do i do..? (link)
your better off tellin her the truth and how you feel about it.if she is reallii your friend she will understand how you feel about her apparance.tell her in a nice smooth way and lean into it..you dont alwayz have to come out straight foward wit it.just give her cluez and if she doesnt get it..tell her the truth and thatz itz not attractive..

i hope i helped:)
Megz




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