I love helping people and can talk to anyone about anything. I am very considerate and understand peoples thoughts and feelings. Someday I want to be a therapist. i will be straight up honest don't get mad because I give truthful answers on which i think you should do. the truth can hurt.
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ok so. im a frisky girl in her twenties.. my mate sent me this as something to laugh at.
but i though could i actually use this as a "toy"
like would it be safe? or would i jsut get flour everywhere?
youtube (dot) com / watch?v=CM7PklAdHlw&list=QL
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looks like it works. i think it will work just fine
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If you could make anyone fall in love with you l, who would you? (link)
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alexeia
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Told you I'd find the site lol :P
-The freckled candycane(; (link)
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oh no.......
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My husband and I have been married for going on 3 yrs. We have 2 toddlers and a wonderful loving relationship. In Feb my husband began going through "issues" he didn't know if he was happy in our relationship. I let him go and he stayed with his mother for a week or two. He eventually came back to me, claiming he didnt know what he was thinking all the while talking about how much he hated staying with his family. Since this incident we have been fine. We have always been fine even during the split. This lowered my confidence of myself. Since this issue we have no romance. He tells me he loves me when getting of the phone or leaving. There is no romance. I have been trying really hard... doing new things to spice it up and still no response. I crave the attention... I feel alone and I don't feel like he wants to be in the relationship anymore, but he doesnt want to end up at his moms again. I don't know if he will ever admit to wanting somehting different. I just don't know what to do. (link)
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look all i can say is talk to him about it. like take the time to personnally talk about how you feel. but you have to listen to his side of the story to. anything else?
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the other day my boyfriend fingered me in the hot tub while we were making out and it was really amazing and after he was hard but i didn't return the favor because i really wasn't expecting anything to happen that night (i just couldnt fight it when he was doing it haha) and i didn't feel ready to really go down there, and i don't really even know what to do.. so could you please tell me if its okay that i didn't do anything for him or not.. and EVERYTHING i need to know about when i do go down there.. (link)
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im a guy so ill give you my point of view. its ok that you didnt do anything back dont do anything you dont really want to do. but when you are down there grab it with the head sticking aut of your hand and move your hand tightly up and down quickly
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I have this guy friend, who has been my friend for two years and a half now. He's a great guy, really. We're great friends, but it doesn't kill me to the point where I have to know, if we're just friends or NOT but, I really would like to know.
-We've been friends since High School
-When we were in H.S., ppl always said we'd make a great couple, and we'd both blush, but not get uncomfortable or anything like that, just dismiss it. Or I did.
-Beyond hugging, there is nothing more physical b/w us nor has he pushed for that
-We often text, and still meet up, even though he goes to another College in another county far off
-We have the same friends, know intimate details about each others families
-He hasn't had many past relationships
-Think Southern mentality: He's white, I'm black.(please don't be offended and HELP please) (link)
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sounds to me like your just friends but if you wanted to try to get together i personally think that you are great friends and are to friendly to get in a relationship so friends
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Ok so in the begining of the year me and this guy hit it off. Unfortunalty I screwed up with him and ended up pushing him away into my friends arms :( I guess I was scared or I don't know just stupid. The whole year though we still flirted and he even called me his best friend :). Ok towards the end of the year they broke up and I thought I finally had a chance but I was wrong. Since they broke up he no longer hung outs with my group of friends because his ex was there he still talked to me but no where near as much. He started hanging out with these other girls and one of them liked him :( and they flirted and hung out all the time. I asked him if he liked her or any of the girls and he said no. (I was/am doubtful) everyone thinks he does. So now it's summer I know he was going to be on vacation. I texted him and he didn't text back. The day before he had texted my friend. So I don't know if he ignored my text or is really busy. I don't want to text again because I'm scared he will just not reply again. ( happened to me before with another guy) should I just try to get over him and when school starts try to find another guy or should I text him again and wait till school starts. Btw on the last day of school he told me he was going to miss me and gave me a tight hug. But then he looked at the other girl and did the same :/ gosh I guess that's what I get for not showing my feeling but it's just so hard for me (link)
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text him how you honestly feel. because honesty is the key to a good relationship
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Do you think it's possible to be in love with someone you never met in person, know through friends, and talk to through texts? I've wanted to know if it's possible and if it has happened to you share experience, after answering, ask someone else this same question! (Copy Paste now!) (link)
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it very well could be possibly i personally thought i was in love with someone like that
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I want to hack into my dads facebook. I have never met him before, he walked out on me when i was a baby, but his profile is private and he doesnt want to talk to me, but i want to see his profile. Can anyone help? (link)
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that is illegal but you could try his password, like his birthday or phone number or something middle namee maybe
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A few days ago i went to a party and a song came on. Didn't get all the words, but i got a nice chunk. You think you could help me out? It went like this:
There was police and flashing lights
The rain came down so hard that night
and the headlines read a lover died
No tell-tale heart was left to[something incoherent]when you...
[Then it goes to the chorus. It sounded something like this:]
...mourn the death of your...
And that's all i got. I like the song. Don't know the name. Do you? Also, do you know of any music that sounds similar?
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my bloody valentine by my Good Charlotte. i love music any thing else?
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Hello, noname70. I wrote to you earlier, asking you how I could convince my boyfriend that I want him and only him.
Well, I had spoken to him earlier today and the conversation didn't go as well as I would have liked it to :( I'm not trying to say this is your fault by any means though. I've just come back for a little more advice and I'm giving you a little more insight to work with.
See, He and I walked over to a park near his house. When we were swinging, I tried to talk to him about the whole ordeal. I stayed calm and explained to him just how much he meant to me. But, immediately, he shut down and wouldn't give a chance. He started saying things like " the sex thing again?!" and " youve got to be kidding me!". When he began to get upset, I hushed up, gave him his time to yell, then continued with a very soft voice. I told that it wasn't about the sex and if he wanted to wait, that was fine and that I understood. But I also told him that I didn't want the reason that he didn't want to do things to be because he didn't trust me. He listened, but there was no change in his attitude. He sat me down in the grass near the slide and gave me a look that I didn't like. I didn't like what he had said next much better. What told me went something like this:
" Look, I believe that you believe that you like me enough to stay. But you have this mind that over-thinks everything and sooner or later you may very well find a reason to leave as you have with others in the past..."
I know he has every right to say this and feel this way but... it hurt so bad to hear this from him. I told him that I understood. It took everything to hold the tears in before turning away to leave.
I would do anything to put him at ease and I see that there is nothing that I could possibly say that would help. Do you know something that I could do? Please answer as soon as you can :(
Your advice, as always, is appreciated. Thank you. (link)
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ok thank you for being respectful to me and my advice but please, call me chance, or Mr.Moore. i did know the conversation was hard for you and him... i knew it would be it was suppossed to be. you really dont know how much it helped your relationship. you may not think so but it did. look at this point in time keep hanging out with him and cherishing what time you do have together. keep building your relationship up wheather friendship or sexual, and eventually he will continue falling for you. i have a saying that my viance' said to me "Everything is good at the end, if it's not good it'snot the end" that applys well here.
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Ok so I'm a guy (16) and there is this girl, this annoying, loud, hilarious girl who I'll call "Karli", she's my friends sister, and I think I might be in love with her. I've know "Karli" for almost 2 Years and we are pretty close friends (same age). The only problem is that I have a girl friend, don't get me wrong I really like my girlfriend she's beautiful but there is something about "Karli" that takes my breath away. I don't wanna leave my gf for someone else tho, I really don't want to hurt her. I'm what you could say...torn.
Please help,
-Mason (link)
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look i say stay with your girlfriend and see what happens with her then if something does happen you can go for "karli" but i agree it is rudde for you to break up with someone for someone else it is very rude stay with your gf until something happens. another thing you might try, dont get mad at me for saying this..... but be honest and tell your girlfriend that you like "karli" that would be what i'd do. that would be the right thing to do
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17/f
Hello, I'm a little lost right now. See, my friends have relationships that last about 2-4 months and during that time they usually get thru all the 4 bases ( if you don't know, they are french, feel, finger, and i think you can guess the last one :p) So, anywho, I've been in relationships that lng and sometimes even longer. Yet I've only been comfortable doing that with one person. The funny thing is that he thinks that I only wanted to do it because I know that my friends are more likely to do it and he says he'd really like to do it too but he doesn't want to pressure me. I keep on trying to explain to him that I want it just as badly as he does but he says that I should take some time to think about it before rushing into the decision.
I think the real reason he tells me he wants me to rethink it is because he doesn't trust me. See, I had relationships before him and he's been there thru all of them since we've been friends for a long time. I have a problem staying in relationships for awhile. I get claustrophobic and he knows this. I also sorta started to really like him when I was in a previous relationship. He knew I had a boyfriend and he told me I needed to break up with him before anything could happen between us.I broke up with him.
I think that he wants me to know for sure that I want him and only him before we do anyhting else. And I guess I can understand that... I'm not too worried about the not-having-sex think. I'm more worried that he doesn't think I like him enough to stay with him...
What should I do to help him understand that I like him and I plan on liking him for a long time to come? Especially with my reputation... :( (link)
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be honest look him in the eyes and tell him that you Want to stay with him. just sit down and talk with him openly to each other. make him know your ready for him. anything else I'd be happy to help you. I'D like to see how this turns out.
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Is 131 a normal weight for a fifteen year old girl? If it isn't, please tell me the target weight I should get down to, I'm pretty short, around 5'3 and I come from a family of biiiig bones. Haha. Thanks! (link)
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its just about perfect its just fine
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i had 4 guy bff. but three of them hate me for no reason. and so one of my friends is realy cool hes still my bff. but anyway i love him like a brother we have laughs together like sayin he looks like justin bieber did when he was younger. and when hes hurt i help him. but we fight but then i want him to be my bff again because boys are usually better friend then girls. right. because they dont gossip. so is it true boys are better friends than girls and were we ment to be friends (link)
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gender has nothing to do with you being a good friend or not. it depends on the kind of person you are.
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Is anyone else playing the online mmo game called "earth eternal?"
I have just started and I am having a bad time with it even though it is really a fun game I keep getting killed. Can anyone give me some earth eternal help?
Thank you! (link)
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train on small things get your combat levels up your fighting stats
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For the past few days my tongue has been really painful. It feels a little swollen and is now white colored on top where like my tastebuds are. It is really nasty. I don't really know what this could be. Is it an STD or something? How do I make it go away? Thanks (link)
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it could be several things. i personally think you should go to your doctor and ask him try brushing your tounge really hard it could just be your tastebuds are sheding. )completely natural happens to everyone) ask your doctor
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I am from Malaysia. Married with 4 kids. Age 40. Husband 47. I caught my husband 6 months after he was having an emotional relationship with one of his chat-mates. That person sent her photos which seems to be a mexican actress photos(not her real photos because i found out that she was from BENIN, west africa).I read some of her mail to my husband. I was extremely hurt and angry and i comfronted my husband. He appologised and told me that it was ended dec 2009.I have no choice but to accept but still hurt and couldnt forget what he had done.After that I secretly traced his working on the internet and found out that he already deleted all of the downloded site which link to the DATINGs site. I checked his mail and so far there are no suspicious email.The problem is he always goes outstation and i wont know whether he is faithful to me or not. Question is what should I do. Can I trust him. Pls advice.
Rgds (link)
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ok listen malaysia i know you prolly wont llisten to me because im young but i say talk to him about it open and honestly make sure to look him in the eyes whenever you are talking. tell him you love him and make himi say it back and look you in the eyes when he does it if he cant he is lying talk about it with him let him no it bothers you. just say "hey, we need to talk...". that will start the conversation.
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Hey! so for mine and my boyfriend's 6 month anniversary, im making him a book of 6 things i love about him, 6 songs that remind me of him, my 6 favorite movies i have seen with him, and 6 of my favorite pics of us, things like that. only those are the only ideas i can think of so far =/ i was hoping for 6 and i only have 4. help with two more? (link)
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favorite memories. and maybe favorite firsts you have had with him. or maybe like 6 of your personal things you would trust him with. just throwin out ideas
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As you might have guessed, my girlfriend is pregnant. She's freaking out, and I'm thrilled. She's thinks about an abortion, and I want to keep it. Not the way we pictured it.
The reason she's freaking out is that I'm in the USMC, and will be deployed for all of her pregnancy and probably a lot of the child's life. In fact, I'm leaving in about a week for my latest deployment.
She's worried that if something happens to me, she couldn't handle being a single mother. But I know she could.
Don't get me wrong, I am pro-choice. But I never considered my child to be on that line. If she wants to terminate the pregnancy which she has every right to, she can do that, I doubt I could speak to her again.
I love this woman! I want to marry her! But,I am at a lost. It's her body, but my child. I feel I should have a say, but I seem to not.
(Late-teens/early-twenties couple)
Lazyconfessions
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just sit down with her and talk about it for an hour or so talk about it personally calm her down and let her know how you feel about it and hear her out make the descision together but she kinda has like 75% of the say granite it is your child to she has to go through the pregnancy and the stress
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