My husband and I have been married for going on 3 yrs. We have 2 toddlers and a wonderful loving relationship. In Feb my husband began going through "issues" he didn't know if he was happy in our relationship. I let him go and he stayed with his mother for a week or two. He eventually came back to me, claiming he didnt know what he was thinking all the while talking about how much he hated staying with his family. Since this incident we have been fine. We have always been fine even during the split. This lowered my confidence of myself. Since this issue we have no romance. He tells me he loves me when getting of the phone or leaving. There is no romance. I have been trying really hard... doing new things to spice it up and still no response. I crave the attention... I feel alone and I don't feel like he wants to be in the relationship anymore, but he doesnt want to end up at his moms again. I don't know if he will ever admit to wanting somehting different. I just don't know what to do.
OhMyLucyDarling answered Thursday July 22 2010, 4:12 am: As I do not know the relationship between you and your husband but I would say you two need to sit down and talk about your marriage. If he is willing to work it out, Then that shows you he cares enough to put the effort into making it work. However, If he doesn't seem to budge then as I hate to suggest you might want to think about marriage conseling..If he still doesn't budge then it might be time to think things over. It could be stress, depression...Or simply falling out of love. [ OhMyLucyDarling's advice column | Ask OhMyLucyDarling A Question ]
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