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How do I prove it to him??? (continuation)
Hello, noname70. I wrote to you earlier, asking you how I could convince my boyfriend that I want him and only him.
Well, I had spoken to him earlier today and the conversation didn't go as well as I would have liked it to :( I'm not trying to say this is your fault by any means though. I've just come back for a little more advice and I'm giving you a little more insight to work with.
See, He and I walked over to a park near his house. When we were swinging, I tried to talk to him about the whole ordeal. I stayed calm and explained to him just how much he meant to me. But, immediately, he shut down and wouldn't give a chance. He started saying things like " the sex thing again?!" and " youve got to be kidding me!". When he began to get upset, I hushed up, gave him his time to yell, then continued with a very soft voice. I told that it wasn't about the sex and if he wanted to wait, that was fine and that I understood. But I also told him that I didn't want the reason that he didn't want to do things to be because he didn't trust me. He listened, but there was no change in his attitude. He sat me down in the grass near the slide and gave me a look that I didn't like. I didn't like what he had said next much better. What told me went something like this:
" Look, I believe that you believe that you like me enough to stay. But you have this mind that over-thinks everything and sooner or later you may very well find a reason to leave as you have with others in the past..."
I know he has every right to say this and feel this way but... it hurt so bad to hear this from him. I told him that I understood. It took everything to hold the tears in before turning away to leave.
I would do anything to put him at ease and I see that there is nothing that I could possibly say that would help. Do you know something that I could do? Please answer as soon as you can :(
Your advice, as always, is appreciated. Thank you.
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ok thank you for being respectful to me and my advice but please, call me chance, or Mr.Moore. i did know the conversation was hard for you and him... i knew it would be it was suppossed to be. you really dont know how much it helped your relationship. you may not think so but it did. look at this point in time keep hanging out with him and cherishing what time you do have together. keep building your relationship up wheather friendship or sexual, and eventually he will continue falling for you. i have a saying that my viance' said to me "Everything is good at the end, if it's not good it'snot the end" that applys well here.
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