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Should I tell him how I feel?
I have liked my friend for almost a year now and I think I really love him. I want to let him know how I feel but I am afraid of jeopardizing our friendship. I don't know what to do. I am 17 and he is older than me, but we don't judge each other by age. I am a girl and I am 17. Thanks in advance for advice.
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You can leave things as they are, but he'll never know you had strong feelings for him. I think you should take the chance of telling him. Life is full of chances and possibilities, so don't let this opportunity go or else you might miss out of something really nice and special.
Good Luck & Best Wishes :)
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I say its worth a shot. I told one of my really good guy friends that I liked him, and he didn't feel the same way, but we still are great friends. Hopefully you're guy will like you as much as you like him, and if not, will still be happy with being friends. If he doesn't and doesn't want to be friends, then he isn't a good friend! Good luck, hope I helped!
-Brina
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Well i think you should tell him I mean if you love him isnt it worth the risk?If you never try you never know Its like I always say you can have your boyfriend and your friend. Good Luck!
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Honesty is the best policy in my opinion. Just tell him how you feel. Don't make a big show of it by going anywhere romantic. Just do what you two normally do and tell him you have something you'd like to speak with him about. Just know that if he doesn't feel the same for you that you may have a harder time staying friends than he will. If he does say he doesn't feel the same let him know this in no way has an effect on your friendship and that you would like to remain friends if possible. If your friendship is strong this shouldn't jeopardize it. And you never know he may feel the same for you and hasn't said anything because he is concerned for the same reasons. You never know unless you try and you don't always want to be looking back wondering "what if".
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