hey im megan. im 16. i have a wonderful boyfriend i have been dating for about 8 months. i love him to death. i love to give advice. but i need alot of advice as well. alot of subjects interest me mostly relationships, family issues, mental health, sex, so much. i have experienced alot in my life, i have lost so many friends recently but it was for the better. i play volleyball for my high school team. i really dont like my family but i have realized that when something goes wrong your family is always there for you. you really dont know what you got till its gone. i love all kinds of music and i wear any clotheing that is comfortable. i am trying to grow out of my many bad habits. and hope i'll succed in the end. i love writing poetry and i hav written many and only can pick out maybe like 5 that i really love. my main topic is death lol sounds creepy but they are really good. i am emotional and im very sensitive. i have learned to not worry about what people think of me and what i do. i am a very fun person s and a very serious person at the right times. i can not trust anyone except 2 people in my whole life. its very sad but i can deal with it. life has its ups and downs and ive been threw plenty and i have no problem going threw more because thats life.
Ask me anything please
Bbyess :)
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im 14/f
yes.im afraid of breaking up with my bf. i mean, i have all this support from my friends but im more concerned about his feelings.i have perfect reasons for wanting to break up with him, but at the same time i dont. and when i do i dont kno if i shold call him or message him, or what.im scared hes gonna get sad and ill be the bad guy. what should i do (link)
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Well hun, breaking up isn't always easy ecpecally if he's sesitive. Normally guys won't be happy about break up unless they did it or unless they were gonna do it soon anyways. try not 2 worry about his feelings to much... if being with him is not wat YOU want then break up with him. Do it in person its not always easy but its the best way do it nicly and not mean. Don't wait any longer or you might feel bad or even more than you already do. Just be nice do it in person and well that's really all i can say. He probably will be sad but he will move on.
Hope I helped :)
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what are some things that might minimize my painful cramps? are there any foods that help?
help asap
thanx! (link)
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Yeah when i get my period it usually hurts there is medicine 2 help your cramps just ask your mom or ask your school nurse because the nurse will deffinatly have something.
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I am in love. I love my boyfriend soooo much and he loves me. We are both 16. We have been dating for 6 months. I know he loves me but sometimes he doesn't believe I love him. He is a year older and will be off to college soon. I don't want him to go but I don't want to stand in the way of his dreams either. He says he still wants to see me through college but we both know it will be hard. We BOTH end up in tears when we start talking about it. I want to do something really sweet for him on Valentines day but I don't know what. I need a way to tell him how much I love him b/c saying it doesn't always work. I need him to believe me. I don't know how to make that happen. Any Ideas?
Thanks!
~Eli (link)
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I know exactly how it is. If you truely love him maybe you should show him like physically. Buy him something he really likes or like show him physically, i sometimes think my boyfriend doesnt love me because well saying it doesnt always mean as much as actually procving it by doing something and me and him have been together for 6 months too. But buying him stuff and having sex with him shouldnt make him feel so loved because saying it 2 him should be enough or hold his hand kiss him hug him for a long time and even when he tries and pull away pull him back and dont let go show him how much you care about him. Maybe he will realize it.
Hope I helped :)
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What are some fun makeout positions? anything would be helpful! (link)
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Oh making out is so much fun. Lol me and my boyfriend made a list of places and ways 2 make out and well you could lay down and have her on top. Your could be on top. Oh heres a fun one, you're standing up and she jumps on you and wraps her legs around you and you hold her like your hands go on her ass and she puts her hands around your neck and she has 2 lean in and then you start making out. Pick her up and put her on a table or a counted and you stand and make out with her there are soo many ways those are just a few but they are very fun and easy if you hav the strength lol.
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ok.. this is going to sound really stupid but i'm deadly serious. i'm 15 and i've never actually got in with a girl. I really need advice because if i like somone and want to kiss them, doing it wrong will probally screw up my chances with them. I'm not ugly and i'm not weird, i've just never actually kissed a girl :/
advice would be really appreciated.
thanks! (link)
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that really doesnt sound stupid i gave my boyfriend his first kiss and he was 15 and he wasnt ugly or really weird and im younger than him. I didnt know how 2 do it either but i had an idea of how 2. Make sure you do it with a girl that is nice and wont care if you do it wrong. lol my first kiss i missed half his lip. First kisses are always funn and memorable. Dont worry 2 much about it. It's simply just pressing your lips 2gether wit another girls lips and tilting your head the oppisite way as them. It's so easy that you shouldnt worry 2 much. Just find the right girl and you'll be ok. I promise.
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So, my boyfriend and I recently started having sex on New Years Eve. We've done it twice, and
both times it was painful (obviouslly).
He told me to use hand lotion and rub it all over the condom to make it less painful. I was wondering, would this really work? (link)
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Well i hope you guys did stuff before the sex like fingering or handjob or giving him head because you need to be really wet for it 2 not hurt so much so either next time have him finger you or buy lubricant. Hand lotion is such a bad idea don't do it. But having sex will usually hurt the first couple times because his part is streching your insides out and it will usually hurt have him finger you and that will strech you out a bit or if that's not the case then buy lubricant.
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last night i found out i have mono .. yeh i know that sucks but anyways my boyfriend said that i could get some stuff online with his american express gift card he got for christmas. i found some stuff i wanted and i got him a sweatshirt. i didnt know the exact price for all the stuff last night when he asked so i told him id look in the morning and he asked what i got and when i said i got him a sweatshirt he got mad. we talked about it last night he said he was mad because i knew that he didnt want the sweatshirt and to get stuff for myself. but today he asked him if i cancelled the order so he didnt get the sweatshirt and you cant so i said i would go to the store and return it and then give him the money back for the sweatshirt and i told him how much the bill was and he got mad even though he told me i could use the whole card which was 100.00$ he said that im rude and disrespectful and that i dont listen. i was trying to be nice and get him a little present. i dont understand why hes so effing angry please help (link)
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awwww He sounds a little mean. Let it pass. tell him you're sorry and you wont do it again. And well if he is stil mad then ignore him until he's fine again. Don't worry guys are really weird and well i don't even understand why he got so mad but it'll all be over soon and he won't be mad anymore. hopefully
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I am in love with a guy
He used to hate me becuase of the rumors that were spread about me and him.
He got over it, and He talked to me for the first time in a longgggg time the other night.
A long time ago he said he regreted doing things that we did [if ya know what i mean]
Just the other night he said he didnt regret it and he was just angry with things.
He even said he would do it again.
He has a girlfriend , even while he was saying this stuff to me but said they were going to break up.
Since that night which was maybe 6 days ago, he hasnt talked to me.I figured he would talk to me like he used to but i dont understand
Im not going to talk to him, I dont want to annoy him.
What is the deal here?
15/f/ohio
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Yeah guys are very weird. Umm i say well don't do anything with him until him and his girlfriend are broken up. He might just be playing with your heartor he really means it but is scared 2 talk. Maybe his girlfriend found out and told him he can't talk 2 you anymore. I know that doesn't make 2 much sense but girls are weird 2. Its so hard 2 answer because i don't know him. Maybe he does drugs and he's been high and stuff like that lately. Or he could just be busy. Be careful like you don't wanna annoy him but maybe say hi and see if he's mad or something, you can tell alot from peoples voice tones, so say hi 2 him and listen carfully. Or just wait another day and see if he says something and if he doesnt then say something. He's obviously not the best guy if hes saying stuff like that when he has a girlfriend, or maybe im rong.
I hope i helped:)
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ugg i cant stop my skin from breaking out everywhere, its not from my period cause i got it like 2 weeks ago. Is there any methods to helthier clearer skin? please help me=)
p.s any advice helps! (link)
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i hav farely nice skin but i remember on my first day of middle school i broke out really badly the night before and that was a first for me. I tried using clearasil and washing my face every night really any skin care prodect works my friend uses acnefree and it works really good. just by some type of skin care product and use it and follow the directions and your skin should clear up.
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I'm a 15 yr old sophmore and i like a 13 yrold 7th grader, is this wrong? I skipped a grade so i dont think its that weird but im afraid my "friends" would if they found out. (link)
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No i don't think it's weird. My boyfriend is 3 years older than me. It's normal well kinda. If your friends are truely your friends and really care about you they won't care.
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ok i am a female 13
ok i like my sisters brother
i think he sorta likes me but he neve rliked a girl before except like celeb girls
okay, well thing is i am 13 he is 15
see age diff. and he says tht i am my friends only friend that is nice and cool.
i want him to like me the way i like him an i want to get to know him but we have ntohing in (school,projects,etc.) common so what should i do? (link)
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Heyy age difference shouldn't matter my boyfriend is 3 years older than me. You must have something in common. Getting to know people is easy. Just be yourself and ask them questions about life and anything, but don't ask personal questions. Ask him how his day was or if he plays any sports. Don't like approach him and straight out ask him if he likes you because if he doesn't you'll be sad well you might be. Flirt with him but don't make it so noticable maybe he's is oblivious so he won't notice but flirt with him and he might grow to like you and maybe some day you might be together.
Hope I helped :)
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